How do I talk to my teacher?
I have a few things I wanted to talk about to my teacher (she has helped me with a lot of problems and said she was always there etc). When I'm at home I think about what I want to say and when I will get a chance to talk to her, but then when I'm actually in school and the time comes, it's like everything changes and suddenly I get really nervous (my hand actually start shaking!), and my head is telling me that I can't do it. I am not mentally strong enough to tell myself that I can do it and I just end up avoiding her and saying to myself that I will talk to her another time. And then when I walk away, I really regret not saying anything and I wish I wasn't such a coward. :/ I really admire and respect this teacher and I dont want to think I'm wasting her time. I have managed to half talk to her before but again then Its like I just couldn't get the words out and I didn't say what I wanted to. I don't want her attention or anything I just want someone to listen and to talk to because I don't have anyone. Im not close to my family at all and I don't know why but I just trust her and we just get on. So my question is, how do I break down this "barrier" my mind is creating when I stand face to face with her and how do I tell myself I can do it, right up until I actually start taking to her? This is really annoying me now and I don't like getting so nervous about things like this and I want to sort it out now. Thanks and sorry it's so long! P.S I have already posted this question twice but I thought I would do it one more time to see if I could get some more answers! Sorry!
How do I talk to my teacher? I’m on good terms with him, but I’m really awkward and I’ve never initiated a conversation with him.
In sixth grade, I missed a band lesson. The customary penalty for doing so was receiving a zero on that lesson. The only way to fix my grade was to approach my teacher, tell him that I had forgotten about my lesson, and rectify my grade.I was terrified to do this. I avoided it for several days, but in the end, I just went into the band room, asked my teacher if he noticed that I had missed my lesson, and thanked him when he responded that he would remove the zero.That’s it. Your teachers aren’t superhuman in any way, and they shouldn’t be as intimidating as we students allow them to be in our minds. Like any authority figure, a teacher may seem scary because it’s their job to maintain order in a classroom of oft-rowdy or loud students. On top of that, a teacher has the daunting task of somehow tapping into their students’ capacity to care and teaching them a year’s worth of material, a campaign that many student’s fiercely defy.If your teacher seems mean or scary, forgive them. They have a difficult job. Don’t allow your perception to dehumanize them or distance them from you. A teacher is an accessible reservoir of knowledge and assistance if you are open to building a relationship with them, and the vast majority of teachers want to be helpful in any way possible.Approach interactions with your teachers in this mindset. Your teacher does not want to ridicule you or berate you or punish you; your teacher wants you to learn. Learning occurs best when a good relationship exists between teacher and student.
How do I talk to my teachers?
If you get "very good" grades but don't say much, I would imagine your teachers are aware of you already and have guessed at your social anxiety; frankly, I'm a little surprised that at least one of them hasn't made some definite effort to help put you at your ease but perhaps they feel a delicacy about it and don't want to seem intrusive. In any case, when you begin to speak up, I imagine that this will be something they had been hoping you would begin to do.People who feel that social anxiety can sometimes be more comfortable if, when they begin to interact with someone else, they feel they have something to talk about. In your case, that might take one of two forms:1. Be alert to notice an article somewhere about the subject of your class or, better yet, a specific topic the teacher has mentioned. If you find the article sensible and worthwhile, print it out and take it to the teacher and say "Mr. Smith, did you see this article from Scientific American on the development of the human brain? It reminded me of some comments you made a few weeks ago..." Believe me; your teacher will be pleased that a student is being so alert, taking initiative, and seeking to have some further interaction about what the teacher has been saying. It's a subtle compliment to the teacher as well as a good opportunity to further explore a topic of interest.2. Article or no article, if you think of the teacher's lectures and find there is something you genuinely appreciate about his or her teaching approach, just go to her and say "Ms. Jones, I just wanted to say that the way you explain the central dogma of genetics makes the matter very clear and understandable, and I appreciate it." You can be sure that any teacher will appreciate the fact that you are showing that you are not one of those students half asleep in class, with his or her mind a million miles away during the lectures and just cramming the night before to pass a test. Everyone is gratified by honest appreciation, and your teachers are no exception. One final thing: you may not realize this, but some of your teachers may be as shy inside as you are, and you just don't realize it. I realize, at a distance of years, that a teacher I practically worshiped in high school for his scholarship and intellectual integrity was quite painfully shy. I made my appreciation plain to him at the time, but I have often wished I could somehow locate him once more and reiterate how much I admired him and his teaching.
How can I talk to my teacher about a bad grade?
Really , it was an embracing movement to talk with the teacher who teaches you to get good marks but its your thinking dude only.If you go infront of your teacher to talk about your bad grades then teacher will always going to give you the best path to follow, but you should have to throw your ego first if u have any, and fearlessly go to talk about ypur marks,and also say the problem why you get bad grade . He will definitely give you suggestion to improve it.
My teacher talks behind my back?
You can take it to the school counselor if it makes you feel uncomfortable. For one a teacher should not have the type of relationship with another student that they 'gossip' and two a teacher should not place personal grudges upon students and definitely not be voicing opinions out loud to anyone let alone another student. If you do not want to get that teacher in trouble you could approach the teacher and ask her about it. Tell her that you try your best as a student and it bothers you that she would be saying things behind your back. If all else fails just ignore it ... you are doing what is best for your education and if this teacher cannot see and appreciate that then she shouldn't be teaching in the first place. Good luck.
Why not to talk while the teacher is talking?!?
because you need to hear what he/she is saying you need to show respect if you were the one talking you would want him/her to listen you should know this, it's the difference between right and wrong, just think about
My teacher keeps talking to me?
It's a bit strange...ohkay well I'm a 13 yr old freshman girl and it's my math teacher. He's like...25??.....idk somewhere around there but I had detention today so as I went to it afterschool I just kept thinking "who does he think he is giving ME detention for being late to school? I'm an A student I do my work I pay attention and he gives me an a -_-" but I get in there and apparently he's all happy I showed up (my detention was due by today) and he shows me the work yadda yadda yadda. And as I'm doing it, he just starts TALKIN to me and I'm thinkin "bro let me get this done so I can go..." he talks to me about music, what I'm doing this weekend(I tell him absolutely nothing) How my day was today (I saycrappy cause In detention) and he talks to me about favorite bands and concerts and...I try real real hard to keep my answers to a "yes " and "no" so maybe he can Drop the conversation but it doesn't work:/ he talks to me about what I like to do on my spare time and what I wanna do when I grow up. ( I'm real quiet in school so maybe that's why he's asking me this?) but this was not the only time. After class everyday before I leave he's always askin how I'm feeling or how was my morning. Would it be that rude if I just ignored him? Not to be mean but...dude I got classes to go to....:/
How do I talk to my teacher about personal things?
“Personal things” could be anything. Here’s the best answer I can provide on the limited info:If you are asking about approaching the teacher of the same sex for advice about life, then just go up and ask the teacher, "I've been wondering about this [topic], and I respect you — could I ask you a question to get some insight?"…but generally you don’t, especially if you are a student in a public school. You could put the teacher in a position, as a state-mandated reporter, where there is no choice but for him/her to tell everything you just shared in confidence. Here's a great guide line:If you are talking about talking with a teacher of the opposite sex, don't. Just don't.If the personal topic you have to ask about involves you hurting yourself, being hurt, breaking the law, or issues in your family, don't. This is the kind of stuff a teacher must report by law.Ask yourself why you need to talk about personal things with a teacher… in fact, I'm asking myself what "personal" things you might need to discuss with a teacher!? whatever they are, write them down, and after each reason remind yourself, “STATE MANDATED REPORTER.”Pick anyone but a teacher to talk to. Your teacher, who is trained to help you understand a subject, is not trained to provide you with counsel or resources about your personal things…even if you bring it up generally, makes the teacher have to report it to some state authority.It’s a different world, but it doesn't change. Learn how to seek
How do i talk to a teacher about personal things?
Like how do i talk to a teacher about something personal. Like i have this one teacher i trust to tell, and like there is alot i have going on right now and i want to talk to one of my teachers about it before i completely freak out and loose my mind and do something i will regret. How do i start? when should i talk to my teacher? Are there certain things i should avoid or not? help!