Who's fault is it? The police or my now dead cousin?
Amz, you have led to somewhat some people to respond to your call for help. I doubt you're 'ineffective", however the outrage out of your father and mother is a few thing which you will would desire to bear. i'd have the "father" charged with rape. He ought to have universal extra useful, and as an green female, he ought to have taken you living house as detrimental to what he did. That replaced into despicable and not in any respect the action of a guy. He raped you and would undergo the duty of his crime. If all people on your loved ones would not like that, to undesirable. get up for your self, forgive your self, and press the ingredient of rape. A 14 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous is to youthful for any guy, a minimum of in our time, to take and have intercourse with. so a great way as getting your self sloshed at 14, i'm hoping you never try this back. i'd desire which you will enable the extra youthful existence forming interior you reside. Please do no longer abort it. besides taking that existence, abortions can pass heavily incorrect, and kill you besides. jointly as on your modern-day emotional state, that would desire to look to be a welcome effect, in spite of the undeniable fact that it is not. Your existence is important, and by this you only would desire to help somebody else to no longer do the same ingredient. enable the youngster stay, and supply it up for adoption. Is that going to be a burden for you, confident, it might desire to be. you prefer your teenager years without a sprint one weighing down this time of your existence. Being a mom will come again quickly adequate, be a teenager now and improve as much as be the appealing lady which you would be. The emotional scarring of an abortion is likewise some thing to be prevented. The Joker has additionally given very stable suggestion.
I killed my cousin?
Although you may regret what you said, you need to know that your cousin killed himself. He is the person who choose to do this. Nothing you could have said or done could cause or prevent his actions. Go to an adult you trust and tell them what is going on. A lot of people who survive the suicide of a loved one feel guilty. Either something they said, or something they wish they said. The either feel they caused it, or could have prevented it. Reality is they could have done neither. Counceling is key in dealing with the guilt, so you can move on to grieve the loss of this person in your life. Depression is a medical illness that unfortunately can cost people their lives. Find someone you can talk to.
Why am I seeing my dead cousin hanging?
Lately I havent been able to sleep, because I always feel this presence of the corner I am in, no matter which it is. And I always feel it is my cousin who hung herself. I always feel her just hanging there dead, how she looked in her coffin. But sometimes when I have my back facing so I can see all corners, I see her walking past the door smiling, or just being herself. I don't like doing much in the house by myself because as you could imagine this is quite scary for me. Her death did not affect me that much, people in my family have died alot. She was a really nice person that had some hard struggles, Im jus really confused why I am seeing her this way. No I dont feel guilty or anything like that, Ive explored it all. I cant find it. My dad died when I was a little girl, IDK if that helps. I also have had an anxiety of people for awhile now, not much for going out and mingling, but i do ignore society in all ways possible. I also went to the doctor not so long ago with breathing problems, she told me were psychological. I also have epilepsy and am all Topiramate and Lamictal, I'm worried that this has left me with some sort of self induced psychosis. Im really concearned. I cant contact my neurologist urgently unless i fork out 400 big ones, so i really cant get the help i want from him. And hes proven himself to be not useful in the past. He thinks just because im not having seizures i should be grateful. I am very grateful but i have to deal with the quality of my life too. This isnt very fun to live with -.- The weird thing about this is I dont actually see my cousin its all in my head, I have a random vision of it but cant get it out of my thought pattern. Somedays im fine, and some im insane. My personalities are many and my moods are more. I wake up and I nevr know how Im going to feel. I think everyone is talking about me all the time and everyone is hating on me. I am planning on getting professional help, I would just really like someone elses 2 cents preferably with some experience and tell me what they think could possibly be wrong. Thanks.
Can I contact my recently dead relative by using ouija board?
Grief is a continuing process of mourning through which one learns to live with the loss of someone they love. The whole point of communicating with the dead seems to be part of that process. What questions would you ask your dead father or mother or grandparent that you did not or could not ask before? How hard it is to accept our mortality and to see it in the life and death of a beloved family member or friend. I offer my own path to those who are willing to follow it. My father died when I was 21 of a heart attack. He was 59 years old. When I went to see him in the morgue of the hospital ( I was the first one to arrive), I saw death in him and it was clear to me that he was no more. My heart and mind worked hard to absorb and take in this reality, but my need to believe he was still alive and therefore not lost to me was strong. I never tried to communicate with him by ouija board or mediums. Rather, I asked the questions as part of prayer and I simply put the questions out there because I needed to do so. Over the course of time, I also kept a journal of moments I shared with my Dad for which I was grateful to God. He had a bad heart, but when I was released from the hospital after knee surgery, my Dad lifted me from the wheelchair and into his car to bring me home. I knew that was a huge and dangerous thing for him to do, but he did it with love and strength. I continued to write down memories and I started to include my questions too. Sometimes during the first 10 years after his death, I would have a dream in which I was trying to rescue him from drowning, but which always ended up with him slipping quietly into the ocean and away from me. That is what grief and mourning looked like for me. No, I did not communicate with him through a board or a medium, but I felt that God had eased me through the loss of my Dad and let me rage when I needed to rage in my journal and I learned to simply ask my questions and let them go. I am now 68 years of age and I discovered that many of the questions I asked my father could only be answered in and through my life and my willingness to ask questions. I still often miss my Dad, but now I miss him as a person with whom I would like to share the answers I have discovered to the questions I asked him. I hope whoever reads these words of mine will gain some comfort from what I have shared. I am just a little further down the same road.
Please help me I just found out my cousin is gay?
first of all, be effortless on him. he's your cousin nonetheless, and that i anticipate you shelter him. he's the only now who feels his life is out of control, when you consider which you observed him and he must be extremely scared and puzzled. Your cousin is a guy. which you already knew. A gay label would not be the case. He must be bisexual, as many adult men (and females) are. And in spite of everything, he's the only that ought to be certain a thank you to call himself. in some unspecified time interior the destiny, a guy will possibly not additionally be attentive to nicely what he needs. What ought to you do? bypass to him in case you shelter him, and tell him that no rely what, you would be there for him. which you will do all you could to settle for him, regardless of his sexual orientation is. keep this rely inner maximum, as kinfolk is frequently the 1st to suspect however the final to be notified whilst a guy is gay. and that i think of he would experience greater advantageous if he desperate whilst to tell this. attempt to be reassuring with him, and loveful, because of the fact he desires you via his side. Are you on his side? no one is suited. not you, and not him. Now you be attentive to your cousin better than you probably did earlier. good success, and superb needs to you the two.
Why do some people oppose voting ID laws?
I'll give you a reason I oppose voter ID laws and it has nothing to do with immigration.There are many elderly African Americans that are and always have been legal citizens that were born in the Jim Crow South who’s families moved to northern cities or to the coasts to get away from southern segregation and bigotry.These people are now venerable, some with not many living relatives and no connections to their original states of birth since they have been gone 40+ years.Back in the Jim Crow segregated South, black people were treated as second class citizens. Many people apparently don't realize this, but segregation wasn't just about sitting in the back of the bus, using separate restrooms, schools, water fountains and lunch counters. Another ramification of it was separate systems for records in places like hospitals which were also segregated.Many southern black people during this time, especially ones born in rural areas, simply cannot find or possibly don't even have some of these legal documents like birth certificates, because of the legalized segregation of the time. There are plenty of elderly black people from this era that don't even know their real date of birth.Asking an 80+ year old person now living on a fixed income to travel across the country to a place they haven't been for 40+ years to find a document that might not even exist, is facetious and basically just being used as a dirty trick loophole to create voter suppression.It's just a modern day version of Jim Crow.Voter ID laws are just another underhanded tactic, like gerrymandering, used by the GOP to gain an advantage.The GOP’s Attack on Voting Rights Was the Most Under-Covered Story of 2016
Why and how do working class Britons vote for the Tories? They are the party of the elite and super rich, and don’t even hide it. They hate the working class, yet a large amount of workers will vote for them. I don’t get it. Can anyone enlighten me?
The Tories cannot be the party of the super rich. There aren't enough of them to win elections. I've written about the subject of why working class people vote Tory before, so will be (relatively) brief.First of all, let's dispense with the notion of “working class”. It's a relic from the industrial age when you were either boss class or working class. That distinction no longer exists. It’s true that the term, “working class” is still in use - Labour and the unions like to keep it because it defines their supporters. If you self-identify as working class, you probably vote Labour.(As a complete aside, it may be one of the reasons Labour hasn’t found a viable strategy for winning elections in the modern age, other than Blairite centrism - because the group it targets is no longer a meaningful or coherent one. Its message quite literally misses the mark).Let's find another term: Lower Income People (LIPs). This includes Theresa May’s Just About Managing (JAMs) but is broader, because it also includes people who are not managing. LIPs comprise:Benefit claimants with an intention and realistic expectation of getting off benefits and doing wellBenefit claimants without the intention or expectation of getting off benefits and doing wellPeople who have chosen occupations that don’t pay very muchPeople who don’t earn very much now but have the intention and realistic expectation of earning more in futurePeople who don’t earn very much now and would like to earn more but really don’t have any realistic expectation of doing so, for example due to lack of skillsStudentsOAPs reliant on the state pensionHow are the Tories perceived? If you’re in any of the groups above except 7, your perception of the Tories is probably that they won’t do much to help your position now, but they’re the better option to help you on your journey upwards. There’s some basis for this. The Tories portray themselves and are perceived, as the party of lower tax (at all levels in the income scale), lower benefits, job creation and higher employment.In addition, LIPs on benefits or low incomes wanting to move upwards, tend to resent the idea of generous benefits for people who have no intention of getting off them. Furthermore, rightly or wrongly, people still blame Labour for the influx of immigration that has kept a lid on wage growth at the bottom end.So if you’re on a low income and fall into 1, 4, 6 or 7, there’s a decent chance you’ll vote Tory.
Is Trump correct in stating that the election could be rigged?
Wow, he's identified a plot to rig the US Presidential election three months in advance? This is huge! If he'll just reveal the plotters' names and hand over his evidence, then we can take appropriate action to safeguard the integrity of the American electoral process. What a scoop!Unless... of course, he has no proof, no information, nothing but vague and sinister implications, and widely debunked stories ripped from unsourced email forwards. If that's the case, then he's being incredibly irresponsible, essentially taking the position that he can only lose if there's an conspiracy against him (as opposed to, y'know, the majority of voters not voting for him). He's effectively calling for riots if he loses, which is the most un-American thing I've ever seen a presidential candidate do.And the worst part is, it might actually work. Trump has long pandered to conspiracy theorists, never quite espousing those theories but weaseling around them with phrases like "a lot of people are saying" and "I've heard" and "I just find it interesting". Now he's basically declaring a conspiracy that hasn't happened yet, but he's sure will. For a certain fraction of the population, those who can't imagine most voters disagreeing with him, and how are predisposed to assume that massive conspiracies control everything, his claims are lending high-level validation to what they've long believed: liberals only get into power because they control... the polls, the media, the courts, the Illumanti, take your pick. When Trump loses (which is the likely scenario), and he's just told them that the powers that be have stolen their one chance at freedom away from them, how does he expect people to react?I honestly don't think Trump wants riots, because there's no percentage in it for him. I think he's just trying to salve his pride by setting up an excuse in advance to explain why he lost, even though he's such a winner. But he either doesn't realize or doesn't care about the real-world effects that his words could have. If you've ever needed a solid reason why Trump would be a lousy president, this should be exhibit A.
A question for atheists: Would you ever take communion in church?
Many moons ago, I very much wished to.I spent 10 years in Catholic school, a fact I credit for the germination of the seed of religious relativism that would eventually lead me to atheism. During those years, I attended mass, countless times, standing when others stood, sitting when they sat, listening quietly or reciting quranic verses to fortify myself in my Islamic faith, which I often felt was being assailed from all corners by my very presence in the midst of all these Christians elevating their voices heavenwards.But these Christians were no strangers to me. They were my friends and playmates, mistaken as I thought they were in their worship of a mere prophet as a god. And when at last came the time for them to stand and line up to receive communion, and though I knew they would return shortly to my side, as they always did, I felt left behind. Thus forsaken I felt a immense sense of longing. I wanted to stand in rank with them, walk up to the priest, and partake in sharing the taste of this holy bread said to be the body of Christ. What did it taste like? What was its texture? Did they chew it? Or was it rather more like a buttery cookie that would melt in the mouth?But, much as I wanted to try it, I never did. It always felt like a supreme act of transgression against my friends, against God, and against my own faith. I know other Muslim or Protestant kids who had no such scruples. They did try it, and they seemed rather pleased with themselves. I envied them. I very much wished that I could emulate them, with as much insouciance as they seemed to display. But they were them. And I was me. And I did not do as they did.Today, it’s with ill-contained amusement that I look back on those moments. I have no desire to try communion at this point. I am not only of a different faith; I am an infidel. And though cognitively I recognize the ritual as a sacrament, it has lost the aura of holiness that garlanded it in my younger years.
Why are Americans opposed to voter ID?
There is NO verifiable evidence of people voting illegally in great numbers, and certainly not enough to change a result.Note that “illegal voting” cuts both ways and the few examples this cycle were mostly Trump supporters voting twice to “make sure their vote wasn't stolen”. They were caught, showing the system works. Also more than a few members of Trump's staff turned out to be registered in multiple States!There also is the occasional mistake like voting absentee then forgetting and voting in person. Or forgetting to properly changes one’s registration after moving. Those usually are memory-related (eg, elderly) and both Republicans and Democrats might do this - again in tiny numbers.The claims of people (“illegals”) registering illegally and voting en masse are absurd - this requires the collision of MANY election officials up and down the chain of command in many precincts - Republican and Democrat - all working in secret to enable a tiny number of votes that could flip in either direction.Note that the occasional story claiming to show these illegal votes has been shown to be bogus. Project “Veritas” for example is utterly contrived, paying actors to play these mythical “illegals” (this is the same guy - O’Keefe - sued for making those phony Planned Parenthood videos).So there is NO NEED for a voter ID law, and indeed those laws are almost exclusively applied in States with large minority black or Hispanic populations who happen to vote generally Democratic. What a coincidence!Another issue btw is that election rules are (per the Constitution) defined by the State). So it would take some legal and legislative heavy lifting to create a national ID registry that was accepted - by law - in every State.The States don't really want that anyway, since their concern isn't actually “fraud” but trying to keep black and brown people away from the polls.