I regret not talking to this guy?
So basically I just got back from a trip to see my best friend who lives in another state. We had an awesome time. Beforehand I had a little crush on one of his friends (who I've never met), and I actually saw him at his club meeting (he sat behind me) and my friend was talking to him but I was shy and stupidly didn't introduce myself. So, should I just forget about this and move on? My crush lives in another state and is about to graduate from college (I'm a sophomore), and I feel like it'd be weird to contact him since we didn't meet.
Did you ever regret not talking to a girl/guy you liked?
I did. I'm pretty sure she liked me aswell, but i was too shy to approach her. Now i'll probably never see her again and it's killing me. I'd like to know if anyone else has had the same experience as me. :)
I regret not talking to him...?
So we had a show last night which we had loads of rehersels for. There is this guy that went and I really like him. I kinda knew him beforehand cuse I talked to him like once and I recognised him from gigs and whatnot.Anyway ,he went to the rehersels and stuff but he left early most nights... However last night at the proper show I could have made an effort to talk to him but I didn't:( I really regret it.. All I said to him was hi and he replied with a smile... Also what are signs that he likes me? Well he was sitting across the room and from time to time I would look over and catch him looking at me I may be imagining this one but I'm pretty sure that when I looked over the guy near him would say something to him and he'd look over.. I may see him somewhere else so I was wondering what I should say to him as I didn't really talk to him much at rehersels and stuff.. Oh and a few weeks ago I left him a comment on myspace but he never commented back.. and my friend left him a comment too and he commented her back...? Does he know I like him and he's trying to make me jealous.. or does he like my friend? (that he has never talked to) SORRY IT'S SO LONG.
I regret so much not talking to this girl?
So today I was at a café, and there was this girl sitting by herself. She was probably one of the most beautiful girls I have ever seen, she seemed sort of introverted. A couple of times she glanced over while I was on the phone. I went outside and thought things through, I needed to talk to her, but she looked about 21 and I'm 17. Even so, the circumstances were perfect for me to go and start a conversation, I had been feeling really confident today, and I thought if there was ever a perfect time it would be this. So I went back inside to get a coffee, and the moment I went over to her, my brain shut down, my heart went full on beating like crazy, and I couldn't do it. As soon as I stepped out the door I felt like the stupidest person on earth. I could've easily gone over and talked to her, I think that's even what she wanted, but my fear just took over. How could I be so stupid and, how do I get over this feeling of regret? thanks:)
I regret getting so much angry at this guy?
This Guy I liked kept calling me every now and then but he gave me mixed signals which made me really angry, and once while he was kinda drunk, he told me that I'm not sexy enough! he told me why I dress like this bluh bluh... I got really really angry at him but could not tell him why so I stopped talking to him and could not get over my anger over months... and he moved on and went for other girl without knowing the reason I stopped talking to him, I regret getting angry at him did I have the right?
Do you regret not going after someone?
I unknowingly made her fall in love with me, not realizing how important I was to her.We had similar likes and dislikes, her point of view matched with mine and I used to listen to her very calmly and carefully.The only difference? I being a pragmatist and she being an idealist, not that it caused a problem between us but yes she never liked the practical choices I made and referred to them as “cold”.She always topped in her class and I scored good marks to satisfy myself, I am fond of Geo politics, finance and am a voracious reader of business related topics and she was fond of reading books about love, movies on human emotions and everything sentimental.She was enthusiastic and always wanted to know what I was thinking or asked to to tell her a random fact.Not because she liked the facts, because she fell for the enthusiasm or exuberant trait in me when I spoke on such matters.She helped me out with subjects that had maths involved and I helped her with subjects that had business related terms.I am never fond of celebrating my birthday but she made sure I had a cake cut every single time.She did everything for me out of loveCooked, baked, talked me to sleep, brought t-shirts for me other than black or grey, made me pray, helped me maintain a proper sleep cycle and most of all asked me for one thing which I couldn't give her, my weird life.We were sitting in my cloistered place eating nachos and sipping juice talking about my future plans and how I aced in the management fests, how the competition was and how I had dreams to fulfill when she popped this one question which I know!!I know goddamn it! It hurt you!She asked me if I could day dream with her always.*Let's refer to her as P*P: i know one day you're gonna make it big, but when you do please spare two minutes of your busy schedule to eat pani Puri with me, I love the way you wide open your mouth and chew like a cow.Me: never!P: Accha not pani Puri but spend a part of your day always sharing your dreams with me? Please?Me: i…i.. don't get it?P: i doMe: hmmmmP: hmmmIts been four years but as friends, she thinks I don't know what she was trying to say. She didn't make the move because I was moving out of the city and she couldn't take the pain of us living in a long distance relationship and neither could I and that was the same reason I never thought about us getting TogetherMe: what?P:nevermindDo we still have a chance? No, because it's too late for some things.Lame story but such is life.1 View
Do you regret not having talked to that girl / boy in the school?
I do. We both share same first name of mine and last name of him. So obviously my classmates used to tease us as a couple. His roll number and mine fall in something around 20–30. Mostly we end up in same lab or same row during exams. So we used to interact much ignoring those rumours. One fine day I need my book which is with him by mistake and I needed it immediately. I got his number and called him. So we finally exchanged our numbers. Then we started texting on phone . I considered him as a friend but he started liking me. Finally he confessed me.As I don't have any feelings towards him at that time i rejected him. Later he told it was just a prank and he never had feelings towards me. We are back to being “close friends”. Now I started developing feelings towards him. I used to give him few hints about my feelings ,he understood those(Thank god) and he confessed his fErlinda towards me again. I thought I should never loose this opportunity and I confessed him back.But this time he thought I was playing prank and never considered my feelings . I was too scared and never corrected him. He got frustrated with the behaviour of mine as I am not considering his feelings for years. He said few words in angry. As I was scared to confess my love i took that opportunity and picked up a fight with him to avoid talking to him.That’s it. He blocked me on WhatsApp and Facebook. I blocked him too. Daily we used to see other in school but I never spoke to him. He doesn't have courage to initiate the conversation with me . There were days where we used to travel in same bus and walk on same road but never spoke. We used to walk on opposite ends of road.That was my last day of school. I thought at least now I should talk, but he never looked at me once. Now it's been 6 years still looking for a way to communicate with him. I couldn’t contact him through email, Facebook, whatsapp or phone as he changed everything but never informed me . Strange thing we don't have mutual friends on Facebook.I seriously regret not talking to him on any day of my school. In this 6 years there is not even a single day where i couldn’t think of him or search his name on Facebook.
Do you regret not asking that girl/guy out?
Actually I regretted after asking him out.It happened in college. I was junior to him and he was the hearthrob of the college. He was 2 years senior to me. I had a huge crush on him ( I was merely 19, crushes in this age is normal).He used to come college on irregular basis, had many backlogs but I dont know why my heart melted for this person. I really liked him. So after lots of preparation,I thought of talking to him. Once I noticed him that he was in college, i went straight to him and told himMe. Hi , I am x. I like you. Can we please have a picture together.He. Obviously he got shocked plus stunned. His friend was right there with him. A very confused look appeared on his face. May be he could not believe that a girl is saying this to him. He denied though.And story got over here.However still more things had to come.Fast forward few years , I started to work in a very reputed software firm and shifted to City far from my hometown. This guy was also there , he from somewhere found my number and contacted me to have a little chit chat.That day was the happiest day of my life. I felt so happy after listening to his voice on call. We started talking over the weekends. In each call he used to ask me for my picture as he said he does not remember my face.I did not give any thinking to this ,why he needs my picture. He has seen me right infront of home few years back. So one fine day i forwarded my picture to him. After that he stopped talking to me. Basically I got rejected by him due to my average looks. I got furious when he stopped contacting me. I even realised this very late why he stopped talking to me.But thank god it happened. Thank god he did not show any interest as I could not have thought of dating such kind of shallow person. When i think of this incident I actually laugh at myself. What kind of crazy and immature person I was.My suggestion to all of you people, do ask other person out. Because if you do not ask today you will always think in your mind. I wish i had asked him/her out. Instead of regretting it later. In my case it did not work out but it might work out for other people for sure. Without giving a chance you will never will get to know about your love interest.
How do I deal with the regret not of approaching a girl?
You will have the chance again, believe me. There are beautiful girls everywhere. The question is: Did you learn something from your experience? Will you have the guts to approach another girl you would like to get to know next time?You didn’t approach the one from the bus because of inner fears. But fears are just emotions. You are able to take an action in spite of your fears.So next time ask yourself this questions: “Would you have respected yourself more if you had appoached her, even if she rejected you?” and “If I don’t approach her now, would I regret it later?”If you answer both questions with yes then next time you see a girl like you’d like to approach you just do it.Make this to your personal rule.