How do women date guys with multiple kids by different mothers?
I was wondering. Cause i have a lot of female friends and they are so picky even with guys with no baggage i can't imagine guys with 3 or 4 kids by different mothers. I was wondering cause I know how hard it was when i was single with no kids and a nice job and some women wouldn't look my way. What changes in a guys mind when he has a kid that makes women attracted to him? Maybe a female could explain this better to me. Cause if i was a female i wouldn't dare breath on somebody with that much baggage unless ive known them forever or something! Long lost friend type of situation.
Why do black men have so many "Baby mama's"?
I think you want a black man
Why are black women always single / single mothers?
That doesn't mean that single mothers are bad people. All people can fall on hard times. You should be proud of the family values that these women CHOOSE to keep their babies and struggle through tough times to raise them. The problem then turns into a cycle if you can't provide for your children they won't get the best of the best, like the jones kids are. I think its wrong for you to dismiss a woman simply because she has a child already. They are some of the most wonderful hearts you'll ever meet. The other part of you question asks about women who seem bitter about it. My grandmother was widowed with 3 children and now that 's she's heading towards the door she's telling more and more stories about how hard it was for her. She decided not to remarry because of the kids. The idea of dating and bringing a replacement into her home did not sit well. The ordeal she had to go to get a home was incredible (in her time single woman weren't given home loans). ITs the same concept. You want to protect your family, and if you can do it for your self its feels more rewarding. Maybe your real question is where are all the other men like you. Why is it that so many women feel burned, or left alone?
Why do Black women like Denzel washington so much?
It seems like people are beating around the bush with this question. It is because Denzel Washington is the perfect package or the perfect epitome of a black man to many African american women. He has the looks, swag, educational back ground, and has always been loyal to many of his black female fans(married to one as well). He is the man most african american woman dream of as the man they want not the image of some african american men you see now with multiple baby mommas, uneducated, and praise non-african american women over their own Black american women. African american women are the first female base to be loyal to Denzel when he first started in his career and he has always showed that gratitude back. Just as much as channing tatum, Johnny Depp, Chris Evans, Matt Damon and etc are white womens dream; Denzel, Will Smith, Morris Chestnut, Blair underwood and etc are black womens dreams
Why is the 'baby mama' such a prevalent part of African American culture?
Its more prevalent among most people compared to just 20 years ago. The UK is seeing a spike in young kids having babies and they are unmarried.One of the many issues is that in our society we don’t value the nuclear family as we once did. Divorce is constantly going up, the children learn not to value relationships as much, and many don’t want to get married to begin with.In the African-American community the problem is double fold. Because of the black version of the opioid epidemic (the crack epidemic) many would be fathers either died or were incarcerated. This left a huge percentage of people growing up in a 1 parent household. Children learn from their parents and repeat. Because many didnt have both parents many people don’t feel a need to marry and raise children a 2 family home. During the Civil Right era (60’s and 7-’s) Blacks had the highest marriage rates, higher than any other group.The court system is more about profit than keeping families together so many don’t get married because of the high cost of divorce. However the courts still manage to get involved in regards to child support.Poverty also plays a role as well. Even the poorest bride wants an extravagant wedding. Most men don’t care about weddings and would want to “waist” money on something that might ultimately fail.Historically Black Americans have always been the guinea pigs and the canary in the cold mine, what happens to Black Americans eventually happens to White Americans.Racial or ethnic group /Percent of births considered "non-marital"Asian Americans and Pacific Islanders - 17 percentNon-Hispanic whites - 29 percentHispanics - 53 percentAmerican Indian and Native Alaskans - 66 percentNon-Hispanic blacks - 73 percent
Do black men still date black women?
I am an intelligent college student and hard working young black girl. I am not at all the thuggish type... nor am I attracted to the thuggish type (>_<) As I wait for attractive intelligent black man I always seem to find them dating white women, asians, etc. Which I have no problem with because I believe that true love is blind and sees no color... But i dont know, some black guys that are educated look at me like I'm some ghetto girl? Which in reality I'm the complete opposite? I'm even a quarter Japanese? Which shows that I'm also cultured? I don't know... I'm just tired of seeing an attractive man, but yet continue to be passed up for the other races (no offense) So Black men? White women? Anybody... Please tell me... How did the strong african american woman be moved down to the bottom of the food chain? and do you think it's fair? Particularly for those like me that prove all stereotypes to be wrong?