Is it wrong to walk around the house in a bra in front of sons?
I would say it's OK. It's adults that make it wrong, not kids. My son is 5 and he sees me naked on occasion and in my underwear all the time. Not because I walk around that way, but he will come into the bathroom if I'm in the shower to use the toilet. Or he'll come into my room when I'm geting dressed. If you don't make a big deal about it neither will your kids. My son doesn't even seem to notice. He just goes about his business as usual. Now if your 8 year old ever commented on it, I would assume it bothers him and cover up, but your his mother for Pete's sake. I see nothing wrong with it.
What do you think about guys who walk around shirtless for no reason?
Saying something! My husband used to do this. Not that he was trying to show off or anything. He just wasn't thinking. Our daughter when she was a baby thought his nipple was her lunch. I did mention to him though about wearing a shirt. Once he was changing for work she pulled his chest hair. Now he wears a shirt. It was too funny. I am sort of on the fence about it. I do think though that since there is roommates involved and it isn't like this is just one person's place or a couple's place that the boyfriend should wear a shirt out of respect. Mention it to the roommate he is involved with that you feel sort of uncomfortable and could he please wear a shirt.
Why can't women show off boobs in public?
Where I live, if you walk around public topless, you will go to jail for a while. I don't see anything wrong when a girl walks the streets topless. Think about it. Guys ALWAYS go around topless, so why can't girls? I'm sure a lot of you guys will say it is because they are sexual, but in my point of view, they are sexual because woman are covering the boobs up constantly. The longer women cover up their boobs, the more sexual they get, so why can't women just show the boobs? Think about it. You don't see nudity anywhere except possibly in the movies. In many parts of the world like Europe or Africa, it's ok for a girl to walk around topless. However, the U.S. has a ban on women walking around topless, and I find this ban more ridiculous than France's ban on ketchup. Anyways, why can't women show off boobs in public???
What is the correct thing to do when a female bends over in front of you and you can see down her shirt?
I had friend, a girl, who was not my girlfriend, she had a boyfriend. I was single at that time. We hanged out together a lot. There was some sexual tension between us, but since she was in relationship nothing really happened between us.One day we were driving in my car. She had a polo shirt with all top buttons unbottoned. It was hot. Every time I would look to my right, I could see her perky breast and her nipple, covered, but completely visible from my angle.I tried not to stare, but it was in my peripheral vision all the time.We stopped at a red light and I had an impulse to just go for it. I leaned to her, opened the shirt to release the full breast and took her nipple into my mouth. I expected a slap, a yelling, but she did not react. I must have kissed, sucked and licked her nipple for about a minute.Drivers in other cars probably saw everything.At green light (I don’t remember if she said anything or if I noticed it), I straightened up and we drove off. Neither of us said anything all the way to her home (some time later she said this was the sexiest part). Her breast remained uncovered. She only fixed her shirt when we turned into her street - her parents or neighbours could be outside.Nothing really changed between us. This didn’t ruin our friendship, and it never progressed further. The sexual tension and some teasing remained between us though.So to answer the question - don’t do this unless you feel very strongly it will be accepted. I’ve never done something like that with someone who was not my girlfriend except that one time.I have looked many times, tried not to stare, but was still caught several times. Reactions were varied - from stern looks to smiles or even a wink. So I guess some women do it intentionally, but you can’t really know until you see their reaction.
Why can guys take off their shirts but girls can't?
I find it kind of ridiculous that guys can take off their shirts at practice but girls can't. It's track.. Sometimes the guys are ridiculous too, they'll take it off even when it's cold and cloudy just to show off but sometimes I understand when it gets into the 70° and 80° range but what makes girls so different? It's not like we're running shirtless with our boobs exposed we wear sports bras there's no big secret. They say that guys will get distracted but girls get just as easily distracted. Talk about double standards....
Why are men allowed to show their nipples, but women cant?
That's coz we have boobs.When men show their nipples it won't seem as sexual as when we do that.
Is it okay to walk around half dressed or nude in front of your 15 year old son?
I have 2 friends who have teenaged sons, who feel there is nothing wrong with walking around the house in their panties and bra, or a short tee shirt and panties in front of their sons. One of them actually goes nude in front of her 17 year old. They both feel that being nude is normal and that their sons will soon see nude women, so what is the big deal, they don't see a problem. The worse part is that both of these young men have expressed to me that they do not like to see their mothers that way. They are both embarrassed and uncomfortable by the situation. I have spoken to both friends about how their sons feel, and I got different responses. One said that she doesnt think its a big deal, that I am making it more serious than it is. The other said "so what, I am the mother and I can do whatever I want. If he doesn't like seeing me, he shouldn't look. " I just want to know if I am the crazy one. My 3 sons (grown now) have never seen me undressed, (unless by accident).
Why do some girls wear short or "revealing" clothes?
The answer depends on what you mean by "provocative." That's an extremely subjective assessment. If you're from a culture where women don't wear trousers and favor long, loose skirts, then fitted trousers might seem provocative. If you're from a culture where women cover themselves from collar on down, then any décolletage might be shocking. If you live on the beach in Southern California, then you're used to women roller-skating by in a bikini top and cut-off shorts. Generally, women wear body-revealing clothing for one of three reasons: It's more comfortable than something less revealing, we enjoy displaying our body, or we're simply conforming to fashion trends. When it's 95 degrees out, I want to wear as little as possible. On the other hand, I sometimes wear something revealing in cold weather because I like the look of the body parts that are showing, and I like that other people like them. And sometimes I'm not thinking about whether others will enjoy seeing certain body parts, and instead I'm thinking "Midriff-baring shirts are trendy right now. I want people to see me as a fashionable person, so I will wear a midriff-bearing shirt." (Ah, the nineties!) As you suggest in your question details, some people (particularly uncouth men) assume that women wear revealing clothing as an invitation. We certainly do that sometimes. But it's a bad idea to assume that's why a given woman is wearing a given outfit. Even if an outfit shows all the signs of being intentionally sexy, we might be wearing it to issue an invitiation to one specific person, not to you; if we don't own a trenchcoat, you see us in that outfit when we're on our way to the hottie we're interested in.
Gender studies/What if ALL women don't want to be desexualized?
If you ask me, wanting toplessness to be legal so that "the female body won't be seen as sexual anymore" is really, really stupid and naive. Does anyone really think that it would work, and that men would just go, "Oh, look, naked breasts...I guess they're nothing special after all. *yawn* " Come on. Breasts haven't been "sexualized" - breasts *are sexual*. Even in cultures where women regularly go topless, men still like 'em. Even in ancient cultures that rose and fell long before "western civilization", breasts were still sexual. We can't change that fact any more than we can change our biology. >What's wrong with a woman's body being desired by men? Absolutely nothing! I like knowing that my hubby wants me and thinks I have a great figure. It feels really good. : ) I think women complain about it because they want to be able to wear whatever they want without drawing attention to themselves, but you can't have it both ways, and instead of accepting responsibility for putting on a miniskirt and a low-cut top they prefer to blame men for being pigs who've *gasp* sexualized the female body. It's legal here in Ontario to go topless. Guess what, nobody does it! It's been legal for over a decade and I've only ever seen two women make use of it. Nobody really wants to do it. I think it's stupid to make it legal just so women can say they have the right even though 99% of us never would. EDIT >So why do you care if a woman prefers to go around without a shirt? Because we all have to live with her nakedness. People don't live all alone; we share our towns and cities with one another. If she's walking around with her shirt off, people who don't want to see nudity - or shouldn't see it, because they're children - will be faced with it. I don't think that people have the right to inflict their nakedness on everyone else. Public indecency is NOT a right, and should remain illegal.