Am I wrong to confront my EX-husband about him sleeping with other woman while still sleeping with me unprotected.?
My ex-husband and I have been hooking up sexually for about 6 months, we officially divorced about 3 years ago. When we first started having sex I was completely honest with him about me being involved with other men & going on dates, when I asked him if he was he said no. In about January we stopped talking but then he reached back out to me in February & he asked to spend my birthday with me & also asked me to spend his birthday with him, our birthdays are a week apart. Just two weeks ago I seen him & we had sex without a condom, I told him that I had been with a guy on my birthday & just the week before, however he still chose to not use a condom, when I asked him if he was single or had been with anyone he told me no. I found out that he has in fact been with another woman & the same days he would text me & ask me to come over but I would say no, she was with him on those days. I am not upset about him being with someone else because I have been with someone else, I am upset about him lying about it for months, I don’t understand why he would lie to me when I was nothing but honest to him. Should I confront him?
My friend lies to me A LOT ...?
i hav a friend who lies to me and my other friends. we even know when she's lieing but when we say she is she swears she wasn't and then continues with her stories. what do i do???
How do you deal with a compulsive liar?
If he truely is a compulsive liar, the only thing you can do to help him is to suggest he seeks therapy. It is a mental sickness that would be very hard for him to curb on his own. My mother is a compulsive liar, and I never realized it until I was an adult. It got to the point where she "needed" to talk to me about things, and everything was just a pack of lies. She was hurting my feelings, and comsuming all of my time. I had given her an altimatum (forgive my spelling) to either seek help, or no longer call me. I do not have the patience of a saint, and could no longer take the time to deal with her illness. It's so hard when you consider that this person is a friend, and he considers you an asset to his life... This is just an opinion, but perhaps he does it to seek out your attention. Perhaps he feels that he is boring, and does not live up to anyone's standards of being fun and exciting. Therefore conjuring up stories to boost his appeal? It's just an idea. Hope it helps
Should pathological liars be confronted?
When I say explode - he is 'wound very tight' so to speak and whenever slightly challanged on his outlandish web of lies, he gets edgy and talks constantly so no one can get a word in edgewise. I've watched him cycle through friends over the past year. As soon as they realize that he's a liar they stop comming around. I do believe that his is a developed mental illness. It makes is extremely difficult to work with him. Sometimes I think I should just cut my losses - but I do work with him and he is good at what he does.
How would you deal with a "friend" spreading lies about your marriage?
My husband is in the military and I've become close friends with one of his friend's wives that he introduced me to. I've known her for a little over a year now and I started to notice somethings that I didn't really like about her. Her and her husband are ALWAYS picking apart other people's marriages knowing that they have enough problems of their own. As I said earlier her and I became close but over the past month I've been keeping my distance. I've just been getting a bad vibe from her. Thank God I go with my vibes because now she's started rumors that my husband and I are getting divorced. Everyone in the company has asked him about it and told him that they heard it from her husband. Keep in mind that I said I've been keeping my distance which means I have NOT talked to her. My husband and I are doing great so it really pissed me off that they want to make up things about our marriage. My husband doesn't want me to say anything to her. Of course I want to, what would u do?