I'm starving myself?
I just started starving myself yesterday, and I haven't eaten since last nights dinner. All I have been consuming is water. There are 3 reasons why. 1. I feel like I'm too fat. 2. People bully me on my weight sometimes. 3. I feel like I'm not good enough for people like my crush. I told my friend earlier and she called me a dumba**. I just told my crush those reasons an he's telling me to eat. Everyone that I've told is telling me to eat or else I'll die. I know I'll die, but the urge to not eat is eating me. What do I do?
My boyfriend wants to starve myself...is this healthy?
It is wrong. He might think he has your best interest at heart but that is bad advice from him. He wants to see results overnight and that's not realistic or healthy. You need to eat just make sure that you are eating everything in moderation and you have a normal exercise routine. I also don't think the steroids are a good idea either. You should get with a health expert to help you in your weight loss if you feel that you need to lose weight. I don't think you do but you want to make sure that you are healthy but your boyfriend seems like he wants you to look like a supermodel or something. That's just not right.
I want to starve myself?
This isn't a weight thing or anything like that. The thing is, I have a lot of family problems and I've tried talking to my parents about this, but their hatred for each other is blinding them from everything else. I've considered suicide, but decided against it as too final. I don't think anything besides something truly drastic will stop them from continuing to wreak havoc on our family and seeing the psychological damage they are inflicting on me. Please don't judge me before you know my issues. Anyway, I want to starve myself enough so that I pass out or end up in the hospital. Approximately how long would this take? I'm 13 years old, 5' 2", and 90-100 pounds. I feel like this has to happen for everything to work out in the end.
My friend says if you starve yourself your cheekbones will come out ?
It's their bone structure and prominent cheekbones is part of a (subjective) standard of beauty for women, so many women who become models have this feature. My mother had and two sisters have those beautiful cheekbones. I took after my father and inherited his chubby cheeks. Of course, if I were starving, I'd probably have prominent cheekbones but I wouldn't be looking particularly beautiful or even care if I did. You can accent that feature with the creative use of blush. Please keep an eye on your friend. She sounds like she might have the mindset to slip into the behaviors of an eating disorder.
My ''best friend'' called me an attention seeker and ''sad'' just because..?
I said i felt suicidal because of this guy I thought i loved but turns out he was using me, cheated on me, lead me on. I trusted him and this has happened so many times, all my relationships have been depressing, I starve myself a lot when relationships go down hill. (not on purpose i just lose my appetite) My grades are dropping, I suck at maths i keep getting E's,I do revise! i'm not going to get any job, i want to do creative media but the college said i need to get 2 gcses that are C and above..no way am i gonna get a C in maths! im good at english but my spelling is so bad! i have a tutor but whatever I learn doesn't stick in my head for very long. When i go to town people i dont even know shout things at me, racist things (I'm black) they would start on me for no reason, i'm moving to a different town soon so i should get less racist comments, My family at home stress me out so much! I'm under so much stress I'm the only one out of my group who is single and heart broken, so I feel isolated when everyone else is talking about their ''love of their lifes'', no one understands.. Every time I tell my friend problems she has a go at me and says i'm being pathetic but my problems are serious to me. She said i need to get over it. I tried talking to her on facebook, being friendly but she ignored my message, so I have given up. I seriously want to die! i can't get any help, no one gives me good advice and they tell me stuff I DON'T want to hear! I'm not going to get anywhere in life with my grades, I'm not gonna be in a decent relationship in teen years because guys just get bored of me and don't talk to me ever again..I can't even tell my friends problems because they don't seem to understand. Should I just not talk to my best friend anymore cos shes ignoring me, basically saying i'm making a fuss out of nothing...
How do I starve myself without my parents knowing?
How old are you?A food fast is when you don’t eat and your body burns its stored fat, 16 hours after burning the calories from digested sugar and carbohydrates.Starving is when you don’t eat and you have no stored fat to burn, then your body decomposes muscle tissue to stay alive. This condition can lead to death. Is that where you are? Yes? Anorexia? Then have your parents take you to a doctor today.…For how many years have you lived a self-indulgent lifestyle?Are you very fat? When you pinch your belly is it more that 4″ thick?Have you looked on a BMI chart? If you are normal or underweight, then eat.If you are overweight, aim for a modest weight loss rate.What’s your attitude toward hunger pangs? (They go away. )Know this, deprivation diets do not work in the long-run. After you stop “depriving yourself” , you go back to your old bad habits and regain the lost weight. You need a change in life style.…Turn off the TV. Get up. Get active.Move more. Eat less. Cut the carbs. Cut the sugar.Dietary essentials: high fiber, substantial protein and sufficient fat.What is your attitude toward sore muscles? (They get stronger in two days.)Try fast walking, 7 mph. Build up to a daily 30 to 90 minute walk. Use hand dumbells when you walk.Try swimming laps, one hour. The faster you swim, the thicker the water will seem to be.Power Foods (Part 1 of 4) Gary Null.
How can one stop seeking attention?
This is going to take work! The behaviors that you call “attention seeking” are probably due to a lack of confidence. If it is a minor problem, you can try using really positive self-talk inside your mind. When out with others, pay attention to the urge to butt into the conversation with comments about yourself. Try to add positive comments about what others have said, instead. Or try to ask a follow-up question to something someone else has said. This can keep your mind busy looking for ways to make compliments or positive comments to others and will get you adding to the conversation in ways that do not draw the attention away from others and onto yourself. You will be building new skills and people will like you much more.If that sort of intervention is just not even in the ballpark of what you need, then maybe you need a self-help site or book on building your self-esteem. On increasing your confidence in your own worth or your social skills. These kinds of things can get you thinking in more positive ways.While we are on the subject, you can try to work on more positive self-talk. Don’t talk to yourself in a negative way that puts yourself down. If you would not want your best friend to talk to you that way, don’t put up with hearing it from yourself, either. When you hear yourself say a put-down inside your head, stop, and think of a kinder way of looking at the situation. Instead of, “what a jerk,” when you did something stupid, say, “wow, I can see that staying up so late really does affect me, I did that stupid thing without even thinking!” (You must forgive my examples, I am 58 years old so they are not going to sound like anybody current, and I know better than to try to fake it!)Okay, now if those kinds of interventions are not really getting to what the problem is, then consider going to a counselor. Some people have self-esteem issues that are more than the run-of-the-mill kind. Some people have issues that they are not going to solve on their own. If it is not a social skills issue, but a deep problem where you even doubt your right to exist; get a counselor, a therapist, a Psychologist, or whatever they call the profession where you sit with someone with at least a Master’s degree every week or two for several months at least. The name of the profession and who does it varies with the location.
How can I starve myself without my mom knowing?
so i’m going to go two ways with this as someone actively dealing with a nonconsensual binge/purge cycle brought on by stress and mental disorder who also happens to be living at home.proper advice: when you starve yourself, your body goes into a phase literally called Starvation Mode which starts by slowing down your metabolism significantly which is why many, many people at this phase actually gain weight. if you happen to make it past this point of starvation, i think it takes a week or so not sure, you enter a phase where your body begins to break down parts of yourself that can be used as food such as stored fat, which is when people begin to lose mass.however this takes weight off of everything and eventually begins to diminish the condition of your organs. if you engage total starvation you’ll actually die, so you have to drag yourself along, barely feeding yourself and psychologically murdering your already brutally mutilated corpse every minute of every day reminding yourself that you cant/wont/shouldn't eat (food item). i am a proponent of meritocratic thinking, which essentially rewards people for acumen and skill as opposed to things like beauty. what you do is what matters most. if you are not extremely delicate about how you handle this decision, you could die or damage your body, and for what, exactly?bad advice: make it a routine, go out to eat more if possible, apply a consume/purge system, which will corrode your stomach lining over time so be careful with how often you do this. say you had a big lunch with a friend and don’t care for dinner… keep it creative, and do eat every now and again. hiding things like this from attentive parents is possible if you make it inconspicuous enough that they think youre just experimenting with a new series of habits as opposed to engaging in harmful behavior. when i got to purge i simply excuse myself to use the bathroom, sometimes i don't say anything. my reflex is pretty quick and quiet at this point but it takes a while to get it right.overview: this sort of habit spirals out of control very quickly and i think is one of the only ways that an intentional habit can eventually become a full blown mental health issue. please try a low protein/fat/salt/grain diet you will see wonders.
How do I starve myself without my family noticing? I know what becoming anorexic can do to me, but I can’t help it.
You don’t. You tell your parents or a trusted adult that you posted this question, and you get the help you need. You avoid years of misery, medical complications, milestones lost to treatment centers, and so much more. I’m in bed with my fiancé right now, 2 years after I started the road to recovery, and I have a feeding tube in my nose because my stomach is paralyzed from years of abuse. Anorexia will ruin your life. It may make you thin (although there’s absolutely no guarantees it will), but it will rob you of everything. You will never be sick enough, or thin enough, or good enough. There will never be “enough.” This disease doesn’t have an end, and it does take prisoners.Anyone who answers this with tips or tricks to be a more “efficient anorexic” is not your friend. They are helping you kill yourself in a way that will rob you, and everyone you love, of life and happiness.