Should I cut off my best friend?
Me and my best friend met in our sophomore year and we really became friends that got each other's back, know what's what's wrong, share the same interest on different levels, best friend things. But now 3/4 in to junior year. It seems like I want to cut off our relationship for several reasons. My best friend and I are total nerds, more him than me. What makes us different is that, I grew up and he didn't. I started to stop watching anime frequently and drastically cut my gaming to focus on school, hobbies, Driving, jobs, social life and clubs because being a teenager is fun but you have to be prepared to be in the real world after high school, you can say I'm ambitious. He on the other hand, is scared to grow up (and he told me this in person) and has no life (it hurts to say it). He prefers to watch anime literally everyday and play games instead of learning how to drive or stop being lazy and get a life (even his dad told me this). We are different in the most ironic ways like how I'm chubby (5'6 210lbs) but very athletic, social, and a hobbyist. He is skinny, not active at all, no social life and likes to game and watch anime. I hate saying this because he is my best friend, I've tried helping him in many ways but all he tells me is that it's "too hard" or "i don't feel like doing it" and we slowly drifted apart. L I want to end this relationship because I don't want to be friends with someone who hasn't grown up and is comfortable having no life. What should I do?
Should I cut off my best friend?
To start out we re both girls in high school and have been best friends since our early elementary school days. I went to a different school my eighth grade year and during that year she changed a lot. I came back so we could go to the same highschool together. She went from being my sweet best friend that I could talk to about anything to this girl who wants to get drunk and high at any and every opportunity. Problem is I m not like that. I m still a good girl like my younger self just kinda more mature I guess. We rarely hang out or even talk at all. The only time she really talks to me is if she just went through a breakup and needs somebody to tell her she ll b fine and there s always other people, or when she wants to brag about how drunk/high she got at some random persons house or party. Most of the time she insults me at any chance but swears it s in a joking way. I ve tried to make plans with her but she ll either say she s busy or make the plans and cancel last minute.....every time. I m just really over trying to be her friend and continue to try to save our friendship if she s just going to act like I mean nothing to her. I don t want to be her friend anymore but I don t want her to be mad or talk crap about me to her other friends and stuff. Advice?
I cut off ALL my friends after high school?
Yeah every high school I would go to I would cut off my old friends now I only have one but if they were your real friends you can ask them out for lunch if you have there numbers still or look for them on Facebook it would be like nothing change if there your true friends.
I cut off shitty friends. What now?
Frankly it doesn't matter if they are happy or not. The good part is that you had the courage to let them go and you did the right thing. If at all they are happy then let them be, there's no need to find a reason to make their life unhappy or think ill of them. Continue with your life. This experience is new to you and will be uncomfortable initially. But life goes on and in time you'll move on, meet new people and eventually make peace with it.The other side of the entire episode is that you eventually learn how people are, you become a better judge of character. I won't say life is gonna be fun from here or that you are gonna meet cool people. You'll meet people who are genuinely good. Some are good to you just to get something out of you. It's all part of life. Just be happy by yourself and believe that there's more to life.
Should I cut off my clingy needy friend?
So I have this friend, she has learning difficulties and has not got much friends. She is too much to handle. She texts me constant "what you doing today" "oh lets meet up cause we are friend's" like its annoying me so much that if I was to try say something like back off, she still wouldn't understand because of the disability she has. I didnt really even intend to be mates with her. She just got my number from someone else in the college course. So I was like f**k! I blocked her on my phone cause she was constant texting "when are we meeting up" talk to me please beacuse we are friends" :/ like I'm not being rude but i dont have the patience with someome like that. I just want normal mates that I can have a laugh with. I seem to attract people with disabilities, no offense but if you have ever been around a person with severe leanring difficulties you'd know what I mean. You can have a normal conversation with them.
How do I cut off my friend without being mean about it?
These phases comes in everyones life when you think that your friend is not responding in a way you think she should. There are benchmarks set by you by which you judge or mark your friends and when they fall below that, one feels sad. There could be plenty of reason that could lead that for example some incident happened in their life which gave them shock or they found somebody else to spend some time with or they simply lost interest in you or got busy with their lives. I know you want the best of your friendship with her but be prepared for the worst of it. You can feel bad about it by letting her go but you can also cherish it with the memories that you guys created together. Talk to her, reach out to her in every possible way, make her day special, tell her that you see a behavior change in her and want to understand the reason of it.But the last thing that I will suggest is to intrude her privacy, don’t go full barge on her by belittling her self space just to maintain the friendship. Give her time and space and something happy will will occur between you two, just don’t put too much pressure on her.
Should I cut out my best friend from my life?
I think it depends on how well you guys can talk your problems out.For me, I had a best friend that just recently came back into my life. We were best friends in college, until my diagnosis of bipolar I came into the picture and I was a lying bitch to her. I am very honest now, but back then, because of symptoms and such I lied a lot to her, made up stories, ect and that pushed her away (obviously). For three years I have had a grudge against her and we talked about it before we "broke up". Then just in the last year I became curious, and she did as well about how we were doing. She had a baby, got married, and I am here, trying to manage my bipolar disorder. After Facebook requests and defriending each other a few times we are now back on track. We don't talk every day, but she has offered to send me things from Colorado and I will be sending her a care package from California.Don't do something impulsive to someone you call a best friend. Write down how you feel, EVERYTHING, and why you feel that way. Tell them what they mean to you and why you are thinking about taking them out of your life. Everyone acts selfishly and sometimes we need a wake up call. Maybe your best friend isn't even aware he is making this affect on you.