Is my sister-in-law's husband my brother-in-law?
Either he's your brother, or your brother-in-law-in-law!
My sister in law is cheating on my brother!!? What should i do??!?
At least you DID print out what you saw, so you DO have your proof! Given ALL you've posted, I wouldn't be a bit surprised if this is just what she's doing or going to do. What a total shame, & I CAN just imagine how you feel for your brother. She really does have it "made" to even be living with your mother no doubt rent free & doing all this against your brother no less. How utterly sad! You've also stated she's noticed a change in the way you are acting towards her, but who can blame you! IF IF you did have the nerve, you could approach her, ask her if she's noticed a change in the way you're treating her lately. Look her rite in her eyes when you ask her. You could then bring it up to her it's ALL due to her actions lately involving another man other than your brother & it's hurting you badly. She doesn't know if you're aware she's sneaking him into the house or not. You could call her bluff on it & bring it up. A person who is guilty shows it in some way or another & I'm SURE you'd be able to "read" her body language. Let her know you don't know what to do as you hate to have your brother hurt & betrayed by her. Come rite out & ask her what kind of "games" is she thinking she's getting away with. What does she want to do about your brother finding out OR should you inform him knowing it's going to hurt him. Put it ALLL on her to give you her answers. You don't even have to mention the "proof" you have, just that you're aware of him actually coming to your own mom's house against your brother. That's how I would handle it IF you could do it. This way you'll possibly get some answers but also let her know what you're aware of. To me that would be the way to approach it IF you can. I trust things will work out for the best, but if she's going to continue to cheat on your brother, he does have every rite to know...I SO wish you the best, Honey...:)
What should I do when my brother in law fights with my sister?
let them solve their own problem until you will know when to interfere.help yourself get a life make yourself a life its going to be a difficult but just do it help yourself survived and make a better place to live in.
Can I marry my sister-in-law's( my brother's wife) sister?
Because she is my brother's sister-in-law . Plus when my brother and his wife(my sister-in-law) have kids, me and my sister-in-law's sister will have the same nieces and nephews. That also means me and my brother will have the same mother-in-law and father-in-law. My sister-in-law's parents are like my aunt and uncle. My parents and their parents are very close and we visit alot. She and i are already related through marriage. What do I do.
Can I marry my sister-in-law's( my brother's wife) sister?
Because she is also my sister-in-law because her sister is my brother's wife. Plus when my brother and his wife(my sister-in-law) have kids, me and my sister-in-law's sister will have the same nieces and nephews. That also means me and my brother will have the same mother-in-law and father-in-law. My sister-in-law's parents are like my aunt and uncle. My parents and their parents are very close and we visit alot. When I told my sister-in-law that I like her sister she laughed and said you "can't marry your own sister-in-law". For your information we are Afghans, and for us Afghans there is a real word for aunt-in-law and uncle-in-law wich also means there are cousin-in-laws. So we are already related by marriage but it will just look wierd. My sister-in-law's sister is like my sister and treates my like a brother and I treat her like a sister. I do not know if she is considered my sister-in-law too is she? Because in the Afghan way she is.
How do I deal with a cunning sister-in-law (my brother’s wife)? She’s very nice only when my brother and parents are there. Otherwise, she ignores me.
The fact that it bothers you, and she probably knows it, allows her to have control over you. You can confront her, which may give her more power to know for sure that it bothers you to the point of mentioning it. You might even make a statement in front of the others, “Wow, you are really personable today (or, in a cheerful mood)! You probably have one of the most awesome smiles I’ve seen and I look forward to it.” This lets her know that you are aware of it and bringing it out in the open, but also complimenting her. Don’t say it in a snide way, but genuine. Practice in front of a mirror. Who is going to condemn you for sincerely complimenting a person. Chances are, she is the one that is insecure around you and doesn’t know how to act without others around.I have found that be looking for a genuine compliment to someone I am not greatly fond of, usually breaks the ice.