Aries gal: Why am I so unlucky in love?
It seems like all I've experienced are romantic disappointments. It's not even funny anymore. I am strong and independent. True, it is difficult to "catch" me. But I'm not a stereotypical self-centered, attention-hogging diva. I actually am loyal, I don't sleep around, and I'm devoted to my partner. What I seek is someone I'm passionate about. I find it's not easy for me to be enchanted with a person. This kind of person comes too few and far in between. The few times I did meet someone like this, I was so crazy in love with them. The problem is I seem to be attracted to the adventurous, lover of life, unstable, bohemian types. So maybe it shouldn't be a surprise why those didn't work out. Does this seem like typical Aries behavior? My venus and mars are both in Pisces so talk about emotions and mess.
Why Am I So Unlucky In Love?
Been there. Done that. Even recently. I'm guessing I'm older than you are....I'm 22. I've had my share of heartbreaks and many times, I wished I wasn't gay. But I realized that I will never be happy with anyone unless I'm happy with myself first. I plan on being single for a very long time. So, the next man I fall in love with will treat me RIGHT....because I WILL make my demands. What I've been through was a learning experience and for you, it should be the same. Think more positive and develop more confidence and self-esteem. It takes time but it ain't impossible. "when I desperately want a relationship." ^^ That attitude right there is going to get you f*cked up. I'm not judging you, in fact, I can relate to you and I'm TELLING you that being desperate and needy is a huge turn off, it pushes guys away. Don't EVER make a man think that you NEED him and you'll be miserable when you're single. It would most likely result in one of two things. 1. He'll stick around and treat you like sh*t because he's knows you won't leave him no matter. or 2. He'll dump you, push you away and leave you heartbroken and in pain. Do you know which one of those happened to ME? BOTH! I've had BOTH happen to me and trust me, it hurts. Don't get me wrong, it isn't exactly our fault when guys are complete jerks to us BUT the truth is, guys will treat us the way we ALLOW them to. Just like you, I've been used for sex because I used my body to try to make guys love me but it didn't work. I found out the hard way. Like I said, be more confident, more stronger mentally and make it known that you will not accept any less than you deserve. You're young. Hell, I'm young but I'm older than you. If I can try a little patience and put a little effort into bettering myself so I can attract the RIGHT men, you should be able to do the same. Good luck to you and God bless you. I mean it sincerely. EDIT: You welcome, Alec. Anytime.
Why am i so unlucky in life?
There is no such thing as "luck". Everything that happens can be traced back to prior causes that worked together to bring something to happen. Why don't you examine how you can become a child of the living God of Heaven? Then if you receive his Holy Spirit you will receive unconditional love, forgiveness of sins, and supernatural guidance for your life, along with explanations for why bad things can happen to people who don't seem to have done anything to deserve them. http://contenderministries.org/romanroad... The ROMANS ROAD....is a pathway you can walk. It is a group of Bible verses from the book of Romans in the New Testament. If you walk down this road you will end up understanding how to be saved.
Virgos - unlucky in love?
Yeah, the Virgo women (romantically and platonically) that I have dealt with have been very analytical and criticize themselves tremendously. Everybody has their faults. (;-). It seems to me that the fact these men ARE unavailable is what makes you confide and attracted to them. These are men that care for you from a distance-and that is what you really want. You have probably let a few good ones pass you by- but if you can learn to compromise and let your guard down, I believe that you can find love. Best of luck. ;-]
Why am I so unlucky in life, is it even worth trying?
You sound so sad. I understand what you say though. Sometimes it does seem rather pointless, sometimes it seems as if we study or clean or pay a bill or worry about the future, and then we do it again, and then again, and then-jesus, is there ever anything new? I DO understand, and I have for many years. But there is beauty, hope, change. You are SO young to feel so hopeless. What makes you smile, dream, want to be? You are not alone, you know. This may mean nothing to you, but ever since 9/11 happened, if I happen to look at the time and it is 9:11 a.m or p.m., I send a random thought, wish, prayer or good luck to any stranger out there who may need it. My next one goes out to you-just for you to be a little happier.
I have really bad luck with my love life.?
lol,yes sincerely they do,life brings us many experiences,try not to put a label on yourself first off that you are unlucky or anything of that negative sort this is kinda important as many times in life you have what you say,you bring this to yourself more when you feel this way,kinda like you then keep attracting that negative energy,the same ol same ol to yourself. Know,you deserve better,and you Will find that better. You've experienced this type,you now know the sort,and know exactly what kind of guy you are looking for and the kind you are not. He has not come into your life yet,he will,a watched pot never boils,just be happy,think positive even if that sounds cliche it's true,date,have fun and one day what you seek you sincerely will find probably when you least expect it. But rid your self of that label there,as it's not true,as well look a yourself and just what you might be doing to attract this type,maybe it's nothing you are doing they were just some lousy learning experiences to teach what to stay clear of and better define what you want and need in a relationship,as well perhaps you yourself are not really ready for that deep lasting relationship,an this could be why you 've meet the non lasting kind. Whatever the road to life brings,you will find that special person,and surly from all the negative you'll know the difference when it arrives. Don't worry,be happy go out be safe and have fun!