Is it better to have no friends than the wrong friends?
I once found a very beautiful watermelon. Beautiful because it had a fresh green covering. And when I asked the fruit vendor if I could see the insides of it, he just put in a little cut and showed me. It was red as blood.Seems tasty doesn’t it?While coming back from the market, I was very hungry. I could almost imagine myself going home and enjoying that one hell of a watermelon!As I reached home and tasted it, there was a shattering sound; that of my castles in the air being broken. It was more tasteless than any other thing I’ve ever devoured.This incident left me with a lesson. To check my watermelons ,nah, any fruits, properly before I bought them. Now, had I not bought that watermelon, I wouldn’t have had some of the best fruits I’ve had, post that incident, till date.Coming back to your question, wrong friends leave you with lessons. Those that even your best of people couldn’t teach you. And what you are left with are some of the best friends with whom you can discuss about those wrong, tasteless watermelons and have a hearty laugh!Cheers!
What is wrong with me and how can I feel better?
You could be stressed or you could have some depression.If, when you are stressed, you have shallow breathing, then you are lowering your metabolism and that would cause you to feel like you don’t have enough energy. Shallow breathing creates lethargy and that prevents you from being able to perceive any ideas that are troubling but it is a bad solution. To overcome this habit, I recommend you buy a tent and put it over your bed. As you sleep you will use up some of the oxygen so that the air has slightly less oxygen in it. This will cause your body to breathe deeper to get the right amount of oxygen. It is a simple , effortless way of de-conditioning your body, to getting rid of the bad habit. But you also need to discover the source of the stress.If you are depressed, with feelings of hopelessness or inability to change your situation then here again you may be lowering your metabolism, which robs you of your energy.In both cases you need to discover the source of the problem. I have discussed some things in these two other answers that might be useful to you.https://www.quora.com/Why-do-I-p...https://www.quora.com/What-do-yo...It is very useful to keep a diary and record your thoughts, the people you interact with, the nature of the interactions and a some notes and to time and date everything. Also you need to keep your diary private.. from everyone, FOR YOUR EYES ONLY. You can also do some automatic writing in your diary, which can bring up subconscious issues.After a while you will begin to see some patterns. You may notice thoughts of hopelessness after having interacted with someone. If you are being hassled by others you need to discover who they are and either avoid them or keep your contact to a minimum and do not share information about yourself or your plans etc. You will find that if there are people hassling you, then the chief offender is always someone closely related to you. Relationship is necessary for them to make mental suggestions. On my profile you will find the first video of my video series. These explain how a person can be hassled and stressed. When you know what games are played you can overcome them. You know that the ideas in mind are simply someone else’s suggestions so null and void. You can discharge them from mind.
Is it wrong to wish for better things in life?
It is not at all wrong to wish for better things in life. But before you wish for better things, appreciate what you have today. Coz many ppl are not even privileged to have what you have right now. There is nothing wrong in dreaming to dine at JW Marriott, but don't underestimate the food ur mom makes, because some ppl don't have a house to dwell in, and some don't have food to eat, and few others have both of these, but won't have their mother. So appreciate what you have, be thankful and then wish for more and work to get that. :)
Why can't I get better grades? What's wrong with me?
I used to get good grades without trying. So, I never really learned how to study hard... In the country ,where I now live, the last 2 years of school are crucial. Every grade counts and there are only 3-4 exams/tests in every subject a year. That makes improving grades very hard, since if you screw up even one test you are unlikely to graduate with a good overall grade (GPA). I have really been studying hard or at least trying to. But my grades these past months are not good. The're above average but they will not get me into a good university to study medicine. I received the results of my biology exam and now I have lost all confidence, because I was so sure it was good but it was wasn't. My chemistry test today went very badly. I was so nervous I couldn't remember stuff I learned and it felt like a blackout. It will be terrible. There are no people in my life I can ask for help. Not my parents, siblings, teachers, friends. I tried telling them that no matter how hard I try I can't seem to be able to get good grades and I feel I'm not smart enough. The only answers I've gotten were, "you have to try harder" and "don't worry, you're so smart". But I don't think I am, and I can't stand disappointing them... Excuse me for rambling. My question is: How can I regain lost confidence to get better grades? The most important thing for me is get into a university but right now I feel so...drained. Did anybody have similiar experiences or can you just give me some advice? Thanks for listening (rather reading) ;)))
If someone could help me better understand what is wrong with the transitions in my FBLA speech, I would greatly appreciate it!?
I have a speech written for FBLA. If anyone doesn't know what that is, it is a club at many school all over the nation that offers many opportunities for students to better themselves through business related actions. My speech is about FBLA and the speech itself is great, I just would love help on transitions since it cost me 30 of my 300 points. Here is my speech:
Can medication make me feel better?
I don't think antidepressants will help you ( their actually very dangerous and you can go to www.paxilprogress.org and see alot people their who had horrible side effects from them) You have probably deep issues not dealt with. Your basically expressing you feel friendless and lonely a pill won't change that. Their is nothing wrong with feeling down just don't get lost in it. You mention you where gay so maybe their is a part of you that feels rejected by the world because of it. Again a pill won't change that , but talking to someone who can help be constructive on healing you inner child may help . Please stay far away from the psych pills check out the website i'm telling the truth very very dangerous stuff. Finding a creative out let like writing or drawing etc may help too.
Is it wrong to always want to be better than others?
Yeah, so that question sounds bad. But hear me out. See, I never try to be a particularly competitive person (I hate overcompetitive people), but I'm highly conscious of what other people have done that I haven't, their successes versus my failures. I try not to hate them for it, and be happy for them, sometimes I am, other times just jealous. I know their success doesn't harken my failure, but I am still very aware of other people, in MY mind, being "better" than me because of something they accomplished (either by skill or pure luck). My... "friend", I suppose, once remarked on this, on one of her rants of all teh issues that she finds with me, saying "You always have to be BETTER than other people! Why do you feel the need to try and be BETTER than people? You are never going to be the best at anything, there will ALWAYS be someone better than you, so like, whats the point?" My issues is I was under the impression that this is sort of what the rest of the world runs on. We are people, striving to be better than others. And I mean it in a good way, without the competitiveness we wouldn't strive to be better, make better things, invent more efficient creations (basically the results of capitalism for humanity: people do better than others, get rewards of life, other people try harder, etc. Or you drop out of the game and commit suicide). So with that backstory, my question is: do you agree? Is striving to be better than others something we all do? Or not? And am I just a crazy freak for trying?
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I dont know what it is,but it doesnt sound good,it sounds like he has something wrong with his lungs or something,I would take him to the vet,it might be a plugged nose as well,but that can be a sign of something more serious,I would go to the vet just to be sure...its a breathing noise,not one that he is making on purpose I dont think....keep in mind I could be wrong,but thats what it looks like to me....
What can I do to make my Alakazam to like me better in pokemon emerald?
first off u must not have the right badges, u need certain badges for pokemon to obey you without using the wrong moves. After obtaining the needed badge(s), if the pokemon still dislikes you, you can have it like you by keeping it at full health most of the time, keep it in your party at all times and having it not faint or be poisoned, paralyzed etc... for long periods of time. This can help your pokemon love u unconditionally :):)
Fingering feels better than sex and I can't orgasm. What's wrong with me?
Having sex doesn't hurt, but it's not pleasurable. My boyfriend's penis is pretty big so size isn't the problem. To make things odder, fingering feels WAY better than intercourse! But even then, I can't orgasm. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months and not once has he gotten me to climax. He always felt really bad about it so recently I've started fake-orgasming to satisfy him. I feel so bad. It's not his fault that I can't climax; I think it's mine. We've tried different positions and still nothing. I don't know what wrong with me. :(