What should I do if my best friend is not talking to me?
A little more back story:So this week has been our first week back at school since the Christmas break and my friend wasn't talking much to me on Monday, but then continued this until Friday (today). I was very upset, constantly sad at home, my feelings of dejectedness intensified my hatred of my body and reminded me of my past earing disorder behaviors and so I stopped eating lunch and breakfast, I almost skipped a day of school, and I cried quite a lot. This may seem like a dramatic response but I have a habit of massively overthinking things and so I thought she would hate me for life and never talk to me again.I finally approached her about it today and she said that I was making things up and that there was no problem. Then she started “officially” ignoring me by declaring that she wouldn't talk to me, perhaps because I was overthinking things and she didn't like it. However, when she has problems and confides in me, I don't stop talking to her - I try and help and make her feel better.I can't think of anything that I've done that would cause her to hate me so much. I'm really upset by it and I feel like everyone hates me because of previously mentioned overthinking problems. I've asked her what's wrong, I've apologised, I've asked her to tell me why she isn't speaking to me, but nothing's working. Does she just hate me now?Advice would be greatly appreciated!
My bestfriend and I don't talk anymore?
Okay, so we have always been REALLY close. There was never a dull moment with us. But now I don't even know how to talk to her? Every time I try to start conversation she basically ignores me. She's not her silly, talkative self anymore, well at least not around me. She never wants to hang out with me anymore, and has a new best friend. I don't know what to do? :(
What to talk about with my best friend?
Talk about your day, music you've heard, love interests, celebrities, movies, other friends and schools. Watch a movie and talk about that. << really good. tried it, got loadsa good times. (Calamity Jane!!) In case of awkwardness: Put music you like on (preferably something you both like - failing that, something you've both heard, at least) to make any silences less awkward. Sing. If you're bad, she'll laugh. Or you can both sing. Have food, and eat in any awkward silences. Nom.
Who is your best friend? Why?
Since i'm little introvert kind of person and less interactive, i never had any close friend with whom i can share everything.But from the past few years I have a great friend in my life. She is not just my friend but she is my best friend and she is Rohini Hiremath , brilliant and spectacular artist.It has been a journey with her. When i met her first, I never thought that one day she will be my best friend.I still remember the first time when i met her at my workplace and she took her seat exactly opposite to me, and after the first conversation i had with her i was not interested in talking to her. I thought how can someone recruit anyone and how can she be selected to work here. I used to be in my own at that time and never talked to her. But then days passed and slowly we became good friends due to some mutual friends.Words will not be enough to describe why she is my best friend. She is very talented person. She always motivates me whenever i have get pessimistic about myself. If there is any one who knows if i'm upset or not, it's her. If there is any one who knows how to get out of any situation, it's her. If there is any one who knows me well, then also it's her. She is incredible. She is like my confession box. If i want to get my feelings out, i drop them in that box without any hesitation. She is an excellent listener. With my best friend, i can always just be myself and i can talk about anything that comes to my mind. I don't give a second thought whenever she gives me any suggestion and i trust her blindly. Being a positive person, she always keeps me positive in all the circumstances.We both like to travel to different places and i hope she be my travel companion in most of the places in future.She is like sister to me and i love her from younger brother's heart. I wish i had met this amazing person early in my life.
Best friend won't stop talking to my ex?
Okay, so I have been best friends with my good friend for almost 4 years. We have some small fights here and there, but over all our friendship is good. Until, my friend started talking to my ex. My ex and I dated for almost 5 months, and then we broke up, and then we got back together again for 2 months, and then he left me for another girl. Now, I am over my ex, but when I found out my friend was talking to him I got very angry. First of all, she didn't even know him until I introduced them once. And second of all, she knows he hurt me badly. Anyways, I found out my friend was talking to him, and I asked her to stop because it bothered me, and she said she would. But, little did I know, she never stopped talking to him. I found out recently that they have been talking for months, even after she told me they stopped. When I confronted her about it, she said that she would not stop talking to him, and that she can talk to whomever she wants (and its not like she has a crush on him, because she likes someone else A LOT).So I got mad and she got mad and things were said, and now she won't talk to me. I've apologized for what I said but she is still mad. What do I do? I value her friendship and I like her, but what she did hurt me a lot, and now she says she never wants to be my friend again. Please help.
What should I do if my best friend and crush talk a lot now?
It happened with me twice actually.First incident happened in the initial days of my college, you just came in here, everything was new and your eyes got stucked to a particular face among the crowd and you're like Wow! I came back and tell my friend about what just happened and the next thing he's doing is looking up for that girl on social media and doing everything possible to talk to her and here I'm like WTF!Next incident happened during the training of my first job. It was probably the second or the third day, saw a cute innocent face and told my friend ‘that's it, that's what I was looking for’ and the next thing I remember was seeing that friend sitting right next to that girl, he came back within 10 minutes with her number for himself and I'm like WTF just happened.The common thing in both the cases were that it didn't last any longer as the motive was not right. It all started with the motive to make me feel jealous or whatever but it wasn't their own instints that motivated them to do it in the first place so eventually it collapsed after some time.The point is, you don't have to worry about this friend atleast, not sure about any other guy but in this case I think you're marginally safe.:)
I haven't talked to my best friend in 3 years?
We were close friends since the 2nd grade all the way till senior year of high school. I'm now in my third year of college and she goes to the same college but we don't talk. It all started after high school graduation, I had a celebration party at my house and she came over, we had a good time and that was the last day we spent time together. Basically i have no idea why we lost touch. we just stopped talking to each other, its almost a blur i just don't know why we drifted apart. So the last time i saw her was when i was 18, I'm turning 21 soon and i miss her. I basically grew up with her, she was like my sister and i just want to know what happened between us, why are we not friends anymore. But like i said its been 3 years since we have talked. I want to contact her but I'm afraid she wont want to talk or be friends ever again. Should i just message her on Facebook, cause i don't have her number anymore, or should i just let it go?
Me and my best friend haven't talked in a month. What do i do?
Ask her friends who are your friends and ask what's up. Usually when these things happen, it's over a guy or something really bad happened in her family or she's really hurt by someone. Ask her how she has been feeling and tell her you really care about her and she'll be really happy that you care. she shouldn't just ignore you for no reason, and if she is, then she's being a real bi*** and you shouldn't talk to her anymore if she would ditch you like that. DO tell her that you care. DO ask her what is going on. DO leave her alone if she doesn't feel like talking. DO leave a sincere apology if it was something you did. DON'T ask her why she's being or jerk or tell her she's being a jerk. DON'T make a big deal out of it. You have other friends and you'll meet other great people =). DON'T apologize if you did nothing wrong, but be there for her if it was something else. DON'T ask "what kind of vibe are you portraying" lols Best wishes! -DRhex