Why should I live if I don't want to?
From a pure rational perspective: Living creatures are that: things that happen to live. There seems no big purpose in the cosmos.There is no law of nature that forbids ending your life. And I can understand that under certain circumstances people wish to end their life.BUT!Be responsible. If you have responsibilities in your life (like having an under age kid): handle them first and don’t leave a mess for those people who will be remaining after you’re gone.Be sure you excluded depression as a reason for your wish to die. Depression can often be treated, so : seek help! There are very good psychologists and psychiatrists on this planet that can actually help.Remind yourself that such an action is irreversible. Of course a dead person can’t have regrets, but many people who survived a suicide attempt are thankful they survived.Are there things you really wish to do? Or maybe move to a different place and start your life anew? Maybe you can help some good cause, or find some personal attachment or a good cause that is worth living for.In my country, people who are in deep, long suffering, can have their life terminated (euthanasia) and it’s legal. (You do need to write it down, in case the described circumstances prevent you from formulating this will). But Belgium is a quite secular country, and not many other countries are so liberal or progressive on this.TL;DR. I don’t think a person should be living or forced to live against his/her will.
If you do not want to live anymore, why is it wrong to die?
Because you do not took birth by your own choice so you do not have the choice to die on your own. Whenever man has tried to intervene the laws of nature, he caused devastations.end of body did not means end of pain and sufferings. There are calculated amount of happiness and sorrows allotted to each living being which he has to go through.Being disciple of Lord Shiva one can reduce the feeling of pains by acquiring proper knowledge of life and self .So do not die because disintegration of this body is must to happen. Better learn to live from your cosmic guru ,your generator .
I'm not depressed, I just don't want to live anymore?
I know it's hard to convince people that I'm not depressed when I say I don't want to live anymore but it is true. The only thing that keeps me around is I feel like I'm going to miss something, I'm scared of the process of dying, and I don't want to hurt my family. If it weren't for these 3 factors I would have offed myself by now. I don't mean it to be morbid like there is something inherently wrong with my life. I'm just tired of life. It's the same thing every single day. Eat, work, sleep, with an occasional day off to do something that isn't even exciting. I'm not one for routine and I feel like life just drones on. I'm so passed all of these distractions that are supposed to pass off as "living life". Sometimes I wish I was like everyone around me that are just so easily distracted. I feel like I've pondered on this for so long now that I've seen through all of it. Everything is just a distraction to reality. Most people go to school to get a career so they can raise a family. This is what it seems like life has taught me. I don't want this life. But without that life I don't see any other point. To aimlessly do a little here and there and then what? I always get advice to "Just have fun!" but they aren't seeing what I'm seeing. Nothing is fun anymore to me anymore. The only thing I really like is listening to music, but, what, am I just supposed to just sit around on this planet and listen to music for the next 50 years?The thought just scares me and death scares me.
I don’t want to die. I don’t want to live. Is there some place else I can be?
You are not alone with such desire.Benjamin Franklin once said, “Most people die at 25 and aren't buried until they're 75.”Majority of the people you see around are actually only pretending to be alive though they are dead inside.They don’t want to live because they don’t find any reason to live.They don’t want to die because they fear death.Let me suggest you two steps to get over this dilemma.1: Find a Reason to LiveYou lose the joy of living when you don’t have a reason to live.The most unfortunate people are not those who don’t have money.The worst life is for those who don’t have a purpose to live.Most of us feel trapped because we have so many obligations i.e. to take care of our spouse, children, parents , organizations etc.Now imagine for a moment that no one needs you.It does not matter to the world whether you exist or not.No one cry when you die.No one misses you when you are not around.No one needs your moneyNo one want your company.We can all make ourselves redundant in this world if we cease to be useful to this world.We have to give something to the world because we need this world for our existence.Let us find out what we can give to this world and make that the purpose of our life.The day you find this purpose, you will find the desire to live for the world and for yourself.2: Find a Reason to DieWhether you love this world or hate;One thing is certain,You have to die one day.Whether you are scared of death or not;One thing is certainYou have to die one day.Whether you are healthy or you are sick;One thing is certainYou have to die one day.Death is inevitable for everyone who is born in this world.Once you know that death is inevitable, why not find something worth dying for?Why should waste your death?Once you find a good reason to die, even your death becomes meaningful.This is the right place to be.
I want to live with my mom full-time?
Okay so my parents got divorced when I was 7 years old and I am 13 now. I'm not sure why my parents got divorced because they both don't like to talk about it. My dad was a professor and recently married one of his students that he's been with for a while. She's 11 years younger than him. She has a daughter that is just a couple days older than me. They are both okay, but they aren't particularly nice. My step-mother makes barely any money at all and she completely relies on her parents (her mom pays for her iPhone, paid for her house, car, an plane tickets). This really ticks me off because my mom's family has tons of money yet m mom still works hard and earns everything for herself. I have to share a tiny room with my step- sister and my dad expects us to be best friends. We aren't anything alike at all! My dad's family is from Philidelphia and we go every other year. We have already seen the liberty bell and betsy Ross' house but my step mom wants to see all that stuff and I told my dad I didn't want to go back there just for her and he got super mad! I want to live with my mom full time and she is okay with it, it's just that I don't know ow to tell my dad and come about changing the schedule legally! Please help! I don't know what to do! Ps she just got a ring and she brags about it and talks about it all the time even though the setting her mom gave her and the diamond is half the size that my Mom's was. She's 35 and my dad is 46.
How can i tell my dad that i don't want to live with him anymore?
I'm 14, live in Arizona, and want to live with my mom full time. I don't really feel at home when I'm at my dad's. I am always comfortable and happy with my mom. At my dad's there are 3 little brothers. I love them, but i really can't stand it anymore. There is always yelling, screaming and fighting. Not just them, but my dad also. I personally believe that the yelling and threats that my dad deals out are verbal abuse. My step mom just stands there/says the same sort of stuff as if shes trying to "impress" my dad. I don't have anything in common with any of them and I'm sick of having to go there half of every week. I was hoping for some advice as how to tell my dad the way i feel and how to deal with it all. Thank You,
How does it feel to live a life you don't want to live?
Very dark, and very tired. Everything tires you, nothing improves it. Hobbies are worthlessly picked up and dropped. People get bored of you because you’re perpetually boring and have nothing to get passionate about, so friends all become acquaintances. You can’t share in anything. You go to sleep later and later, or earlier and earlier, just trying to escape, but you still have to wake up. It makes you bitter and quiet, and lose all sense of who you were before. An automaton goes through your days. You are running, but getting nowhere. The person in the mirror, a stranger. Everyone around you, a ghost. You lose track of time, and eventually either you die, or somehow manage to pull yourself back up. Not that there’ll be anything for you once you drag yourself out of that life. Some people find the blank slate to be comforting, but while you’re living in a life you don’t want to live, death seems like the easier option.That’s how it feels.