My girlfriend steals from my wallet. What should I do?
Sorry if you find errors in my english, but I'm not from the U.S. I found out about one month ago that my girlfriend took some money from my wallet. I usually don't know how much money I carry around and my wallet is stuffed with a lot of cash (not a good habit, I realize that now). When I buy something I almost always pay in cash and just put the change back in my wallet so all the notes are stuffed disorderly in it. But about one month ago one morning I found out that two 50 euro notes were missing. I had no doubt because the evening before I knew exactly how many notes I put in the wallet. I and my girlfriend live by ourselves in my house and nobody else was with us that evening or the following morning, so I knew she got the money. She wakes up earlier than me and I figured she maybe needed some cash and would tell me about it in the evening, but I was very worried about all of this. As you can imagine, she didn't tell me anything and from that day I started counting all my money every morning and evening. In less than a month she went into my wallet seven times (the last time this morning) for a total of more than 500 euros. I point out that she has a regular full-time job. She doesn't get as much as me, but the house is mine and I pay for all house expenses (gas, electricity, water, house repairs) and all of her vacations. Every two weeks she pays for the grocery and that's it. Anyway she has saved a lot of money in her bank account in these two years we've been living together. She keeps acting normally and tells me she loves me and I don't know what kept me from kicking her out of my house during this last month. Tonight when she comes home I will tell her that I busted her and I think I'll send her back to her parents unless she has some kind of miraculous explanation for her behavior. My best friends tell me there's nothing else to do and I think the same, but it's going to be hard as she doesn't expect anything. I just wanted somebody else's opinion before I talk to her tonight. Thanks.
My wife steals money from my wallet. What should I do?
It needs thorough investigation w.r.t.: 1. Why she is doing it 2. Is she always short of money 3. If she does not require more money than the agreed between you two, what for she requires 4. Is there any other outlet where she is spending 5. Is she saving for emergencies 6. Is she cheating you and feeding someone else. Some of these questions need to be answered or solutions must be had by you. Since she denies the act that means she does not want to tell you and she is hiding some part of her life from you. This makes it more serious. Try to find it out. Good luck (Sooner the better)
What do you do when you find a wallet: keep it or hand it to the police?
Kept it.In June this year, I was travelling from Ahemedabad to Bhavnagar via train for an exam. I found a wallet on my seat. I didn't open it for a while thinking, the owner may come back for his possession. Then train started moving and nobody came to claim the wallet.Now I opened the wallet and found some money, ATM cards, I-card, doctor's prescription and a medical store bill.Now the guy was quite good looking in the photo on I - card and was from Ahemedabad only. Now being a bollywood fan that I'm, I had my hopes high of a bollywood romcom.Now After getting down at Bhavnagar, I checked the wallet once again.I-card had no phone number.Doctor's prescription was dated 2015.ATM cards couldn't help.I could keep the money but neh.The medical bill was dated December 2016. That's it.Called at the medical store. Explained the whole situation and asked if he could help me get through with Mr careless wallet owner.Him: oh!! Mr careless wallet owner is my brother, I'll contact him and will let you know. (he is probably thinking I'm a fraud. I mean wow!)After half an hour, I receive a call from an unknown number.No points for guessing.Mr careless wallet owner.Short phone conversation shortened further for impatient audience.He knew my college address very well. Came to my college. Took his wallet. Flew away on his bike with my one chance of bollywood hindi romcom-drama-action-thriller film.Now no bollywood romcom. Only short film.
Is Stealing Ever Justified?
It is only justified when in need for one's self, or one's family's survival, when it does not hinder the survival of another. Ex: If a homeless man/woman/child steals from another, that is also starving. NOT JUSTIFIED. Ex: If a homeless man/woman/child steals from another, who is not starving. JUSTIFIED. This principle can also be applied to other health risk circumstances. Another Ex: If a homeless man steels a box to sleep in, when a homeless mother was using it with her child. NOT JUSTIFIED. Same Ex: If a homeless mother steals a box to sleep in with her child, when a homeless man was using it. JUSTIFIED. In this instance, it is justified only for the mother and her child, because not only do they count as two people, but a child has more safety importance than a grown man. [Same goes for elderly].
Someone stole my wallet in school...?
i already filed a statement in the security's office, and they seem like it's not a big of a deal. story: i had my wallet inside my backpack, but the teacher had to call me up to look at my grades and stuff. so, i was with her the whole 5 minutes, and when i came back, my wallet wasn't there anymore. i thought i lost it. so i retraced my steps, and when i went to my next class, a guy went up to me and told me that he found the important cards in the boy's bathroom floor, but not the wallet and the money. so i concluded that it was stolen, not lost. so, i just want to know however i could retrieve my wallet back? like, the school administration told me that they would come to my second period class to talk to the students about it. is there a way to send a signal or to show that person who stole my wallet that i wouldn't get him suspended or whatever just as long as he doesn't spend my money or take my wallet or whatnot? =/
I found the guy who stole my wallet-now what?
Alright. So, it's seventh grade, and one day when I go back to my locker after PE my wallet is nowhere to be found. The wallet is worth about $20, and the money inside it about $40. Anyways, I feel pretty awful but I move on with my life. About a week later this one guy, a fairly obnoxious 8th grader, mentions the brand of the wallet (Nixon) to me. He also has a locker adjacent to mine in PE. I get a little suspicious, but let it go. So, flash forwards to the present. I'm a freshmen now, two years have passed. I go to the lunch line to buy a snack, when I see the same guy, paying for HIS food with MY old wallet. Some of you may be skeptical, bringing up the chance that I made a mistake. However, the wallet is a pretty flamboyant design (I'll link to it at the end), so I seriously doubt its a coincidence. Furthermore, this guy has a reputation for stealing stuff. So, what do I do? It's possible you may feel that I should just forget this, and you can tell me so, but I intend to do something about it. I'm considering: Confronting him Having a mutal friend talk to him Talking to the school/authourity about it So, any thoughts? http://www.zumiez.com/nixon-showoff-space-wallet.html Please respond quick, I intend to act soon and not make the wrong decision so the wallet doesn't "vanish". PLEASE help.