Why are Chinese waiters/waitresses so rude?
Wow theres some angry posters here. I don't know, I don't encounter it. I DO usually speak a little Chinese to them and then they are always extra helpful and friendly. They really bend over to make sure I'm happy in fact. No, I'm not Chinese, I'm White, White, White, blond, blue eyed etc. I know Chinese because I go to China for work so it was/is worth my while to keep learning and improving my Mandarin. I guess my little show of interest and respect for their culture gets me back a huge amount of respect and kindness in return? I also just smile and try to be patient and friendly with all the people who wait on or serve me. Its their job to wait on people all day, I would hate that job, I don't want to make it worse for them.
Boyfriend and friend checking out good looking waitress on my birthday?
so i went to a restaurant/pub on my 21st birthday with my long term boyfriend and best guy friend, who also happens to be my guys closest friend. throughout our time there they continued to talk about how cute and good looking our waitress was. they kept saying she had amazing legs and body and cute face and such. i was ok with at first but they continunue to talk about her all night as they had more to drink. and then they talked about all of these other girls they thought were good looking that we know. i started to find it rude especially since they kept going on about it and completely ignored me. when i did tell them to stop they replied that i could check out all the guys i want. was this rude? i guess i was slightly insecure about the leg comment as well since one time my boyfriend commented on my legs and said he wished they were more toned. guys: why do you check out girls in front of your girlfriend? is whay my boyfriend did rude? girls: how do YOU deal with it?
Where can i take my girlfriend on a date?
i want to take my girl friend to a very nice place where we can have fun and celebrate her b-day? anny suggestions?oh io dont care about price its al covered just name any good amusement parks or restaurants or whatever goes through your head. thank you for your help!!
Do restaurants care if I buy my underage girlfriend a drink?
The average cost of a fine for serving a minor is $12,000 a shot and the possible lose of their license to serve. I think the restaurant cares... The server is a different story. They may not, but they may also not be aware that they too could be held responsible when it comes that fine. Your best course of action is to not try. If you attempt and I turned down, you'll be under suspicion by the staff for the rest of your meal... making your dining experience unpleasant. However, it may not be as illegal as you think. Depending on the state underage consumption may not be illegal. Purchasing and serving is, but since alcohol laws are set at state level 19 allow underage possession and consumption. States that don't prohibit alcohol consumption my minors: CA, NV, WT, NM, OK, IA, MO, AR, KY, MS, FL, GA, SC, NY, NH, MA, RI, CT and MD http://alcoholpolicy.niaaa.nih.gov/index...
My friend always expects me to pay for her?
I always dread going out with her because of this reason, but as I have very few friends and she's currently my closest friend, I'm not sure what to do in this situation. Whenever we go out to a bar or a pub for drinks, she always expects me to foot the bill for some, most, or all of her tab. Like we'd be ordering, and she would just kind of stand there and not reach for her wallet or anything, expecting me to make the first move. Or if she does reach for her wallet, she'd do it very slowly so as to kind of pressure me into covering her. Whenever we go out to have dinner, and we receive the combined bill (restaurants in my region by default give only combined bills, unless you specifically ask for separate bills), she will habitually chip in only "whatever she has on her" at the moment -- this could mean 80% of her share of the bill, or all the way down to something like 20%, meaning I would have to cover the rest of her expenses for her. Or, she'll say that she "doesn't have that much cash on her" and will offer to pay for the tips instead (which are only 15% of the entire bill). This is why I want to start asking the waiters for separate checks from now on, but at the same time, I'm kind of shy about asking for it in front of my friend as I don't want it to come across as a passive-aggressive jibe or anything (she's one of the very few friends I have and I don't want to lose her). Besides that, I always remember her birthday and buy her dinner on her birthdays, while I receive nothing from her during *my* birthdays. Only once has she ever paid anything for me, and that was when she purchased a $2 pack of gum at a convenience store, and gave me like 3 sticks of gum out of the 15 pieces. And she acted like she did me a huge favor afterwards too. This has been going on ever since we became friends (a long time ago, like 9 years ago). We are both also in a similar financial situation, as students. She knows that sometimes my parents would give me extra spending money (so that's probably why she thinks it's OK to take advantage), but then she also knows that I have to pay for my own tuition, utility bills, etc... I really like this friend in all other respects -- it's just that the money thing is reeaally starting to annoying the hell out of me. I don't know how to raise up the issue with her.