Am I jealous...of my brother's girlfriend?
I don't hate her, she's generally friendly and seems pretty genuine. But they've been dating about 3 years and my brother gives her the priority by a mile, way above our parents or even me. For example, my dad paid for my brother's car since he was 17 (he's 24 now, but I'm 17) and just recently finished paying for it. My brother got a new truck but instead of letting me have the old car, he gives it to his girlfriend. My dad had mentioned years ago that after my brother, I would get the car. Then he meets this girl and she suddenly gets the priority. Another example, my brother gets me a new phone for Christmas. It takes 3 months for it to work, but I got it. Then he calls me today and says there was a mix up on his plan. His girlfriend was supposed to get the unlimited minutes while I'm on limited minutes. On the superbowl, he goes to her house instead of the traditional my mom, me, a couple of our friends and him. He hesitantly bought me Skyrim for my birthday but spends 500 dollars on a piece of jewelry for her birthday. He gets my mom flowers for her birthday but his girlfriend's mom a 200 dollar toaster oven. Last month her, her family and my brother go to Disneyland (which is about a 10 minute drive from my mom and I, my brother lives with my dad) but don't invite us or stop by to see us and when my mom asked about it she said "well, it was a family-only thing, you know?" It seems like he cares more about her than us and if I bring it up he'll call me insane and a little baby for getting upset. What do I do? Sometimes I wonder if she's only using him for his money and stuff he gets her.
How do I get my brother's girlfriend to leave?
Start cooking nothing but beans and rice. She will get sick of it. And if you move in with your friend we will be seeing a question from her in a month or so on how to get you to move out. Just a thought because these kinds of things usually do not work out.
Brothers girlfriend is very rude?
My brothers girlfriend is not nice. She doesnt say hi when she comes over she just walks right past us like we arent even there. She doesnt say goodbye when she leaves. She doesnt thank my mom for making her dinner and she doesnt say thank you for letting me stay when she sleeps over. I know my brother really likes her so I tried being nice to her and talking to her but she just ignores me and its really getting me mad. Im so close to either yelling at her the next time she is rude to my family or slapping her across the face and screaming listen to me when i speak to you. I dont know what to do? any ideas? or what would you do in my situation? any ideas are welcome thank you very much for your time.
My brother and his girlfriend broke up help? :(?
if they're broken up then they're broken up. it's for them to work it out. you didn't lose your friend though. i would assume they both would be okay if you were still friends with her.
Could my brother's girlfriend be obsessed with me?
My brother and I were roommates. He was dating a girl 4 years younger then me and she spent most of her time over at our place. She use to come over at odd times during the day when my brother was out at work, school or running errands. She knew his daily schedule but for some odd reason she use to come by. It's not like she was homeless or anything. She turned this routine into a habbit. Things got so bad she wanted to know everything where was I going what time I would be back??? She would sit around and when the phone would ring she'd ask who's calling in a demand way.Once a credit card company called to offer me a credit card and she answered pretending to be me! One weekend we went over her place and I noticed she had everything like me from clothes to hair product! she even bought the same car as me. She would asked my brother who my hair dresser was. When we would go out to eat she would order the same items as me. What is freaky is that when my ex and I broke up shortly I had a new boyfriend. I kept the new relationship in the down low I wasn't ready to introduce him to family and friends. I kept him a secret for 5 months. One morning I parked at a private no trespassing area and my car was towed. I tried calling my brother to pick me up left a voice message. I then called my boyfriend he was on his way when I see my brother's girlfriend's car driving down the road and she pulled over to pick me up she had my brothers phone and had heard my message.She then noticed my boyfriend's truck and said isn't that your friend? I said he is here to pick me up. The next day my brother said she was mad at me for not telling her I was dating someone. She was upset that I have I kept it a secret from her. She confessed that she was into me and that she wanted to be me. I told her to admire someone famous! She continued you are who I want to be like. I started laughing. I ignored her! One night we all went out to a party she asked my boyfriend very personal and intimate questions about our relationship. I confronted her, she and I argued! I was very upset with her I went out to the car and she followed me asking me to stop avoiding her. I told her in tears that she was rude disrespectful and annoying! I yelled stop obsessing on me. She then started laughing and said "I'm not obsessed with you, you are the last person in the world I would be obsessed with!" What does this mean? I'm confused!!!
Is it okay to ignore my brother's girlfriend if I don't like her?
I hate my brother's on again off again girlfriend- I just got back from an Easter get together. See my brother had a baby with this girl, he got divorced a few years ago but has two previous daughters with his ex-wife. Thing is he's using her for attention- he said he doesn't love her and doesn't want to marry her, but his ex-wife got remarried see; I just blattently ignore her and the whole family knows I don't like her. I even at one time asked her to leave my parents house because I felt she was disrespecting my mom- it's one of those indirect disrespects; I just dislike her very much, I've never acted this way to anyone before but even though I don't like her, I respect my brothers choice to marry her or not; I will never be friends with her, I will be polite when it's time to be polite; but I will not make any attemps to talk to her. Is that okay? I treat my nefew normal, and love him, but not the mother. People say you don't have to like everyone, right?
Does my brother's girlfriend sound like a trouble-maker?
OK, so my brother asked me to take him to Best Buy, & his girlfriend (younger than me) hopped in my car without my approval & thinks she can just tag along with my brother everywhere he goes. & on top of that, my 5-yr. old great-niece asked me if she can come, & I told her NO. The girl snuck my great-niece in the car, ANYWAY. My paranoid-schizo brother went off on be because he "thought" I was trying to get everyone killed. He's just stupid. But anyway, we got into an argument, & he punched the seats of my BRAND new car that I had just got & was yelling & cursing. So I cursed him back, & I slapped the piss out of him. So, the girl says, "There's a baby in the car!" & I said, "What?" She said, "THERE'S A BABY IN THE CAR! HAVE SOME RESPECT!" She got NERVE! Have some respect? She got in my car without my permission, & she's not even family. Respect? & then, I said, "Look, you're in MY car. YOU have some respect!" Then, I was upset & said, "See, now I'm so worked up & angry that I can't even drive now. I can't drive until I calm down." Then she says, "U gon' drive, b*tch!" Then, I put both of them out the car, & the girl locked herself in, so I couldn't drag her out of the car, & my brother & her were gonna both jump ME. Even though this girl's mentally slow, fighting both him & her, would be like fighting "2" men! & the girl threatened to tear up all of my pictures & posters of my favorite celebrities, & I finally drove off. They tried to jump IN FRONT OF the car & tried to put the little girl IN FRONT OF the car, while I was trying to drive AWAY from them. So, later she called my phone, harrassing me & threatening me, talking about "Yeah, b*tch! I heard you sexually want my boyfriend!" I'm like, "How could I sexually want your boyfriend if that's my brother? Get a life!" & then, she said, "Don't call here no more, here?" & hung up in my face. She had NO right to tell me not to call my brother on HIS cell phone that she pays NOT A PENNY for. & then, I heard that she left my brother for my lesbian twin sister, & my brother is still trying to fight to get the girl back, instead of being upset with the girl. SO I said, "Sex is THAT great that you have to defend your "whore" over your own flesh & blood!?"