What should I do if my parents have weed?
You shouldn’t do anything. It’s none of your business that your parents smoke weed. If you are of adult age, you can sit down with your parents and have an adult conversation about weed and their use of weed - if you can be non-judgmental about it.If you are a teenager, yet mature enough to address this with your parents, then sit them down and have an adult conversation with them about weed.If your parents pay their bills on time, go to work every day and make sure you have plenty of food to eat and they generally treat you well, then there’s absolutely nothing you should do about the fact that your parents have weed.Weed is safe and harmless, so forget all that nonsense you’ve read about weed that was written by the anti-drug, judgmental, hypocritical crowd.
What should I do when my parents die?
There is a lot you can do now that will ease your way later when it happens.1. Write their obituary now. Of course, you needn't actually write it out, but gather all the information that a regular obit has, such as schools attended, degrees earned, the year of graduation, what they did for a living, what businesses they worked for or owned, accurate birthdays, and names of all their siblings and their parents as far back as you can get. All this is basic family information that you should have in one place. Your children and grandchilden will be grateful that you put it down on paper.2. If you aren't 100% sure, ask them what they want for the funeral ceremony -- cremation or burial? What items should be buried or burned with them, what clothes. Do they want flowers? If so, what kind? Music? Try to get them to be as specific as possible, but of course be sensitive and don't try to press matters. If they don't want to talk about it, leave it.3. Financial matters. Ask them to put all their financial papers in one place so that if something should happen, you can access it all directly. Talk to an estate attorney to make sure that you their estate passes with as little taxes as possible.4. There are personal items that they own, like rings, jewelry, photos, furniture, family heirlooms, souvenirs. Find out who should get what. Ask them why, and how they got this object, and what it means to them. Every personal object has a story behind it, and they will want to tell you, and they will have a specific person in mind who should get it. Insure that it does when the time comes, and that the person gets the whole story behind the object as well. 5. You need a complete and uptodate list of all their friends and relatives with accurate contact information. When the time comes, you don't want to have to scramble around trying to notify everyone. Have all that information in a database that you can easily access.6. Bottomline: Get as much information from them as possible while they are still alive. Find out all their preferences as to inheritances and the funeral ceremony itself, down to what food to serve. When it happens, someone has to make all these hundreds of decisions quickly, and it will be you. The more you now their preferences, the easier it is for you. Trust me, I"ve been there.
My Wife and my Parents HATE each other. What should I do?
You can't, sadly. Just keep them as far apart as possible. Let your parents know that their animosity toward your wife will keep them from spending time with you, since the two of you are a family now, and you won't see them without her. That should make them tolerate her, at least. And ask her to respect them because they are your parents, and at least be civil. The time this will get complicated is when and if you have kids. Just hang in there. My husband and my parents do not get along so well, but I have made it clear that they will at least TRY for my sake, and for the sake of our daughter. OR, my parents just won't see their grandchild, which is unacceptable to them, so everyone does their best to get along. I really wish you luck. I have been married for 10 years. It does get easier over time.
What should I do if my parents find me jerking off?
I think most guys have ran into this at some point in time. And really it depends on the reaction of your parents and whether it is your mom or your dad that catches you. Most dads I presume would simply tell you to be more careful and don't let you mom see you or realize that it is time for "the talk" even though they are probably way too late. Most moms tend to freak out and get weird about it because their baby is playing with himself and its a big shock for a mom to realize that her baby boy is now becoming a sexual young man. Some parents pound on the religion aspect and teach that it is a sinc and a horrbile act while others parents realize (even if they are religious) that it is perfectly normal for boys to do and even if they try to stop it, it still is going to happen because it is hard wired into most boys brains. Regardless of how it happens, it is an awkward moment. You can be safe about if and try to do it in the bathroom, or if your room is safe. Or maybe just be clear about asking your parents to knock before they come in to afford you some privacy. Most parents are understanding to this and realize that as boys grow up, there is a need for new boundaries. It's a part of growing up, no matter the situation. I hope you just have parents that are understanding to this point. If not, just be a little more cautious about where you do it. I wouldn't recommend trying to stop altogether as that has never worked for me. A few days, even two weeks one time, but for those with a higher drive, it's going to happen. Be clear with your communication and things will work out.
My parents are always fighting, what should I do?
My parents had been fighting since I was a kid. I am 23 now and they still argue every single time. As a teenager, I know there was nothing that I can do. So I made the decision to go to boarding school during high school and now I am studying at oversea university just to get away from them. Don't get me wrong, I love them very much but constantly being in the middle of a fight, I just can't take it anymore. My brother is 13 and I am really glad that he is going to boarding school. It is his own decision and I actually feel sorry for him because I had to left him when I was in high school. We are very close to each other but I had never talk to him about our parents. I'm just waiting for the good time and I believe at these age, he can handle serious discussion. The only peaceful moments that I had at home are mostly the time that I spent with him without my parents. We love to go out just to eat ice cream ,went shopping or just watching cartoons at home. I really miss him. Back to my point, being away from my parents and house is really working for me and I enjoy not having someone arguing with each other 24/7.