My "FRIENDS" never invite me anywhere?
I;ve known them since last year 7th grade. (8th grade now) They are literally the only group of people i really talk to at my school, and some of the girls call me "best friend" "friend" yeah whatever all that. But they have NEVER invited me anywhere since I knew them. I noticed that this year, cause my friend "T" had one of those "birthday sleepover parties" at some resort which was a three day sleepover, and of course, I WASN'T INVITED?? All of my "group" were. When they were talking about it on school Monday one of my good friends asked her why I wasn't invited and she said "she didn't think i'd be able to go" ?? I always get to go places and she said that. I didn't want to ask anymore of that so.. I just left it at that. Then today, the WHOLE GROUP went to the Elephant Bar and not one of them invited me! >:[ i had to find out they went from FACEBOOK NEWS FEED. I was so upset. They have done this a bunch of times now. And about two weeks ago they went to Chuckie Cheese for my friends little brothers birthday party and i wasn't invited again :( I had to hear about it on Monday when they bragged about what they did that weekend. But the thing is the girl who usually invites them in the group, they don't even like her that much but shes invited every time? What's up with that?? I don't know what to say to them but I don't wanna just walk up to them making a scene, or asking why they never invite me.. What can i do? I asked my sister... but she just said I obviously don't have real friends.. but there all the friends i really associate with at school ;[
My friends never invite me anywhere!?
Their not your friends then. You just need to go and find some other people or tell your "friends" that your feeling left out. Maybe they think they just can leave you there, but you need to go and tell them. I'd say go and find other friends and get close to them. That way, you won't be bored during summer. It's supossed to be fun and everything, and you can't do that without friends.
My friends never invite me anywhere....?
Oh...that's quite horrible. I'm sorry for you. Really, I don't think they could be called your 'friends'. Friends do not do that... There is nothing wrong with you. Now, either your 'friends' are just insecure and like to make you feel bad to make themselves feel better, or they're very ignorant and can't see how much this makes you upset. I think it's the first one - that they take you for granted and like to put you down. I think you should try and stop being friends with them. Hang out with some other people. Show them that if they're going to just ignore you, you don't care about them, you wouldn't want to be around them anyway. You don't have to confront them if you don't want to...just spend less and less time with them (if you spend any time with them already). And you don't have to treat them with hostility, or give them the cold shoulder. Do you think they'd notice or ask you if you just stopped spending time with them? If you don't think they would, then completely forget about them. They are really not worth it when they don't even acknowledge you exist. You'll make new friends, I know you will. And if your old friends ask why you don't talk to them as often you can either tell them truth or just say you're just drifting, moving from group to group to make new friends. Never think you are at fault when your friends seem to deliberately ignore you like that and don't explain why. Or be bitchy. If they had a problem with you they should talk about it with you, being quiet won't solve anything. I really hope it all works out for you! I've been in the same situation before....it's an awful feeling. You feel so lonely and unloved...like no one would care if you just disappeared. It was these feelings that made me contemplate suicide or running away...and I became very depressed. Don't leave it too long like I did...because it really does get worse. I was just telling myself that I was a boring, uninteresting, annoying person and that's the reason people don't like me....when really I was a completely normal, interesting girl, and my selfish and insecure 'friends' were causing me to feel like this, with their bullying. I really really do hope it works out for you! Merry Christmas and good luck for the new year. It will hopefully be a happy and fun year for you :)
My friends never invite me anywhere?
im 14 and i have a group of friends, all the boys are after them and they are quite popular, then there me and i know im not ugly but there always going out with out me, like they go places all together and just dont invite me, yet in school they are always like bff with me? im always there for them aswell. i have them over mine quite alot and out of 3 friends im my group (my closes) ive only been round one of thems, even though theve been round mine tones, ive known them for 2yrs. one of them dont really have mates round but the other always does. i dont get it? lonnie xox
My friends don't invite me anywhere..?
Okay so... My friends say how they will go out somewhere to a place... Or say how they will stay at each others houses but they don't bother to invite me...or they won't call me asking if they want to hang out somewhere. And then when it's the next day... They'll make a status on facebook about how it was so much fun because..today actually. a few of my friends had went to their youth group and they invited one of my friends to go as well... And I was right there when they had discussed going there, they did not bother to ask me whether I had anything on at that time or if I wanted to come as well. They just ignored me again. One of my friends she always says how it was great fun to do something with my other friends....and she makes me feel so left out and alone, I've known her since I was little...but she hardly invites me. Last week I had tried making plans with her on a weekend but she said she will be busy, but then I found out (by her status on Facebook) that she went to hang out with some of my other friends. I don't know why I am never invited... It might be becuase I am shy sometimes and I don't think I'm boring...or annoying them (at least I hope not). But every weekend I am stuck at home.... and I'm sick of it. I feel as though I am unimportant and just a friend to hang out with at school...but not outside school. :-/ Any help or advice?
Friends don't invite me anywhere..?
I sit at their table, talk to all of them, I've known for them for a few years, text them.... but they don't invite me anywhere. Honestly, they sometimes talk about plans, or funny moments they had when they hung out, right in front of me. I'm pretty sure I'm not a back up friend, since I've sat at their table all of middle school and regularly talk to them... but it makes me so sad and depressed. They put cheesy, ridiculous pictures on facebook of all of them... there were 100!! from a party I wasn't invited too because my friend's mom didn't have 'enough money' for all of us. But.. yeah.. I'm the only one NEVER invited. Just me. No one else. I dunno. Makes me feel terrible about myself. I'd try making new friends but I'm reallyyy shy and socially awkward towards people I don't know. I can be fun but it's hard to get me out of my shell and I never know what to say to new people. I'm horrible at keeping a conversation.. ugh. I hate that soooo much about myself. Makes life harder... /: What should I do? Thank you for any answers.. ten points, c'mon~?
None of my friends invite me anywhere?
my friends always hang out together (at least once every weekend) and I'm never invited. we talk all the time in school and they laugh at me and are really friendly and were really good friends. out of school, they all hang out together and don't invite me... I sometimes try to plan things while we're in school so I'll get invited and we start a group message together and go but when we're done that one thing, they literally take me out of the group message and make plans together like wtf??? I literally don't know what to do I have no other people to be friends with please help!
Why do my friends never invite me anywhere? Is it me, my personality, or is it because I'm quiet/too shy?
Maybe you need to talk to them, it could be some communication malfunction just like you said you’re shy and quiet maybe somewhere in the past you’ve told them you can’t hang out and that’s why they don’t invite you anymore cause they think you can’t so you need to talk to them and tell them that you want in and you want to hang out and i’m sure they’d let you.
Should I drop all of my friends who never invite me anywhere?
Short answer: Yes.Long answer: It would be the better choice for your own sake to let them go. From what you've said, they don't even take the time to consider you whenever they go out, or just straight up exclude you. It's doubly overdue if you barely communicate with them. Good friends are ones that acknowledge that while they are not required to include you in everything in they do, they must at least make an effort to include you in their outings- ESPECIALLY if other mutual friends will be present. It may be a little hard to let go of people you regard as your friends, but you have to remember that if they were your friends they would treat you as such. If you're feeling iffy and wanna give them the benefit of the doubt, invite them all out with you (separately) and see who declines/finds an excuse/flakes/doesn't reply. That'll be all the answers you'll need.Hope this helps!