My ex wife wants to meet my girlfriend?
any court of law will tell you its none of her buisness what you do in your life, and vice versa. as long as the kids are being taken care of when in your custody, and your not doing naughty things in front of them, there is no reason why you cannot have your kids visit you. I would, however, consider speaking with your kids about how they feel about your new gf, and if they feel uncomfortable with her there, i would consider not having gf time and kid time on the same weekend. some of the reason your ex might not want the kids to come over is maybe one of them said something to her that expressed concern, in which case would be a good idea for you and your ex to sit and talk with your children together. but back to your question, she cannot say the kids cannot visit you because of a gf you have, and you cannot keep the kids from her because you dont like her bf. this is something that needs to be made clear to her.
Should I meet my ex girlfriend?
Hey,In the past six months you have not been able to stay strong without her and somewhere because of her sympathy in the past she is speaking and now can meet you for the same too.Now while we look at this from a third person’s perspective -She has moved on for good, as she doesn't express feelings of coming back to you even after six monthsIf she decides to meet you, its not to even think of rekindle anything but more for pity and not feeling guilty of leaving an Ex to rotYou are living in a false space of goodness which doesn’t exist, if you make this a habit, then you are doneIn my view, speaking to her is not a bad thing as there are different relationships and different viewpoints. But if you are depending on her “love and care” to make things right for you in any way, then its not the right thing to do. W.r.t the meeting, you can definitely go and meet her if you are not begging her in person to come back and if you think you can do that, then please do not as her to meet you. Else, you lose the little self respect that you have that she has for you.Thx
Ex wants to be friend with my new girlfriend...?
well ur ex could have several issues, 1.) she still has feelings for you. this could be because shes kinda screwed up so she is turned on by being pushed away 2.) she is pissed at you and wants you to be unhappy and feel the pain she did (<- wow now that iv typed that it looks really weird lol) 3.) she feels like you should still be friends like still in each others lives in some way and as for the other girl she is just being weird, ignore her and as for your ex generally it is hard to just be friends so i would try to steer a bit more clear of her too well hope it helps and good luck!
How do I tell my ex girlfriend I met someone new? Why am I avoiding this?
Probably because it seems like she still has a little bit of love for you even though she's mostly moved on, and you care about her enough that you don't want to hurt her (and she probably will be hurt when she finds out). Next time she asks how you are, just drop it in say "great, this has happened, and this, and this, and I'm seeing a great girl now". Or, don't mention it at all. If you don't think she's ready to hear it, and you're avoiding telling her, then don't tell her. There's no reason you have to, you guys can be in touch as friends without sharing those details. I'm not looking forward to when my ex and I have to do this. :-( I don't know whether I'd like to hear about a new gf of his or not.
Should i give my ex girlfriend closure?
You should give her closure, yes, even though it will hurt her to hear it and may hurt you to say it.This means at the very least, telling her why it hasn't worked and why it won't in the future. Politely. Most importantly, that it IS over, that the situation is irreparable and while you may wish to be friends in future (if you do) that it's best you both have space.Offer to answer basic questions if you are comfortable. Then avoid contact for the space period needed to become friends, or if you don't wish to be friends, no further contact at all.If you end up friends, don't cross the line physically, don't bring up the past, don't flirt and if you're seeing someone new, make that very clear. Good luck.
I am going to meet my ex-girlfriend who ditched me very badly after 10 years. What should be the main topic of discussion, her betrayal or my amazing feelings for her that I will throw away after this meeting because they were only for her and she didn't care?
Thanks for A2A... As for me, don't think of the 10years back emotions. Minds of people are ever changing .. You are changed and she is too. She mayn't be the heart breaker now. All I would say go,meet her, talk of whatever you want to. Meet again if you want to,don't if you don't want to... It's that simple... Don't think much. Life is short. Take chances... Good luck...!
My wife is obsessed with my ex girlfriend. How can I get her to stop bringing her up? It's been over 5 years.
ask her if she would feel more secure with you if you trod on eggshells around her because you were afraid of her instability , as was the case with your ex .presumably this was one of the reasons for your dissociation?does she want you to treat her as the woman she is, the woman you married her for, or as a jealous unstable bordering on being psycho type partner.every couple has arguments.clearly state that in future you will only relate to items in the current argument, and will not be drawn into past irrelevant events.she must know that this is hurtful to you, that is why she says these things.so you have a choice to show no hurt and feel no hurt if she brings it up again despite baing asked not to.the photographs have obviously added fuel to the fire.is it necessary to keep them?they have obviously added to the venom your wife has been harbouring which springs to the surface every now and again.how about a ritual destruction in front of her to show "it's in the past, i'm over it, now you get over it".if she continues after that then baby she's out to punish you for the long haul and it'll be this way forever.now, wouldn't it be different if you'd continued to see your ex or kept in contact with her?if you really aren't giving your wife any further ammunition to fuel her statements, and despite reasonable requests to refrain from these accusatory remarks she continues, insist on counselling or get the hell out of dodge.you know what, she may then discover that you're addressing her in a manner to subdue her instability!maybe you do go a bit over the top during arguments too........and this causes her to resort to below the belt comments?for god's sake if you ever do split up NEVER hold a conversation in front of another woman again!good luck and by the way does she ever apologise afterwards and regret her comments?or is she still feeling totally justified about them in the cold light of day without arguments in the air?maybe this can help you both to get to the root of the problem and eradicate it once and for all and then hopefully move on.
I still love my ex-girlfriend, but I'm in a relationship. What do I do?
Not trying to be judgemental at all, but it's really wrong to be with someone when your heart is somewhere else..You're not obliged to be in a relationship ! You should get through the past first, and you should do it on your own..It's okey to be alone, and it's okey to not getting through feelings, what it's not okey is being in a relationship where deep love does not exist, i know you know all this deep in your thoughts since you're asking for advice.. No one can be in someone's place but if i was in yours the first thing i would do is to break up the relationship i'm in now, and heal my self first.. and this would be the best thing to do for the person i'm currently with, because I'm sure no one wants to be with someone whose heart is outside, no one..Wish you luck, with love and prayers ❤