My stepdad hit me:'(?
My stepdad just pulled my hair right now and punched me bc I supposedly hit his son. I didnt mean to hit him I actually felt bad but my stepdad just came and pulled my hair so hard my head still hurts and he punched me in my arm and told me to never touch his kid, I broke down and tears and when to tell my mom but she just ignored me. I expected her to stand up for me but she just kept texting on her phone, and since she didn't stand up for me, I decided to standup for myself so I started telling that man a bunch of crap like 'you don't have the right to hit me and stuff like that but he aimed his hand and told me if I keep talking he was gonna hit me again then my mom started backing him up wich broke my heart because I couldnt believe my mom was on his side and just stared at them and digust I realized I was alone in this so im right here in my room angry, crying, my real daddy is dead, and my stepdad sometimes calls me orphan, and im so sad I need a hug right now im completely alone my head hurts.... What do I do???
What do I do if my step dad hits on me?
lately he s been really flirty with me and I have a boyfriend and he just keeps flirting with me and it s making me feel really uncomfortable. He drinks sometimes, but he doesn t get drunk..i just don t want him to try anything what do I do?
What can i do if my step dad hits me?
i think i would stand up to him. i'd tell him if he lays a hand on you you will go to the police and swear out a warrent against him. you can also say that you can be a witness for your mom. he is a bully and he is on a power trip. he knows he has you frightened and is using this to the hilt. if he threatenes you, tell him go ahead and just try it, i'll get you in jail so fast it isn't funny. your mom and you need to throw him out of the house. when your in school go to the library and try to find the laws for someone in your situation. you also need to go to a trusted teacher who will help you work this through. another thing speak to a neighbor you trust in the event that you need to get out of the house quickly. stop being afraid and start to make a plan.
Step dad hit me what to do?
Whatever else you do, be sure to document everything. Keep a secret diary and write in it. Be very specific. This is called evidence and it's extremely important. Don't tell your mother about your diary but tell your mum about the abuse each time it happens. Then write in your diary every time you told your mum about the abuse and describe what she did about it. It's not uncommon for a mother to cover up for an abusive husband. DOCUMENT DOCUMENT DOCUMENT. Every time something happens; every time your step father does something mean to you; every time you tell your mum and she does nothing about it. Write it down and hide it from both of them. But always tell your mum about the abuse. A good way to hide your diary it is to send a daily log as an email to a trusted friend, or to a teacher, or to a counselor, or to a child welfare officer.
I think my stepdad is hitting on me?
Over reacting? Probably not. What you should do is put a stop to that sort of behavior. Since you're a close family then you should be able to say to him "That makes me feel uncomfortable." OK, you remind him of your mother. Understandable. The cute hair cut? Understandable. The spank with the sword - well, not so understandable, and I can certainly understand why that would make you feel uncomfortable. His comments about your body? Just say "Off limits buster!" then give it no more attention. He'll get the message. If NOT then speak to your mother about it. Ask her to convey how uncomfortable you feel around him and his actions. It's early and can probably be rectified with a stern word from you such as the examples I gave you. As for him checking out your body? Since he's not your father I can understand his admiration of your physique, since you DO bear a resemblance to your mother. Whatever attracted him to her he may see in you now. His giving you this attention however is unwarranted, and should be addressed. As for damaging your relationship with him? Sounds like HE's the one doing the damage. If you cherish your former relationship with him then have that conversation with him. Let him know you're a mature woman who expects to be respected by him. His comments are out of line and make you feel uncomfortable. At this point I suspect he will listen and start treating you more like an adult and not as a sex object (assumed that's what he's doing, though no outright evidence of such). Hope this helps. ˚¿˚ ` ˘ ´ Proud father of FIVE girls. WAY TOO MANY YEARS experience.
My stepdad hit me recently. What should I do?
On Monday, there was terrible snow, and even though my school was open, I couldn't get there as the buses weren't running, the trains were delayed by hours etc. Later on though the snow started to melt and my mother started telling me to go to school, and I said it was pointless, as no-one would be there, and the lessons wouldn't be normal anyway, but my stepdad came over and started insisting. He turned off my Xbox while is playing without giving me the chance to save or anything, and started grabbing me telling me to go to school. I've always had a nasty temper, but I've managed to control it more recently, but this really started to annoy me. I went upstairs and my mum shouted at me from downstairs and I shouted back, aggressively, and I didn't mean to. When I went downstairs to get my lunch and bus fare, he said to me "There is no need for this shouting, unless you want to be a little c*nt and upset your mother." and I told him to get f***ed. He then hit me in the back of the head and I said "You silly bastard. What the f**k! Hit me in the face! Go on then!" He didn't, he just stood there, gormless as ever. I walked out, went to school, and I was right. School was half-empty, and we were just on computers revising. When I got home, my mum and my stepdad wasn't in, and I had full intentions of punching him if he was there. I left a note apologising to my mum, but not him and went to my dad's. Later on, my mum rang asking what happened, and the prick didn't even tell her. She was shocked and I've been staying at my dad's ever since. I don't want to go home to a prick who hits me from behind when I raise my voice, so what should I do?
If Your Step-Dad Hits You Is It Legal?
.Your step-parent can legally punish you, yes. What kind of "hit", how hard, and where, could be an issue. FYI: Posts are easier to read when typed correctly. That would mean sentence case, Not Every Word Beginning With A Capital.
Can my step dad hit me or my sister?
My stepfather claims I gave him an attitude and threatened to beat me if I ever did again but 2 days before he hit my sister (10 years old) for not cleaning water off of the bathroom floor and he smacked her across the head and she fell and started crying my mom does know about thus but she told me it wasn't that hard but if my biological dad found out idk what would happen. I'm not afraid to stand up to him is if there's something say he's not allowed to hit me or my sister please tell me I'm so confused oh that was not the first time he hit her when she was seven and she didn't go to sleep he bruised her cheek.
Can a step dad legally hit you?
ok so let me start by saying that i'm 17 year old guy i'm really chill i dont like fighting at all i do not live under his roof. he lives under my roof because it's my real dad's house that i live in. so about 5 days ago i parked my car in front of my step dad's truck. he got really pissed at me cus he was trying to go to the store and my car was blocking his truck. so he came in the house yelling at me and he even called me an asshole and a stupid dumbass and that he was gonna beat the shitt out off me than i said to him that words dont hurt me but if he lays a finger on me i was gonna kick his *** so he got pissed and punched me in the stomach i folded than i got back up and punched him in the nose you know than my mom came and separated us. so than 2 days ago (friday) i came home like around 2 in the morning from my girlfriend's house he was really mad because i came in that late he started telling my mom that i was prolly out doing drugs and that she shoud call the cops and than i just told him to shut the f*** up and to go to sleep and he once again got really pissed this time he got all over my face trying to intimidate me and curse me out so than i got mad and just started cursing at him back that's when it happened he punched me on my face than i started punching him and punching him over and over again than my stupid ***** mom came and smacked me with a glass jar and told me to pack my stuff and to get out of the house and now i'm staying with in my girlfriend's house and i dont know what to do someone please help i don't want to inform my real dad about this cus he is prolly going to kill my step dad and make me move with him to california and leave my girlfriend so someone please help me this guy been doing this for a long time he is a scavenger he lives under our roof he eats my food that i buy with my own money from the job that i have he is unemployed so i have been a nice person to him providing him with gas money and buying some food for the house so someone please help me out here idk what to do can they even kick me out i mean first of all is he even allow to hit me?