My sister got jumped at school help plz?
Well yesterday my sister who is a senior got jumped by another senior girl who is like 6 months older, that girl will be 18 on december 2. my sister got jumped from the back and wasnt able to defend herself. she was sent to the hospital, got a broken nose, black eyes, bumps on her head, bruises on her body. The securities at hemet high got there way late, and the fight was almost in front of the main office. They got detained and the other girl told the police man that my sister was talking crap which she didnt and idk what else she said, my sister didnt really said much bcuz her english is not that good and she was scared and crying. Well the police guy said that the other girl sounded convincing and he didnt rlly protected my sister and was mean to her. That girl was making fun of my sister on facebook.. Tootsie Alexandra Gonzalez "she was on the floor screaming.& she pulled my shirt down and i flashed everyone for like 3 seconds hahaha & yeah im happy her face is swollen (=. i got fined and i have court on jan 18 fmll . & drea im still walking okay,, lol **** she deserved it trust this ***** has it coming major time ! & trust this aint over." she only got 5 day suspension and a fine. but i dont think that it is enough and she's getting more girls involved that want to jump my sister. im a male 20 yrs old so i cnt do anythin about it but it pisses the **** out of me that the cops are on the other girls side and that they wont do anything about it. there are threaths on facebook and all. what can we do legaly to protect my sister and have that girl come down. plz help.
How can I help my sister?
Her car broke down and wants me to take her kids to school, which is out of my way 30 miles there and 30 miles back. I tried to help her by taking them and while they were in school I wanted to help her look for another car, since the one she had broke down and was totaled. She didn't want that help and started playing victim. So I left and she had her friend pick them up. Now that friend gets them to school late and she wants me to take them, especially because one has a field trip she says. I don't trust her at all and she tries to emotionally take advantage of me. She doesn't talk to me about her situation but just wants help, how can I help her if she doesn't listen because I'm younger than her? Right now I'm ignoring her and she knows it because she used facebook messenger that tells her when I viewed it and she last sent a "?". It stresses me out.
How can i help my sister make friends?
i'm in 8th grade at a very small school and my sister is in 7th grade and just arrived at my school from a very large public school. Her two old best friends from like 5th grade told her last year at her old school that they no longer wanted to be her friend because she was "weird". she was so hurt that she came to my school but now she has not one single friend! i feel like i should do something to help so i gathered up all my 8th grade friends and we have tried to get her to hang out with us so she wont be alone but she just doesnt want to. she is pretty shy and not very confident since what happened at her old school and i dont no what to do. please give me some advice!
My talented 15-year-old sister isn't doing well at school. How can I help her?
I had a friend back in college who would drink 6/7 nights a week. Every time I saw him he was either drunk or high or both. This destruction led to the decline in attendance of lectures and, subsequently, bad grades.The frustrating part was he was 100% brilliant. He scored a 35 on his ACT and was a national merit scholar (a full ride he eventually lost). Everyone knew he was the brightest and smartest in the room at any point. And no matter how hard we tried, we couldn't turn him around.Enter Jenna - the girl that paid attention. She was a beautiful, smart, and witty young woman that most guys would die for. But most importantly, she had her head on straight. They got close, became friends, and then started dating. He continued his destructive behavior, however, she began to tire of his ways.She gave him an ultimatum. Either discontinue his destructive ways or she was to leave him behind.As much as he loved partying, he loved her more. He straightened up, finished his degree with fantastic marks, and is now onto becoming a lawyer.It sounds like your sister is incredibly bright and will achieve great success. (By the way you are an incredible sibling to want to help). You need to find something in her life she values more than her said distractions(too much Facebook, etc). Only then will she unrelentlessly get back on track.Understand and try to help her on the journey. Be her guide.Hope this helps.- D. Canyon
My sisters are planning to skip school?
Tell your mom If something bad happens and you're just along for the ride as well it could be just as bad for you. Listen sweetie I know no one likes to be considered a snitch but in certain circumstances (this being one) there needs to be a person that could intervene and prevent something tragic from happening so many things could go wrong like an accident or this girl may do drugs and try and influence your sisters into using, this girl could hang with a bad crowd and someone from that group might hurt you girls by fighting with you girls or some guys might try and touch you all inappropriately...etc. the list can go on and on but I imagine you get the picture. You are a bright girl and you know this is wrong don't let (momentary) lack of better judgment or fear of your sisters being upset stop you from doing the right thing here. DON"T betray your mothers trust.
My 16 year old sister is skipping school?
im 15 and my sister renee is skipping school.. she drives into the parking lot of her high school then a few seconds later drives away for the rest of the day until its time to go home. i love her dearly.. and she would hate me if i told mom and dad. plz help me.
My sister is failing out of college, what can I do to help her?
I'm very concerned about her. She has a lot of comprehension problems, and she currently failed all her classes last term at community college. She is 21, almost 22. I am 18, and attending a 4 year, and have my life planned out pretty well, but she is has no clue what she is doing. I don't think she is applying herself well enough, but she tells me that she is trying as hard as she can, but when she is in lecture or doing homework she has no idea what she is doing. I don't know whether or not she can try harder, but to me it seems as though she can. The sad alternative is that she drops out... and who knows what could happen next. She also is very immature for her age, which makes her appear incapable to employers (which is why she hasn't been able to find a job even though she's been looking for the past year). I need to know what I can do to help her, because she is on the verge of ruining her one opportunity to turn her life around and accept responsibility. My mom is very ineffective at motivating her, as her best attempts boil down to becoming angry at her and calling her a failure. This is not constructive, so I feel compelled to help, because I'm worried about her. I know in the end it's going to boil down to her getting her act together to fix her life, but is there anything I can do? Are there classes she can take to fix her comprehension problems? If you have any suggestions please let me know. I don't want my sister to become homeless or to become dependent on my parents for the rest of her life.
A hard question about my 14 year old sister failing school....HELP!!?
Ok, my 14 year old sister failed 2 classes in her 8th grade year. My parents found this out yesterday and here is the issue...they offer summer school and if she passes that it will allow her to move up to 9th grade and go to the high school....but what lesson is really learned there? She spent her entire school year talking about and to boys. She never did any homework although she was told to. SHe basically screwed off the entire year. My mom told her over and over that if she failed there would be no summer school. Now My sister thinks she should go to summer school. My mom is a softie and is thinking about it. I vote NO. Let her take her 8th grade year over. And I know that is mean and I would feel really bad for her. But she isn't going to learn anything being pushed on to 9th grade. Her excuse for failing is too much responsibility at home. She does have a lot...we all did....but there is plenty of time for her to get some studying and homework done.
How can I help my sister to improve her grades?
Your sister needs to sit down with an adult educator (a professional tutor, a teacher, a learning specialist, etc.) and have them see how she organizes her thoughts, learns, and prepares for an exam and then show her how she in particular can do it better, i.e. targeted advice. She also should be evaluated (free in the US through public schools) for a learning disability. I am not saying she has one, but it is worth looking into since she is motivated. The fact that her desire is high, but that written directions and on how to improve hasn't helped her makes me think this is a possibility. A learning disability is identified when there is a disparity between a student's intelligence and outcomes if the effort is put in. Find someone excellent and pay the money for this evaluation if it isn't available through the public school. It is critically important for your sister to feel successful (and be successful).
How can I make my sister more engaged in schoolwork and homework?
Switch off the television and all the other entertainment devices and tell her that they won't be going on again until she has completed her homework properly, you will be checking. Be prepared for some acting out, but you are the adult. Be absolutely firm and don't give in to her tantrums. Don't let her try to negotiate anything like 'I'll do it later, I promise'. Insist that she does it now, and when she's finished and it's done properly, she can watch television or whatever, and she'd better get started because the sooner she starts, the sooner she's finished. I don't think this is overstepping any boundaries. You are the adult and in charge. So be in charge.Say you are happy to help your sister and you try as much as you can but in the end none of will matter if your younger sister cant back it up later in college so flat out doing her work for here will make things worse down the road. Scholarships dont last forever especially if you dont uphold strong grades in college. You feel hurt when you get called selfish because your not, you just have your priorities straight. Let her know you understand her fears of money for college and make sure she knows your there for her and that everything will turn out alright as long as you stick together and work together. If everyone does their own job it will all come together.