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Why Do I Keep Dreaming About Different Guys

I had a dream about dating 2 different guys at the same time, any pointers to what this could mean?

LOL okay so last night i had a weird dream.
It started out with me sending a heart to (Switching name to guy #1) and then we started dating. The dream was like in sorta my house but like a beach house version. and so We were in my room and my mom called me down for supper, didn't know he was there or know who he was. So we came downstairs and she didn't mind, we had dinner with my family and then after my mom said he was pretty chill and i agreed.
and then we were having like a huge family reunion type thing, but like friends of our family were their too. and then i don't know, apparently i started dating (switching name to guy #2) too (didn't seem wrong o.O) but him and guy#1 didn't know about each other. and so at one point i was sitting in the living room with 2 other guys and the one poured a bunch of water on me and got me soaked. and so i went in my room and someone was laying on my bed using a laptop and then they turned around and it was guy#2. and so i got changed over in a corner of my room and then turned around and he was laying long ways on my bed with some other guy using a laptop. and so i went over to guy#2's side and i was like they got me all wet :( and I laid beside him. and then i dint remember what happened after and then at some point i felt like i didn't really know about me and guy#1 because we barely talked the entire time. and then at the end it was like me guy#2, guy#1 and my best friend were standing on a boat talking. and that's all i remember.

Does this dream mean anything?

Why do i keep dreaming of dating different guys?

I think maybe you've been feeling lonely, needing attention, love and affection. Probably causing you to dream of these men. Dreams are always so strange and out ordinary. But when I feel like my bf isn't giving me what I want, I dream of another man giving it to me. Sometimes your daily thoughts and feelings cause you to dream of it. I just don't want you to get your hopes up for nothing. But life is unpredictable most times.

Why do I keep dreaming about other guys when I'm in a happy relationship already (one dream was about someone I'm friends with, someone I barely know, and then someone I used to like years ago but now I hate him)?

Dreams are rarely direct representations of whats on your mind. It might not be, for instance, that you are interested in other guys, but instead are thinking of say, a strained relationship with a dad or brother. It can be weird like that. If you are that worried, talking to your SO might help. But if the relationship is good and there are no worries on that end, don’t read too much into the dreams.

Dreams about different guys?

gee, could it mean you're needing and wanting some affection? and you're a bit horny?

when you say "different" guys I'm also wondering whether there isn't a boyfriend or husband in the picture and you're worried or guilty about these illicit "nocturnal liaisons" .. if so, don't bother ... it's quite normal and usual for women and men to have thoughts and dreams about others ... it's what you do about it that counts

Keep having dreams about dating a guy, different guy each dream?

You got your own answer...that IS the reason for your dreams. We all have those moments...sometimes many of them as we grow older when we 'want someone' and imagine what it would be like to be with someone we know or have thought was handsome or 'good' and also moments we think about the 'loves in our past.' You WANT A relationship...and that is normal! All I can say is dreams simply bring out 'our feelings' and 'emotions' relating to love. But in real life these 'guys' may not create those SAME feelings of love or strong emotions at all!
The world is full of potential 'life mates.' And contrary to some opinions there is more than ONE person in this world that can be a good love match for everyone! THE TRICK IS THIS...love isn't on the outside its on the inside and IT ISN'T GUIDED BY EMOTION as much as it MUST BE 'using your HEAD!' You have to like the person, have an attraction for them but past that point most people don't really go...that is a divorcable mistake quite often! Choose wisely......YOU CAN CHOOSE YOU KNOW...watch the person, take your time and make sure you know who they REALLY are not just who they WANT YOU to think they are. Happiness depends on choosing someone who will create HAPPINESS for a LIFETIME and a home and good family life for you and CHILDREN. So your 'choice' isn't JUST about finding someone to 'pass the time with at all.' Its a life altering CHOICE so make a good one.
But HEY.....start looking seriously if you want this its a 'gift of God' for you to have it. He wants us happy, healthy and WISE!
Blessings,
Bunny7

Why do I keep dreaming about a guy I don't like?

I completely agree with Kerry McAvoy's answer. The guy could represent anything that you don't want to be involved in. Maybe it's God; maybe you are running away from Jesus. Have you ever though about that? It seems like this "guy" really loves you. God parallels the guy in that He isn't pursuing you. However, you still run and hide anyway. All He is is a stranger that you knew at some point.

Why do I keep dreaming about making out with other guys even if I'm madly in love with my boyfriend?

The short answer is that it's human nature and completely natural. There's nothing wrong with finding other people attractive and everyone does it. Monogamy is a thing some people do because they like it and it makes them happy but humans are wired to want others. What you do with that desire is on you.Some people are ethically non-monogamous and it works for them. Both partners are ok with it and it's fine. Others cheat and one person doesn't know and it's bad. (About 70% of multi decade straight relationships, statistically) Others are just monogamous and it works and they are sometimes attracted to others and don't act on it and it's fine. But all those people are sometimes attracted to others.Maybe you want an open relationship. Maybe you don't. Maybe you ate dinner late and had weird dreams. Maybe you're subconsciously wrestling with being really into this guy but feeling conflicted about occasionally thinking other guys are hot. Maybe you're not that into him. Maybe you know deep down… or maybe it was just a weird dream.One thing is for sure. It doesn't necessarily mean anything and you shouldn't feel bad about it no matter what.Look inside yourself. Think what kind of relationship you want, if you want one and then give it a shot. And don't feel bad about thinking other guys are hot or dreaming about making out with other guys. It doesn't mean you don't love your boyfriend.

Why do I keep having dreams about other guys?

I really love my bf of 3 years. We have a beautiful daughter and our life is really happy. For some reason in the last month I keep dreaming about other guys.

It started out when I met this guy and his gf in a bar. I was alone and they were a really nice, good looking couple. That night I went home and I had dreams about that guy. He was pretty hot...so I just chalked it up to that.

Now, ever since then almost every night I have been having dreams. First it was him, then I had a dream about an ex. Then I started having dreams about Troy Polamalu from the Pittsburg Steelers, then this guy I had always had a crush on in high school. I'm never doing anything sexual, just flirting and talking.

Is it because we haven't been intimate in a while (almost a month)? I feel really guilty because I don't want to dream about anyone other than my bf. He's all I want and there's no problem between us. So why am I dreaming about other guys?

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