Can someone just throw you out of the house?
Sorry, I missed how long you have lived together / if the house is in her name... definately call an attorney listed as "free consultation" in the phone book. In my circumstance, once my things were in the house, the other person couldn't throw me out without giving me 30 days written notice, then go to court and file a petition for eviction which usually gives you another 30 days. If the attorney agrees, an idea is to wait until she leaves and move back in... though if you've been gone a while it may be more difficult. As far as shelters, open your yellow pages to women's services - mine had shelters listed. Best of luck, Wildflower
Husband makes major purchases without talking it over with me.....?
Hi, this is kind of a long story but I hope some of you will read it and respond. I guess I'm just really needing to talk about this more than anything because It's really got me down. My husband own a business in which he owns expensive equipment. A few years back he made a major purchase ($20,000.00) without talking about it with me first. He bought the item then told me. It made me very angry and I told him never to do it again or I would consider divorce. Ok....here's the thing that's bothering me. Last Sunday on the way to eat, he tells me about a major purchase that he is thinking of making ($50,000). After talking about it, I agreed. I was FINE with it until the insurance guy innocently calls me on Wednesday and told me that my husband called in all the information about the purchase on the FRIDAY before he told me about it! - He actually made the deal on the Friday before he tells me! I love my husband with all my heart but I have a decision to make. Divorce or stay.
29 weeks pregnant and wondering if this is okay?
Are you past the 2 week bed rest period? And if so, by how far? If you are only a day or so after, then it might be wise not to go, but to still take things easy for a few days. If you're a way past, then go, and have fun. Take things easy, and don't rush yourself. You know how to look after yourself, but remember the obvious things like plenty to drink, and making sure you stop if you need to. I'm in the UK, so have no idea how long the route of the parade is, but if it's quite a long way, be prepared for the next day - the walking is likely to make your baby shift position, and drop down, which can feel uncomfortable. You have to put your health, and that of the baby, first, but if you are past the bed rest restrictions and you feel ok, then go and have a great time! EDIT - just noticed your additional details, go and have fun! Look after yourself the way you would if you were doing anything out of the ordinary, but don't let being pregnant stop you having a bit of fun!
My girlfriend looks ugly without makeup?
So we were hanging out at my house and it was thunderstorming really bad and she didn't want to drive in it because it was pretty late. Surprisingly enough, my mom said it was okay if she slept over, as long as she stayed in my sisters room. Of course, she didn't, and came to stay with me. So she excused herself to brush her teeth...and well, let me explain. My girlfriend is mixed, with dark eyes, dark, arched eyebrows like Megan Fox, and long dark hair. She's pretty tan, with some freckles here and there, but they aren't usually very visible. I guess I realized why. So she emerged from the bathroom, and I felt my face drop. She looked the same...but different. Gone were the super arched, dark eyebrows. Now they were just...normal, I guess. Less dramatic. Her eyelashes were short and hardly visible, and her eyes seemed like holes in her face, just kinda chillin there. I could've dealt with that...but the skin. She had major acne-scars going on there, mostly on her cheeks, and some on her chin. Her forehead and nose was clear, and the freckles were more obvious, which was cute. But....god. I knew she had slight acne problems, but nothing like that. You would've thought I'd of noticed that much makeup. What am I supposed to do? I'm not trying to sound shallow, but god, if you could SEE the difference you'd be shocked. She looks the same, but younger, less exotic and feminine. I told her she looked beautiful, but part of me wanted to offer her a new skin care routine. What do I do? How do I stop being such a jerk and accept her for who she truly is, underneath all the fake stuff? HELP ME. I love her, and I want to see past her flaws.
My boyfriend lost his mom 2 days ago and he wont talk to me. PLEASE read- its long but i really need your help
At this time, please don't take anything he does/says personally. He is going thru grief that only someone who's been there can relay to. I know, I lost my 14 yr. old granddaughter not long ago & KNOW all you go thru from the loss of a loved one. They are no doubt just plain numb like we all were. There is so much you have to do & it's all heartbreaking. Funeral arrangements, the service, flowers, it's just overwhelming. PLEASE understand that whatever he does at the moment has nothing to do w/his feelings for you. Just very unfortunate your situation happened when it did & now this rite after the two of you hadn't gotten the opportunity to get things straightened out first. Regardless of what happened between you two, he knows you, knows how much you care about him. At least you did email him saying you were sorry & how much you love him. So he does have your message re that. I don't know what's going to transpire between you two before the funeral, but if you really were that close, I'd do my very best to be there & attend the funeral if you can. IF you knew his mom & cared about her, you should go out of respect for that, but you also should put forth an effort to at least be there for him regardless. Above all, try to understand he is going thru unbelieveable grief & allow that to take priority. Don't hold him to anything at this time. Like I said, he's no doubt completely numb. Just let him know you're there for him if he needs you, which I'm sure he already knows. Take care & I wish you the best.
Ok I know this sounds wrong, but euthenizing a rat?
Sounds like you need a good course of antibiotics like baytril and doxycycline or my favourite for stubborn URI's/pneumonia etc is baytril and zithromax (I get the prescription filled at the pharmacy and they split the dose in half so I have a month's worth of meds). The hair loss could be mites, since a sick stressed rat is very prone to mites (which are naturally on a rat, but in times of illness can flare up) This can be very easy to treat as well. Revolution is my choice as least stressful, most successful and the easiest to use. The weight loss is most likely from him using all his energy to breathe. A bad URI, especially when there's costal breathing (breathing through the abdomen/flank) can make a rat drop weight fast. I put my sickies on a supplement of baby cereal, Ensure and a bit of Olive oil in it and possibly some Nutrical, Enervite or Ferretvite (they are all basically the same energy formula). At such a young age (18 months is middled-aged to me) he has a lot of chances to pull through but may need 3 weeks plus of meds since he's been sick so long. As you have probably learned, you cannot cure myco but you can definitely treat the opportunistic secondary infections that the myco flare up lets in. If/when you do need to consider euthanizing, there is NO humane, painless way to do it at home. You could call vets and ask how much (make sure they gas first until the rat is unconscious before doing the needle stick in the abdomen or heart) and most animal shelters will take in small animals to euthanize at a lower price, but I don't believe they gas first so it can be more painful, but still better than euth'g at home.
Is it rude to have sex when visiting someone elses house? What about when you have guests at your house?
In other people's homes you behave in ways that are not offensive to them or embarrassing to yourself. You make those decisions on an individual basis. My wife and I sometimes have sex when we are staying at the houses of friends; sometimes we don't. I imagine it is the same for people who come and stay with us. It's not a big deal. Adults are generally sexually active. All other adults know this. People generally accept that couples are married or unmarried and their relationships are their own business.As you get older you will not worry about it so much.