Why is my younger sister so mean?
So I'm 16 (17 in a month) and my sister is 14. Ever since we were little, she's been SO mean to me. She's really thin and I'm more curvy so she used to always call me fat and the second I would walk into a room, she'd say, "Hi fat legs!!!" Haha I know that's kind of funny but it used to hurt my feelings. Anyway, now it's escalated even worse. For example, right now I just said, "Good night, love you," and kissed her on the cheek and she said, "Why are you always trying to kiss people? You're so gross!!! Leave me alone!!!" She also ALWAYS says, "You're such a stupid *****. Nobody likes you and I hope you die in a hole." It's weird because sometimes we get along great and othertimes we can't stand each other. My parents know about how she is but have gotten tired of hearing her say the same things over and over again. I know that these things shouldn't bother me, but when my own sister says that she doesn't love me it kind of hurts. Anyway, thanks for reafing and I'll take any advice you can give!!! :)
My younger sister is so mean to me?
i have got a sister who is 18 and im 22. we are bother pretty but she might be a little bit prettier. we're not close at all because when we were young she used to tell me thar im not pretty and that her friends think im ugly and she alwaya made me upset and i cried because i am very sensitive . i know im pretty but her comments used to hurt me because she is my sister and she should bring myself confidence up not down. she always used to criticize me everything as well . until one day i decided i will not be close to her anymore and ill never sit in one place with her and i really did so and we' ve been away from each other for 7 years now but she stills manages to criticize me sometimes even without asking her opinion and i really hate being around people who criticize alot. my question is what should i do to let her stop critisizing me and is the decision i took to avoid her as much as i could a right decision?
Why is my sister so mean to me?!?
I am the oldest in my family. I try to be responsible, help my terrific parents out as much as I can. But my younger sister, age fifteen, is an all-out witch! She used to be the sweetest thing; so kind and easy and gentle, loyal, quiet, just a little prodigy! Now that she's a teenager, she seems to have taken a 360° turn from her true, former self. Even during previous years, she was never this bad. She's just plain terrible to our younger siblings, ages 9 and 11. She wants nothing to do with any of us, it seems. Frankly, I don't understand what we have done to make her treat us like dirt. Her reputation among the adults remains quite stable, but mostly us three other children have to deal with her. We've told my parents; they deal with her when they catch her. But the problem is, she hardly gets caught. When she does, she'll lie. I just can't stand it! I feel terrible for my little siblings, who miss the girl that would play with them at the drop of a hat. I miss my sweet little sister, who would tell me anything and be my best friend. None of us have her anymore. Now we're stuck with a haughty, snobby, lying doofus every second of every day. Perhaps she will revert back to sweet form? I love her so, and it breaks my heart a little more each day as we continue like this. Thank you.
Why is my sister so mean to me?
I can only answer this from my own experience, and what my reasons were. I was always mean to my brother, looking down on him and almost treating him like I was his mother even though I am younger. My reasoning was because I felt he gained more slack from our parents who were more strict with me than him. I was also jealous because he is the type of person who smiles and makes the room light up, the type of person who can get away easier with things because he is so warm. I am more cold when it to comes to others. Not because I am insensitive, but maybe just more cautious when it comes to people. Your sister might feel like you just brighten up the room and feels jealous. That you maybe, get more slack with your parents. In time this will change. It just takes some work. One day she will feel sad that she treated you this way. She will snap at you and go to her room, and feel a guilt in her chest that will make her apologize. Maybe even shed a few tears wondering why she is so mean. Your sister loves you, she probably is just internally struggling and doesn’t know how to be anything but a stick in the mud.
Why is my sister so mean to me all the time?
So i'm 21 years old and my younger sister is 20. She has been mean to me our whole childhood and I don't know why. I try and be nice to her but all she is, is mean to me. She likes to bring me down by calling me fat saying I shouldn't be wearing certain types of clothing. She also calls me ugly and that I look like a man. She also likes to say that my boyfriend is cheating me, I think she likes to say that so she can bring me down. Shes been single for 2 years until like 6 months ago she got a new boyfriend but they've broken up like 4 times within those months and aren't going out now because she was such a mean person to him as well. She also has no friends because shes so mean and bitter. And ive been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years straight no break ups and ive known him since we were 17 so we're in a steady relationship we get along very well, perfect for one another. I also have close friends that I get along with great. Could she be jealous cause I have better relationships with people? or could she hate me? shes says that a lot and that she doesn't like me.
Why is my mom so mean to me but so much nicer to my sister?
I have felt the same when I was younger. I pestered my parents and the all mighty for a younger sibling, and finally, I was happy [still am :) ] to be gifted with a little sister. I infact roamed around the hospital with a doll the size of a baby on the day of her birth to gift her. But this girl welcomed me pooping on my favourite skirt! (Ewww).So lulling my infant sister to sleep, feeding her cerlacs (at times stealing a cup of my own ;)] scratching her tiny fingers, putting my pinky finger into her mouth was all fun.Not for long though, as she slowly started to grow-up things started to change. My little sister didn’t reciprocate the love and care like I expected her too. I would bargain with a chocolate in exchange for a kiss from that little devil. Sweet talk her just to carry her around in my arms. But, all these didn’t seem like a big deal until she turned 5. Oh, we started to fight like cats and dogs growing more distinct day-by-day.To top it all, my mother would never take my side although she was the one at fault. My mother always feeds her, dresses her up to school but not me, I would think. I would hate it when my mother tells me to clear her mess. Be it anything, she’ll give me this auto-generated sentence, “you’re the elder one achu, it’s you who should give up and be kind, and generous with her” Me: “Why are you being unfair to me? When I was her age I did everything on my own”This continued even until during my college.Truth is our mother’s fail to realise that although we are elder than them, we were still young and immature to understand our sisters are way more immature compared to us for their age. This falsely makes us think they are mean to us. But they merely think we have become old enough to manage.And we still were a kid expecting to be treated with fairness.But after this understanding, I learnt never to do that with my own in the future :)P.S: Now me and my sister are close enough in sharing and hiding secrets from our own parents ;)
Why is my little sister so mean?
She's falling victim to what 80% of young girls fall victim to every year... The *****'s Disease. It's where girls turn into total bitches because they think they're all tough **** because they have close to everything they want. Symptoms include over use of Social Media (Youtube, Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, ect.), sudden personality changes, whining and bitching when they don't get what they want, and doing whatever it takes to please peers. The disease is currently uncurable and only time will tell it's long-term effects. The disease has been present through out history, but had a much lower rate of prevalence. it was only recently with the popularization of Social Media that diagnosis rate has skyrocketed. I am not trying to bash your sister, I am just giving the facts of the disease.