What is the best way to handle this situation?
Don't burn bridges at work or at home. You never know when you may need to cross them again. If you are serious, very serious, about working things out with your ex, I would tell the new guy and the old guy the truth. Let them know that you are conflicted with the current situation. You either need time or space or both. That way you can at least get a clearer picture of what you want to do. If either understand (truely understand) then there should not be a problem. Don't do anything and you are bound to piss one of them off and that is a big bridge burner.
How would you handle this situation?
Loosen-up. If you don't you'll lose your daughter. She's at the age where your relationship is going to turn one way or another...if you can't sit down and tell her why you don't want her in make-up, do you really expect her to come to you for advice about boys, drugs, and sex? At this age i would allow minimal make-up and monitored "dates" (you taking the two of them to the movies). She needs to know your on her side. I don't know what to think of a 16 year old boy being in the picture (most of the time it's 18+) I would really try to let her make her own choices and mistakes. If you try to forbid something it will usually happen only it will be behind your back. It's easy to want to protect her, but she's going to get her heart broken and ....Be the person she comes to for advice.
My BGF saw me naked? But did he handle the situation right?
So my best guy friend and my brother are best friends.He's 16 and so am I and my brother is 20. Him and me have known each other since we were in diapers. My brother and him were playing this video games. And usually I lock my bedroom door and my bathroom door and I take my shower and change in my bathroom. So I was changing and I guess he (BGF) came in my room to get something. I was changing and i swear i locked it. Anyways he "saw" me!! He stared at me for like a good minute or two. I saw him started to blush and I quickly put on a towel and turned around. At first he just started to apologize and said sorry a billion times. Then when he saw that I was kind of ashamed he came up to me and I thought he was gonna rape me but he was to good of a friend. He came up to me and softly said "There's nothing to be ashamed of your beautiful" and then he tried to give me an awkward hug the whole time he was like breathing on my neck. Then out of nowhere he said "Oh ****" and I turned around and I saw him getting a hard-on. He saw me looking and turned around and apologized again for coming in and started saying sorry for the *****. Did he handle the situation right? Was he trying to get something by hugging me? Why didn't he just leave. Also whenever I see him now he can't look at me in the eyes. I kind of like him to? What should I do?
Is fighting a good way to handle a situation between two men? When is it the right way?
Yes war is the answer
What is the right way to handle a situation when a group of guys tease or are eye gawking your girlfriend? I am from India.
You’re portraying this as one man against an entire environment. That’s not something you can change in a reactive context. The simplest and easiest way to deal with it would be to find safer areas for you both to frequent.If you are always at odds with where you are then you have a very few options. One is to work to make things better and raise awareness of gender equality over an extended period of time, the other is to plan for relocation in the future.
What is the best way to handle this situation?
Starting a sexual relationship is only going to complicate things. I think you should avoid this route, until everybody is clearer on what they want.He knows now that you would have him as more than a room mate/friend. This immeasurably complicates your situation. If you move forward, you're a couple. And not just a couple, but a couple living together, committed. If things don't work, there is no fall back position, someone will have to move out. You're already together. He may be torn if he would prefer a relationship with a guy or a gal. Maybe he wants the guy one more, it's just that you're close and available. I think you should look for resources in your community for help. Is there a crisis line he could call? Is there a university that offers discount therapy by grad students? Is there a LGBTQ organization that assists people with their questions? You should tell him something like "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to press the situation. I'm going to go back to being a roommate, and we can figure this out. And I've found these places you can call, and they can help you figure things out. This crisis line 123-456-7890, is completely anonymous. And OrgZ offers support for people questioning what to do next. Please, I'll go with you. I don't want to see you suffer."Then let it be. Let him settle down, and decide what is right for him. You also should scout out a few other living arrangements. Just in case. He may decide he can't live with you anymore. And it's better to be prepared, than to be rushed.
What is the best way to handle a racist situation?
Is the question what is the most effective way or the most legal and ethical way? Gunfire is the most effective way. The most legal and ethical way is to go through the system and handle the racist through the courts. This will regulate and control the racist but sometimes the courts themselves are also racist and side with the racist. Then one is required to go back to the most effective way.There are other methods such as protests and demonstrations but those usually just create martyrs and victims along with adversaries and proponents.
What is the best way to handle a situation where you are unable to answer a question asked by one of your juniors?
I used bump into such situation pretty often. Well, first thing is if you dont have any context at all, ask them to excuse yourself, do your research and then have a nice session where in you can discuss the same.Now, when you know this situation can arise, better be prepared before hand. Keep yourself updated, keep reading, keep understanding. This will avoid a situation where in you dont have any context about the question asked by your juniors at all.
How do you handle this hospitality situation?
Assuming you can't seat them (if there is no table available) I would apologize for the wait, you may want to explain that other guests have stayed longer than normal (or that you have some large parties or whatever - you don't need to offer an explanation but it may help, use your judgement) Depending on how big of a party they have and how expensive a place you have - I would offer to seat them in the bar until a table is ready (if you have one and there is room) offer to comp them some drinks, etc. If you have no bar, offer to bring out some soft drinks and again profusely apologize. If a guest *sees* that there is no room for them to sit, and they demand to be seated now - they realize there isn't room, they are trying to see what they can get from you in terms of freebies. Sad situation but true. So bottom line is: 1. Acknowledge their frustration. 2. Confirm to them they should not have had to wait so long. 3. Try to update how long it will be (go out on the floor and check with servers to see how long it will take to get a free table) and report this back to the guest. 4. Try to mediate - seating in bar until table opens up 5. Offer comps if appropriate. Sometimes it isn't a case of wanting free stuff - sometimes people in their party need to eat due to diabetes, or the medication they take or if their are young children. If that is the situation - sitting in the bar with a round of soft drinks and a bread basket may be the best option.