My friend has been ignoring me for months but now wants to talk because im ignoring her. How do I deal with this?
This is the perfect chance to talk about what was going on. Tell her why you weren’t talking, and do so without being a dick about it or accusing her of ignoring you. Simply say something like “you weren’t responding so I stopped sending messages.” That way you’re not assuming why she wasn’t responding. She’ll then hopefully respond with some sort of explanation. The less offensive or accusatory you are with your words, the less defensive she will be. This is how you get a clear answer from her. There’s a lot of reasons that she could have not been responding. Maybe she doesn’t like you. Maybe she didn’t think that she needed to respond. Maybe she thought that you didn’t expect her to. Maybe she’s a dickhead. Maybe she was mad at you. Maybe she died for a bit and then came back to life. You now have a chance to explain yourself and give her a chance to explain hers. Just talk about it. If you’re both reasonably rational people, things will make sense and the argument won’t go awry.
Why does my guy friend randomly ignore me?
If you aren't doing anything to push him away, then it must be his lack of social skills and lack of social understanding. Because he either doesn't understand or doesn't care that such behavior from him will likely make you feel bad. This is a selfish kind of behavior, but he might not fully understand that he is being selfish, if he doesn't think about such things.
Why did my ex randomly hug me but not talk?
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My crush randomly started to ignore me?
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Why would he text me after months of ignoring me?
Guys are so strange. If it is in fact a good thing then he was thinking of you and finally grew balls. If not the side chick may be done with him. Just be careful. Most men are not trust worthy. They will chase you if in fact they are interested. I had a similar issue. A guy I really like says he is shy texting but will talk in public. I don't get it. How the hell are we ever supposed to get to know one another? He is the only guy I like at all. I gave up all other guys in any way. Yet I saw that he texted a girl! I don't seem so important so I am backing off until he proves himself. If not cool. A man will go after a girl if he likes her.
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