Why doesn't this girl talk to me in real life like she talks to me while texting? Is she insecure? How can I make her feel more comfortable around me?
If she’s anything like me, she may just be more comfortable using text as a medium rather than talk. I know that when I talk to people online, I’m better at expressing what I want to say, whereas in the offline world I often stumble over my words, sound cold or monotone, and don’t have time to consider what I want to say. Talking to people makes me anxious as it is, and, while I’m internally more comfortable talking with friends, I often still come off as being cool or indifferent and that bothers me.Online, however, when my main mode of communication is my home turf—- words—- I will talk and talk. Often I will be the one driving the conversation, whereas in life I’m the one who spends my time listening rather than speaking. Nobody talks over me online. It’s very ordered and structured and I reply at my own pace. I’m more capable of expressing my true self—- the self I have a harder time bringing out offline.Is it possible for the online self to manifest offline?The good news is, yes! When I’m with my family I’m every bit as crazy as I am online. I will talk for hours on end to and with my family, often driving the conversation… or just saying stuff, which I also do online. The way you make her more comfortable around you is…Be around her, and be around her a LOT. Overtime you may find that shell begin to fall. For a faster method that works almost instantaneously, get her started on something she’s passionate about. For me, when someone is genuinely curious about my stories, I will blather on and on about it and people will tend to have very few words in between. Next time you meet she might be her old shy self again, but keep going on trying to get to know her. :)-Cy
Please Help!!! Girl ignores me on facebook but talks to me in real life?
Well I'm going to give you a educated guess... and don't take it offensively. But it seems as if she don't actually want to be friends with you, she just doesn't want to say it because it'll sound rude... I think, based on from what I've read, she's embarrassed when she's around you... So here's the best advice I could give you... Just leave her be, and don't talk to her until she talks to you.. if she never talks to you then that's cool because obviously she would'nt be a good friend if she's doing that to you now.. Just remember what she's done to you.. because you could use it against her in the future.. most likely just stick to the people that are your true friends, and just leave her be =)
If a girl likes you, is it normal for them to never talk to you in real life and never initiates but responds to your text messages?
Great question! It can be normal for her to not talk to you in real life and not text you to start. Or it means you are losing a never winning battle to capture her attention.But her responding leads me to give some reasons why you might be in a good place.Here are a few reasons why she may like you but just sucks at everything…She could be shy! Or weird.Some women need sometime to know if they are interested or not. Most women who are single also have multiple men texting them, sliding in there DM and trying to capture their attention as she is going from place to place. So they need to know if you are even worth chatting with. So texting is just easierGirls like us men have a ton going on in life. Certain things going on in their life that take priority over hitting you up.Some girls want to see if you can keep up. Meaning they want to know if you are just trying to chat to chat or make something happen.She may not like or want the attention she feels if she has to go out her way to come speak to you.Here are just a few examples of why she is may be into you but not super hip chasing you down and reaching out first in text messages.
What if a guy seems really interested in real life but when he texts he doesn’t seem into it?
THIS IS GREAT - YOU SHOULD BE SO HAPPY TO HAVE FOUND THIS MAN! He’s a person who values your actual company and that is what you want. Too many women complain about the opposite problem - guys that never want to get together or only want to text. Or, guys who will get together and sit across from your while glued to their phones communicating with other people. I have no use for either of those types…
How come I can't talk to my crush in real life?
I like this one girl, and I text her often. Our texts are friendly and fun, but I can never seem to get myself to talk to her like that face to face. My mind always goes blank and I can't think of something to talk about. Does anyone understand this?
Why is it that he ignores me in real life but texts?
There's this guy I like and i think he knows. Some of my friends say he likes me because he gave me a Christmas present alone (he texted me to meet him outside while everyone was watching a movie). But, he never talks to me in real life. Like NEVER. Apart from when he gave me the Christmas present. Weird thing is, he'll text me. Sometimes i start the texts, sometimes he does. When I started liking him a year ago, I would initiate the texts, now it's half-half. What does this mean and why won't he talk to me in real life?
A girl talks to me over text, but when we get into class she avoids me like the plague. Why?
It is easier to communicate over text than in person. I used to see this all the time in high school and college. She is probably shy, try talking to her next time.
A girl I like and I talk in person, but she hardly responds to text. What should I do?
stop texting