My mom thinks that i hate her?
Yes Moms are people too they like to be shown Love sometimes too and sometimes they get busy ask your mom if she can give you her undivided attention like during dinner or something or maybe even a girls night just you and her like doing your nails for example together and just talk !!! Most MOMS Love this! mom and me time with their kids Plus you seem like you can do with a little of your moms attention also!
I think i hate my mom...?
my mom never listens to what i have to say. she runs over whatever im saying in the middle of my sentence, and doesnt care what i have to say. she is never wrong, according to her, but she is always wrong, and i hate her attitude. she is not my real mom, she adopted me because my biological mother is lazy and cant seem to find time for me.. i feel like ive never had a mother, ive just had my dad and my sister.. i dont want to hate her; rather, i just want to find a way to cope with her, because she constantly makes snarky comments at me.. like i was rinsing out a pan SHE used (she never does her own dishes even though she says "now ill do the dishes..." then she says about ten minutes later "can you do the dishes?" -_- anyways i was rinsing out the pan and i was using an old sponge which was fine, just getting all the food out, then i was going to use the other sponge so the new sponge wouldnt get dirty, then she said "dont use that sponge, ive told you this multiple times" (she has told me this before, but i wasnt use it to wash it, i was only getting it clean, which i tried to tell her politely "o, im just using it to get the foo- "right, but ive told you before not. to use. the sponge." "i know, but im not-" *grabs sponge and interrupts me* "use the other sponge, im tired of telling you this" *i hold my tongue in my cheek to not say anything* "dont make a face at me, im not in the mood" .... ugh! could you stop talking and just LISTEN?! i feel really lonely, and it sucks because she always threatens my dad with divorce, and she calls me stupid and tells me i need to clarify things with her and she makes fun of how i talk(and i talk normally, i dont get mad at anyone except my mom, i am very social, i get really good grades, etc.) she makes fun of how i walk because i walk really loud, ugh! it really hurts and i cant telll her anything because she always makes me cry.. i just avoid her because she always upsets me... i dont know, i think im just a stupid teenager rebelling or whatever, maybe not, but any thoughts? similar problems? please comment below advice or thoughts on the topic... 10 points to thoughtful answer, and ill answer yours(:
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