My boyfriend wants me to get a nose job? What should I do?
Get a new man. Clearly, he wants a different woman.Here’s a fairly unflattering head-on view of my face:You see this thing? Lets just say I’m not going to be featured on “world’s most symmetrical face.” But there is no way on this earth I’m bothering with non-reconstructive plastic surgery. I’ve been through like 7 or 8 surgeries on my face thanks to cleft lip and palet. The last two should have just not been done.At this point in my life, who I see in the mirror is who I am. I’ve been found darn hot by some women, and I’ve been attracted to a few that didn’t fit the ideal, myself.But, seriously, your face is one of the most recognizable things about you. It allows friends and family to pick you out of a crowd.Rhinoplasty is one of the more dangerous procedures. If this guy thinks he’s going to “upgrade” by throwing you under the knife, I strongly suggest you leave and tell him to become the kind of man who can actually attract his ideal woman.
I wanna have sex with my ex boyfriend..?
But he thinks I'm a some kind of slut now.. Which, I'm not. I don't want to get back with him, I just want to have sex with him . We've both moved on (in the relationship sense) & now we're friends. We still see eachother often, we do alot for eachother, go out together and cuddle .. But we don't kiss, or even hold hands. The most he'll do is put his arm around me, while we're walking. But back to the point- He's gorgeous. I wanna sleep with him. I miss sleeping with him..he was one of the best I ever had. Is there a special ex seduction method I could use.. A sure-fire way to get him in bed? lol
My boyfriend's mom is horrible what do i do?
Oh, Boy, I really feel for you. You are dealing with a petty, angry, controlling, mean person. You may be dealing with a child (your boyfriend) that can't stand up to his mom yet. If I were speaking to her I would say, "Hey, did you know that it's very possible in two years that your son will have to keep you out of his life if he decides that he needs to grow up?" I have plenty of married friends that have had to show their parents the door because the kids couldn't live their own lives and the parent wouldn't be civil. But back to you. I wish I could apologize to you for her. What she did is written in my first line. It sounds like you love your guy, and boy does he need your understanding and encouragement to grow past her. I hope he knows in his soul that he is entitled to more respectful treatment. I hope that he gets away from home when he goes to college. He needs a job and a plan if you two are going to make it. You might have to be patient as he finds his way. Warning** He may be beholden to her (unfree) for a long time, and that spells trouble. The truth is that she doesn't like you, and I would strongly suggest that you breathe that in and accept it. You can't make chicken salad out of chicken sh*t. She will not change ever, unless he learns to discipline her like the child that she is. I admire the fact you want to sue her, but this will probably be a deal breaker for you and your guy. Again, if either of you could get jobs, you can pay some of the money back to your parents. I am really sorry this happened to you. You sound like a nice person.
My boyfriend is hardly ever intimate with me, what should I do!?
So my boyfriend and I have been together a little over 3 years, the first year we had sex all the time, like crazy rabbits! But now he's never horny no matter what I do! I'm an attractive 28 year old punk rock chick and I've always been a very sexual person. We have had talks about it and he says he's just stressed out but even when I parade around in my sexiest skimpiest little outfits he treats it like its a chore that he HAS to do... I always have to make the first move or else we would probably never have sex! We do it at most once a week, but that's even starting to dwindle... I know a lot of you will say he's cheating but I know for a fact that isn't the case... He also has a hard time expressing his feelings and never gives me compliments except when we have sex, That's probably the biggest reason I want it more since really that's the only time he's affectionate... Can anyone help me???