How do I make a girl my best friend?
If you are street smart and good looking, half the battle is won already!, You see, unlike men a woman needs to find a valid ‘reason’ which would justify her relationship with you( be it friends or otherwise), do you share common interests? will you help her out/ are you capable of helping her out? Does she benefit socially/financially by having you by her side? If all this holds good, a girl will definitely be interested in you, otherwise, be prepared for unaccepted friend requests, read and ignored messages and at most, one line responses.Now, a girl is interested in you and wishes to have a conversation with you. You will be checked.1] About your views on life ( are you a pessimist, are you an opportunist or an optimist).2] How you treat your friends and the people who can do nothing for you.3] Are you being honest with yourself and who you are?4] Are you respecting her personal space and her choice of male friends?5] Do you show genuine interest in her?If she finds that you are favorable, she will pick you.Note:- A Girl is NOT your best friend if she just replies to your texts or gives a “HaHa” react to your comments. If she truly cares for you, she will show it by texting you first/ randomly without any valid reason ( just like we guys do), she will not be afraid to display your relationship to the public, she will also give financial aid if necessary( girls manage money better than we do!). She will be there beside you if you are sick/ depressed and most importantly, she will not be afraid to share her insecurities and learn about your fears, not to use them against you but to advise you how to fight it!.A girl who wishes to keep you in a friend zone instead of being a true friend will not show the above traits. She will be self centered and does not show a genuine non profit concern for your well being.I know that I may be a bit blunt in the first para, but that is how life is, according to my views.
Girls, would you date the hot/popular guy or the smart/shy guy?
Hot popular guy: -jerk, bully -very popular -captain of the football team -good looking Smart/shy guy -very nice and smart -shy, with few friends -average looking
Does high school popularity matter in real life?
Once you are an adult, does high school popularity really matter? Is it the "nerds" that succeed. I am not the most, nor the least popular kid in my high school. However, I am very smart and could be considered kind of an overachiever. I'm not a typical "nerd" though, I play tons of sports and have lots of friends. My problem is that I am relatively shy! So what I'm trying to ask is should I try to become more popular at the risk of losing my 4.0 GPA, or focus on schoolwork while maintaining good friendships?
How come people are so obsessed with being popular?
i dont know! being popular isnt even anything special, sure people "respect" you, but that respect is more like fear because theyre scared of you and getting on your wrong side. youre right, it makes you appreciate things less. becuase vulgar guys are always commenting on your looks in a less than respectful way, you dont care so much when someone calls you beautiful and means it. and the jealousy! it horrible! people are sooo mean to you. behind your back, in your perepherial vision, and never to your face. if a nerd likes someone, nobody cares, but if you like someone, its front page. OMG YOUR RIGHT because you can barely trust anyone! most people are in it to win it, not because they want to be your friend. sure, we make fun of nerds, but we dont really mean it. when we say something mean about a popular person who is rapidly losing popularity, it hurts. that is an abolutely good question! and you know what? not everyone has a fair shot at becoming popular, like if your wealthy and good looking then its expected that your gonna be popular. others have to really work for it. but if you are pretty and wealthy, then you kinda have no choice but to be popular. youre always gonna have pervy guys blinded by their balls and girls who recognize your designer jeans. but you know what? popular people DO have close friends, like two best friends. and a million poser friends lol, youre right. and facebook is addicting, i know a lot of nerds who have more facebook friends than me lol. sorry this was such a long answer, but thats like a really good question. my answer in short: i have no idea. its nothing fabulous. you feel lonely and hated, insecure. you know youre pretty but thats not necessarily a good thing, it offers little comfort. thanks :)
Do you think males and females can just be friends?
Absolutely. In fact, I’d say I have more male friends than female friends. I’m not a particularly masculine female or anything either. I have a typically-female music taste, and I have typical-female hobbies, like makeup and shopping. That being said, I also enjoy sports, and video games, and skateboarding. I don’t even think interests like these should be gendered, but that’s a different argument altogether.My oldest friend is a guy I’ve known since the second grade. Sure, he came out as gay three years ago, but even when he still thought he was a heterosexual, we were still friends. We like the same music, we like the same video games, and we are great friends. He likes memes, pop culture, Ariana Grande, and Super Smash Bros.One of my best friends from high school is a guy. We actually made out at a party once while we were both drunk, but we laughed it off right after, and continued being friends without a hitch. He has a girlfriend now too, and we’re still very good friends. We were in many classes together, we like to gossip, and we’re very good friends. He likes tattoos, weightlifting, tourist attractions, and vaping.My closest friend from university is a boy. He has a girlfriend that he’s loved for several years, not to mention he wouldn’t be my “type” anyway. We’re in the same major, we both like drinking, and we’re living together next year. He likes politics, various nerdy things, watching football, and Overwatch.Males and females are perfectly capable of being friends, as long as both parties understand that friendship is platonic. Sure, it isn’t rare for a guy and a girl to end up romantically involved, but much more often, two people can simply enjoy each other’s company without ulterior motives.
Stereotype these girl names?
Stereotype these girl names tell me what you picture a girly girl, cheerleader, mean girl , popular, nerdy, shy..and what do you think the girl would look like blonde ringlets, black straight hair and what do you think she would be involved in at school , being a cheerleader , honor student.. Annabelle (nickname Anna/Belle) Emmeline (pronounced Emma-lean and the nickname is Emmy) Addison (Addy) Madelyn (Maddie) Hazel Lila Violet Lillian (Lily ) Molly