Im interracial, shy, and i like white girls, i need help?
Whether or not "most white students" find racial jokes funny, you clearly do not, and I would imagine that if you were to speak up and point out the ignorance and meanness behind them some of the very girls you pine for would look at you with admiration. Eye have pretty good insight into white people, as I have lived amongst them for most of my life. My own two parents, ironically, are both Caucasoids. Both of my nieces are racially mixed but, if pressed, identify themselves as "black"---coool with me---any way you look at it, they are FAMILY. Sometimes Eye think that the world and all its people would be better off if we all wiggled our toes in the Big Gene Pool so that in years to come all of humanity will be sort of....well, bronze or beige, I guess. Have Mormons take the Hajj on Rosh Hashana while Hindus celebrate Kwanzaa by sitting their babes on Santa's knee. Maybe cut down a bit on all the racial violence. Until then, keep in mind that many wonderful people are shy and should not keep you from being happy and successful. And don't let the Racial Kooks run the world. Hopefully, by engaging them in conversation they will better come to understand and consequently accept you for the intelligent young man you are (that said, watch your spelling and punctuation). Racial intolerance is born of fear and ignorance. Mainly ignorance---lots of white people never really listen to or interact with black people on anything more than a superficial level. You can help crack through the Wall of Stupidity that separates so many of us by keeping your head up and letting your voice be heard, at school and in the world that you will soon graduate into. To that end, check out your school's Journalism Department and get your stuff into print. Art classes. Film class! These are also great ways to meet girls and learn to converse with them in a meaningful way. If you attend a mainly white school you can erase the doubts of any stone-age white skeptics by excelling in all you do. Yes you can!! Good luck in all that you do. Spread kindness. We are all in this together.
Is the white race genetically changing due to interracial procreation?
I read or heard somewhere once, that at a projected period in time, the white race or at least white americans will cease to exist because of cross-racial "breeding", which will mean americans will have a standard sort of "colour" [more beige?] and appearance. I cant remember for sure, but if anyone has heard of this and knows where I can find information about it, please link me! Thank you!
Why is it that White people make such a big deal out of interracial relationships?
I have seen Black males date Asian women, Latinas, White girls and everything. I have seen all non-Whites males date interracial. I notice something, they DID NOT CARE, it is like a Black guy dated an Asian girl she was his girlfriend regardless of skin color. Now with White people, especially males, they boast so much about dating interracial it gets irritating. Like they really believe them dating or marrying interracial makes them all of a sudden better than the world and everything. Worst part is they call people who disagree with them racists. Why do Whites, especially the males, make such a big deal out of dating interracial?
Curious about interracial couples... Hispanic guys/white (USA) women?
I mean this with ALL respect! I know there's nothing wrong with interracial dating. Some people have this idea that you're "supposed" to date/marry your "own kind," but I think that's ridiculous. I have noticed that Hispanic woman/white American (USA citizen) guy couples are a million times more common than couples where the woman is white (USA citizen) American and the guy is Hispanic. You see Hispanic woman/White USA man couples all the time, but you rarely see it the other way round. No offense to other Americans but I really don't identify with USA culture at all. I don't hate Americans or anything but I just wish I were something else. I'm from Florida (USA), I have mostly European ancestry but I've always thought Hispanic guys were really amazing. I just feel like being American shuts the door to having ANY boyfriend or husband. It seems like American women are universally considered undesirable. So I know that I would be a great girlfriend but I feel like being an American shuts the door to me and it saddens and angers me. I know you're not supposed to be proud of being an American, and I'm not... but I hate being judged for it. So why do you see so few couples where the guy is Hispanic and the woman from USA? But you see loads of couples where the woman is Hispanic and the guy white, from USA? What is the chance that a Hispanic guy would ever fall in love with me? I've been told that it can happen and that love transcends borders and doesn't know boundaries, etc. But I have observed stuff and read a lot, too. Are American women looked upon as undesirable? Would a Hispanic guy fall in love with me? Does being American woman shut doors? Why do so few guys of other nationalities date them?
Are inter-racial relationships really that bad!?
C'mon, are inter-racial relationships really that bad!? It seems I'll have to be stuck with an Iranian/persian guy for the rest of my life if people are so determined to only marry within their own ethnicity/race! Plus everyone goes on and on about how white people are the best, and even those who say "middle-easterner's" are attractive only point out the light skinned ones with lightly coloured hair and coloured eyes. Guess that sucks for me cause I have black hair, light brown eyes, and a tiny bit of a tan to my skin. Anyway, I guess the REAL question here is, is marrying/dating inter-racially REALLY that bad? (I should already point out I have a german boyfriend but, I'm just asking for future-wise, cause I wouldn't want to deal with any of that "stick to your own race" bullshit other people would spout out)
All the Ethiopian girls I like keep telling me they don't date black men, is this a cultural thing? Is racism common against black people in Ethiopia?
The vast majority of Ethiopian women date and marry Ethiopian men. If you consider both to be black how is it racist?However although black, many Ethiopians believe we are a unique people and there’s no one like us on earth. Some Ethiopians do take it to the extreme and believe that marrying foreigners no matter what race they are is a bad idea, because it will diminish this so called uniqueness.Luckily most people are not this crazy! There are many Ethiopians who date and marry foreigners.Ethiopian and Nigerian coupleEthiopian and Danish coupleEthiopian and Chinese couple
Why don't more White american men date/marry women of color--specifically Black American women or women mixed with more melanin?
There ARE white men who date/marry “women of color” and I have known some. It is not unknown. And the famous Loving vs. Virginia case involved a white husband trying to stay married to an African-American wife. So there.However, the majority trends… that is, the numbers… do go a different direction. One must be careful, however, to remember that this is just a statistical trend and does not apply to every individual.The numbers say that when white men “marry out of their race” (a phrase that disturbs me, because we are all part of the human race, damn it), they are far more likely to date/marry Asians. I have seen many cases of this.Why? Because in Asian culture… both East Asian and other parts of Asia… the woman is taught to be incredibly respectful of the husband, walking two steps behind. For such a woman — and this persists even in third, fourth, fifth generation Asians — they are surprised that a Caucasion male treats them nearly as an equal. It is, for them, a step up.Meanwhile, the Caucasian male is pleasantly surprised that he is (generally) not nagged or berated as much as a woman of European descent might do. Asian women are raised to be incredibly respectful toward their mates.The situation is precisely the reverse in the case of African culture. The vast majority of matriarchies on Earth are found either in Africa or Polynesia. In these cultures, women rule. Quite literally. At least they very often do.Consquently, the black community has wonderful and very strong women. Consider how powerful Oprah is. And Michelle Obama. If you’re Barack Obama, you’re probably secure enough to be married to such a powerful, talented, outspoken woman. But most white men aren’t secure or confident enough to want that.Therefore, the numbers (and this is just the majority, not every case) favor white women dating/marrying African American men when they do not date/marry white men. For white women, they find that being in the position of matriarch (however subtely this is felt) is a step up for them.I don’t make the news, folks, just report it. And these general trends, as I said, do not cover every case.