When should I break up with my girlfriend?
If I were your girlfriend, I'd want you to do it right now. You know her better than I do though, so trust your judgment.There will never be a good time to deliver bad news. If someone's having a shitty day, you figure "they're miserable; I shouldn't make things even worse." When they're having a good day, you figure "they're having such a good day; I don't want to spoil it." She will always be busy, or upset, or happy, or whatever else. There will never be a perfect time.Since there will never be a good time, I much prefer to not waste time. I don't like procrastinating. Pulling the band-aid off now is going to suck, but it's something I'll be sparing future Howie from having to deal with. Likewise, by facing the scary thing today, you spare yourself and your girlfriend the pain of dealing with it later. You have no guarantees she'll be in a more "appropriate" place to be dumped in a few weeks, so why assume she will be?It's also worth keeping in mind that if you're not feeling the relationship any longer, there's a fair chance she isn't either. Ending things now could actually reduce her stress level. She doesn't have to worry about how to break up with you, or maintain this dying relationship, while she's also worrying about passing all her exams.There's also the matter of not perpetuating a lie. Does she deserve to be lied to for several more weeks simply because the timing of the truth is inconvenient?All of these are reasons I think you're better off doing it sooner than later. That said, you know her better than I do. Do you actually believe the breakup will leave her so distraught that she'll curl up into a ball of depression, stop studying, miss her finals, and ruin the rest of her life? If that's the case, fine. I guess it would be better to wait. Otherwise, bite the bullet and do the hard thing now.Good luck, and sorry to hear it didn't work out.
Should I break up with my girlfriend?
Me and my girlfriend met when she was 19 and I was 21. We have been togeather for a little over 3 years and now. She is a very nice girl and I really care for her but now I am having doubts about whether she is the right girl for me. The things that bugs me is she usually is extremely bossy and always has to have things her way. She is very childish in a lot of ways, and it has been irritating me for a while. I'm usually a pretty serious guy, and am very level headed, and she is pretty much the exact opposite. In addition, anytime I want to do anything without her, (see my friends, play golf, pretty much anything), she gets extremely angry with me. I've even tried to include her when visiting my friends, but she says she doesn't like them, and always says she's bored, and refuses to come with me. The few times she has come she acts childish and pouty and we leave after only a short time... What she doesn't realize is that I'm usually bored too when she drags me shopping, but I try to make the best of it. I make an effort when we are with her friends, and they all like me, but she is not doing the same. My Mom doesn't care for her all that much either, and she frequently tells me to get a new GF...and I think it's partially because the lack of effort. I've talked with her about it in the past, and she always says she'll try to stop being so controlling, but more and more it just seems to be bred into her DNA. I will be graduating college in a couple months and am looking to purchase my first home, and she has been hinting at marriage a lot lately and it is making me uncomforatble and leaving me wondering whether I let things go on a little too long. She is my first girlfriend, so I don't really have any prior relationship experience, and am unsure of what I should do. I just feel like she holds me back a lot of the time and am finding myself wondering if I should start over.
If my girlfriend hit me, should i break up with her?
our relationship has been very healthy and stable for the past seven months (when we started), but yesterday we just had a little quarrel and out of nowhere she smacked me in my face and then left. i feel horrible now. should i break up with her?
Should i break up with my girlfriend, who has been lying?
She isn't worth the trouble, girls like this are just plain naive. She doesn't seem to appreciate you. And from the sound of it you don't really want to go back there. Move on.
How do i break up with my pregnant girlfriend?
So i want to break up with my girlfriend, but heres the kicker she pregnant. I wanted to break it off before we found out. But when we did i couldnt do it. I thought maybe we could work through the problems ,but its just not working out. And now i feel trapped. Im not just going to run off thats just not the type of guy i am. I'll support my kid. But i just cant be with her anymore. any suggestions on how to go about this would be helpful.
Should i break up with my girlfriend because her parents hate me?
well, if you truly love each other, then you shouldn't let other people come between you. but it can be very difficult. first, consider this: sometimes the opportunity to rebel against one's parents makes a romantic relationship much, much more appealing. so first make sure she's not into you just to piss off the old man. if you know for certain that she loves you and that's all there is to it, then hang in there. second, consider why her dad doesn't like you. parents don't usually hate their kids' friends for no reason. are your grades good? do you get in a lot of trouble? are you respectful and polite? do you encourage his daughter to stay out late and ignore the house rules? if not, then he might be overprotective or unreasonable, but even jerky parents usually care about their kids (even if it doesn't seem that way). i mean, he still lets her see you and he didn't tell her she had to break up with you totally. third, consider how bad it would be for your girlfriend to lose her family. don't give her an ultimatum. it has to be her choice. if she insists on seeing you as much as she wants, will her dad kick her out? because being 15 and kicked out of the house is pretty rough. fourth, you guys are sophomores, so you've only got two to three years before you're both 18 and can move out and live on your own. at that point, you can see whoever you choose with no limits or rules. and if you truly do love each other, you most definitely can wait that long.