My friend is really sick...?
She believes she has tonsillitis again, because it's her fourth time. Her left tonsil is swollen. She has a sore throat, fever, she's shaking/ feels fatigued, nauseous, and she says she has hot tears if that helps. Please, she needs some remedies! :(
My friend's father is really sick and he may die soon. In which way can I help her or what things can I say to make her feel less sad?
I was recently in the same situation, and here's the key points in my opinion.You can't make them feel less sad, but you can distract them and listen to them.For me, the thing I found most difficult was, how do I make sure my friend knows I'm there for them without constantly reminding them of their sick father? And then on the other hand, how do I do that, without making them feel that I am completely ignoring the issue? For me, this was the solution : I told her that I was not going to treat her any differently, and that if she wanted to talk about it, she should. No matter what the time or what we were doing, I was always ready to listen to her or comfort her, but I wouldn't bring it up in case she was distracted from it.This worked really well, because like that she understood my behaviour and I knew that she felt comfortable to confide in me whenever she needed.EDIT: I told the friend in question that I'd given this answer and she said that this really did her a lot of good. She also said that when you're going through something like that, it's so important to have a friend who is comfortable enough to honestly answer the question ‘how are you doing?’. If you’ve got good news, share it, chances are you'll lift their mood. Don't be embarrassed or uneasy that your life is on a totally different track. Sharing your good news with your friend when they ask for it is not insensitive, you're giving them the opportunity to be a friend to you too and forget for a few moments what they're dealing with.
My friend got me sick?
So I was perfectly fine on friday. Then on saturday, I literally died. I had the worst headache, I was SO sick. Later, I went to the doctors and they told me what I had and prescribed some medicine (isn't really working -_-) Then I found out it was the same illness as my friend, and she had still had it on friday (we're in the same class together and she coughed on me..ew). I told her thanks a lot, because I missed out of a week of important classes and missed out on tons of good stuff. I'm in bed, dying because I'm so sick, crying, wishing i was normal again. And shes so heartless she doesn't even give a damn crap. I told her shes the one that got me sick and I told her why didn't she stay home another day if she was so sick and she said 'learning is important'. WHAT ABOUT MY LEARNING IF YOU STAY HOME YOU ONLY MISS ONE DAY BUT ME? I MISSED OUT ON A WHOLE FREAKIN GOD DAMN WEEK!! AND EVERYTIME I TELL HER WHY DIDNT SHE GO DOCTORS OR CRAP SHE SAID IDC IDC IDC AND SHE IS PISSING ME OFF SO BAD. i will legit punch her when i get back to school because she freakin deserves it. bro if you were me, you would feel exactly like how i'm feeling right now, everytime i move my eyes, i go blind for a second, i can't even do daily things without crying because everything is such a pain. i cant go toilet because whenever i stand up i get so dizzy, i cant feed or play with my beloved dog who misses me, i cant hang out with my friends who miss me dearly. ugh. is it right to be mad?
Im so sick of all my friends....?
Sometime you need to let go & enjoy yourself. Not everyone has ulterior motives when they ask you out other than to find out how you are doing. Until & unless you go out & meet these friends of yours, you'll find that your circle of friends becomes smaller & smaller. By meeting your friends perhaps you can also get to meet their friends. Eventually you'll find your own circle of friends that you can click with,,,,,
What can i do at my friends house? im really sick of this friend (this is long)?
I dont exactly know, her mum sounds like a right b****. As soon as you get back just forget about her, she seems like a really bad friend who has come from an insane family.
What should I do, sick friend?
Okay, my best friend is really sick...strep throat.....and my family and I were invited to her mom's birthday party. She said she would be in her room the whole time. So should I stay with my friend in her room, or leave her alone...check in on her? Keep in mind i'm 16.
Feeling really sick at my friends house at 4am? please please please help?
Hey guys, so currently I'm sitting in the bathroom at 4am at my friends house. Because I feel sick to my stomach and I'm shaking and if I lie down I feel even worse. And calling home is not an option.
I hate some of my school friends. I'm really sick of them and I don't want to see them but I couldn't, because I always see them everyday (especially my friends from my class). What should I do?
Look hard now: Life is full of nearly impossible crap. You know this. I know this because I was once young like you. Tough stuff is all around: find the right girl, get the right career, the right college, the right right, bla bla bla. It’s a lot of pressure and you don’t need school friends making you sick of them. So here is your nearly impossible assignment (should you choose to accept it): Review those stupid school friends one at a time and FIND SOME ONE THING, NO MATTER HOW TINY, TO LIKE. It’s like a very very difficult game but what the hell you are good at stuff like this. Find that one thing that pleases you and concentrate on it and the annoying part might (might) annoy you less. If that doesn’t work, embark on an epic quest to discover new friends. They might be as close as the locker next to yours.
Why am I getting sick of my friends?
Perhaps you need some new friends.When I was around 15, I started to really resent one of my closest friends at the time. We had had such a great friendship, so I didn’t want it to end.But every time I was with that friend, I either felt like screaming or like crying. I never felt happy with her, and no matter what I did, it only got worse.It was so confusing to me. But a day came that I just couldn’t stand to be around her at all. I totally blew her off, and when she asked me why, I told her that I was suffocated by her. Of course, that hurt her feelings.Our friendship was pretty much ruined after that. We couldn’t mend it, and I really didn’t want to.In retrospect, I wish I had done it differently. It’s obvious to me that I needed to distance myself from her, just as it was obvious back then. But now I see that I was trying really hard to not hurt her feelings as I distanced myself. That didn’t work.If I had maybe told her that I was going through something, that I needed some space and time, maybe we’d still be friends. Maybe not.If I had just told her how I felt, I do know that it would’ve ended a little better.That bridge has been burnt. If you don’t want the same to happen with your friends, then ask them for space.If they are willing to give you space, then they are good people who are worth keeping in your life.If they don’t respect how you feel as a person, and they fight with you about this, then you deserve better friends.