My girlfriend keeps on saying I raped her?
You are messing with one screwed up chick. How can you be in love with an 18 year old. chances are you are not getting married. She sounds like a head case, and she's afraid she's pregnant therefore she will cry rape so she doesn't look like the @$$ Move on, you're 23 you don't need to be with this kid... she sounds like too much drama. unless you forced her and held her down you didn't rape her. she got on top of you and put it in her... if you had a gun to her head or a knife to her throat then ok you raped her... but if not tell her you can't see her anymore, and let her file charges, she didn't go to the hospital and get a rape kit done, it's your word against hers, I doubt she will hardly have a case against you.
My girlfriend said I'm ugly?
So we're 6 months together... And a few days ago, she left her facebook logged in on my phone, and i didn't realize it was hers, until i entered the inbox.. and then i was about to log out, until i saw my name in the first message... it was from her friend, she sent "that's sad, but ____ is very nice to you".. i HAD to enter the message! and what i saw kind of destroyed my self-confidence... my girlfriend was complaining to her friend about how ugly I am, and how she can't bear to look me in the face anymore.. she was complaining on how all her exes were at least decent looking and i look like ''a fu*king monster''... she also said that she's too ashamed to be seen with me in public, and asked her for advice.. but she told her she loves my personality.. but she also said that she'd never marry me or have children with me, because children might be awful-looking.. i am still recovering from the shock i never had much luck with girls, well until i met her (and i am 26).. i only had one girlfriend before her.. she's very pretty, fit, and lots of guys hit on her.. she's also fun and intelligent and all that perfect, but a little shy.. i've always wondered why she's with me, and now i'm really depressed What should I do?:( if i break up, i will never meet any other girl again.. trust me, i won't.. i was single 6 years before meeting her.. and i also love her too much.. i am even crying now, i can't stop crying, even though i'm a guy, yeahh.. i don't cry often..
My girlfriend said I broke her heart?
That all depends on what the argument was about. If she keeps saying you broke her heart then tell her she would be better off without you. Call her bluff as she sounds a bit self indulgent to me and wants you to suffer continually for breaking up with her. Dont be such a puppy with her, dont keep telling her you love her and never meant to hurt her. You need only say it once and mean it, and if she keeps on with the "poor me's" tell her to contact you when she wants to get back on track. I dont think she wants to break with you but you cant keep apologising for something, she needs to grow up.
Why does my girlfriend say i'll never find another girl like her???
? Why is it that sometimes when me and my girl argue she says i'll never find another girl like her. now i love my girlfriend more than anything and she is a very very cool and unique and beautiful but why does she say that? it makes me feel like im nothin when she says no other girl will put up with me and no other will do the things she did and she'll say how im gonna be like one of her exs who try to get back with her and call her everyday. it kills me when she say stuff like this cuz i know how crazy all her ex boyfriends act ova her so it really scares me. and she says i wont be able to get over her just like all her exs. i neva say things like that to her. one time she was talkin to me and talkin bout her exs and she sounded like she was feeling good about herself cause her exs cant get over her. why does she do this. I treat her right
I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said she will think about it?
1) how old is she 2) she may be playing "hard to get" 3) If she really liked you, what's there to think about? What this means is, she ALREADY knows her answer, and is making you sweat it out, (if her answer is yes), or is wondering how to let you down gently(if she decided no).....
My past girlfriends say I'm too passive and I don't act like a man. What can I do to improve myself if I can
Its a QUALITY to be passive and nice. The fact your former girl friends don't appreciate you for that,is their problem.. Apparently, you attract the opposite sex, or you wouldn't have had former girl friends.. If your current relationship is heading for an end, let it happen.. Believe me, if this relationship is right for you, it will salvage itself.. My question to you is, do you feel comfortable with you? Do you like yourself? You may never meet the girl of your dreams,or a total commitment relationship. Is that so bad? 50% of all marriages end in divorce. Just keep doing what your doing. If there is a girl out there for you, you'll find each other. You are who you are, don't think being nice and passive is bad, its not! The only thilng I would say for you to watch out for, is that your not taken advantage of, because of your nature. They say oppisites attract, but I think you might do well with a girl that is more passive and shares meekness as you do!! Good Luck , and keep searching.. SOLOMON