Would you be mad if your so called BEST FRIEND didn't tell you Happy Birthday?
Okay so today is my birthday! I do not have many friends and family! I have a small family! My family wished me happy birthday birthday and few close friends but my Best Friend didn't even text me happy birthday! like I really do not care as long as my family told me! But I told her happy birthday and I always been there for her when she was having issues with her boyfriend and stuff! I would of just suspected her to say something! Would you be mad?
My friend is having a sleepover/birthday party the same day I am. My friends are having to choose between us?
I just found out that one of my friends is having her birthday party/sleepover, the same night I'm having my birthday party/sleepover. Its the only night I can have it, and there is no way that I can change it to another night, or week. I found out, because one of my friends received invitations to both our parties. She won't change the date, and doesn't want to have a joint party with me (even though we invited the same people). Her party sounds so much cooler than mine, because she's taking them out to eat, going to the mall, and doing all kinds of stuff that I can't because it costs too much. I've been working hard for the last few months to get my house ready so that I can finally have a birthday party again (its been 4 years since I had my last party). I wasn't invited to her party, and so far only one of my friends have RSVP and its this weekend. What can I do to make my party sound like fun? I was planning on having some friends over, watching a movie, and just hanging out and playing games, we don't get to see each other often because we all go to different schools. I'm feeling really depressed right now, because I was really looking forward to having some friends over again. What can I do? She's making it sound like its a competition between us, and making our friends choose.
Today's my birthday, but no one remembered. Does this mean they don't care?
On my 30th birthday about six months ago…not one person from my immediate family called me. In fact, not one person from my family called me at all until I reminded them (very late in the day) that it was my 30th birthday (like 10pm—it’s almost time for bed—late).I felt pretty bad about that.I can understand how you might feel.I would not try to “stop the sadness.” Just feel what you’re feeling. There’s nothing wrong with that.Also, let your friends know it made you feel sad.I let my family know. I don't recommend saying to your friends what I said to my family since our situations are slightly different, but do tell them that you were sad no one remembered your birthday, and you wish that they would next time.I told my family that I would not bother calling them on their birthdays, if they couldn’t be bothered to remember mine.They didn’t like to hear that, but they couldn't argue with it. Again, I’m not saying you should take this same approach with your friends. I would be less bitter than I was with my family.Just let your friends know it upset you that they didn’t remember.In the case with my family, they were “repeat offenders” so I had lost my patience a bit. If this is the first time your friends have forgotten then I wouldn’t get too disappointed just yet. Give them another chance.
What is the best birthday present you have ever received?
When I was 6 years old all I wanted was to have a birthday party at McDonald's. Everyone was having their parties there. I was over the moon happy when my mom agreed to let me have a party there.The night before my party I took a bath. While I was in the bath I noticed these small red dots on my stomach. I was petrified! I finally was getting the birthday party I wanted and then this happens. I had no idea what the red bumbs were so I hid them when my mom came in to check on me. I thought it wasn't a big deal as they would go away and I'd be fine in the morning.The next morning I woke up so itchy all over. I jumped out of bed and ran to the mirror. The worst catastrophe stared back at me. I had chicken pox! My mom immediately cancelled my party. I was devastated. To make it worse, now I had to spend my birthday alone as no one wanted to be around me.I was wallowing in my sadness and disappointment in my room. I heard a knock on my door and there stood my grandma. She handed me a happy meal and gave me a huge hug. She said if I couldn't have my party at McDonald's, we'd bring McDonald's to my party.She made my birthday so special. I don't even remember the gift she gave me. They didn't matter as she gave me the best gift ever which was her love. We had such a wonderful time together and it still makes me smile to this day.
Today is my birthday and no one wished me "Happy birthday." I feel really sad and unimportant. What can I do to make myself feel better?
First of all, Happy birthday, Dear….!!!!Hope you had thanked god to give you another precious year.As come to your question, Birthday is a thing that makes us excited and happy. But it is not necessary that all have to wish you. Sometimes people forgot the day even I forgot my best friend’s birthday. But that doesn’t mean that she doesn’t important in my life. Even we had spend the entire day of her birthday together and I couldn’t remember that this is the day of her birthday. Still, whenever I am in trouble, my mind recall her name first and same for her’s. This happens sometimes, all have not the great power of mind to remember things.Secondly, others are just temporary in your life. Only your parents will stand besides you whenever you are in trouble. So, why we feel sad for not getting wishes from temporary person.Thirdly, our happiness shouldn’t depends on others. If you want to celebrate your happiness you can celebrate by your own. You can do whatever you want to do by your self from dancing to going alone to restaurant.According to me, One should take a blesses from their own parents by touching their legs on their birthday. Because they gives blesses from their heart. One should thanked god for everything what he/she achieved till now. And make a promise to yourself which you want to change in your life. For instance, If u think you are getting angry easily then you can make promise to yourself of not to get angry easily. This things are more important than fake friends.And if you still feel that the person who are important to you doesn’t wish you then you can simply message them and talk with them as usual. Because its your birthday, do whatever which makes you happy.But don’t be dependent on others for anything. Others are just fake. There are rarely people who will stand by you whenever you want them most except parents and siblings. Never feel shy to do things which makes you happy.And you shouldn't worry about the wishes on social media. If you feel bad that no one had wish you on social media, you can erase your birthday from social media. But you shouldn't affect your happiness by such a little things.
What was your worst birthday ever?
I think im having the worst birthday ever today. Noone got me presents, my dad chose to go to work rather then spend the day with me, I have NO friends to spend the day with, my mom saw me sad so she made me stay home instead of ruining her day by me crying, my brother moved to college 8 hours away yesterday, & noone even bothered to get me a birthday cake. Everyone is acting like its just any ordinary day. All I have to spend birthdays with is my family, because I dont have any friends, and they are all at work. Im just with my mom, and shes mad at me for being sad. Now im in my room, crying, on my birthday, with nothing to do & noone to spend it with. This is the second year in a row where my birthday sucks. Am I the only one who has had a horrible birthday?