Would it be weird to gift a guy flowers?
Umm.. I would say NO if you are planning to gift a man eating flower.. But, i am damm sure if you are sending a bunch of roses or orchids, it will be everything but weird cause, it is really a great idea.It's true that, we guys talk about being macho, a dude and the whole flower thing is for girls only, it's feminine crap. But, we do love one of the most beautiful creation of mother nature and If we receive them as a gift we will be overwhelmed as we receive flowers rarely and we will consider it as a token of appreciation or affection or love..(whatever is suitable for your case).So, i would suggest you surely should gift a guy some flowers. by the way a flower, T-shirt, a beer case or a bike.. who doesn't loves gift..right?Edit - I would love if someone gifts me the man eating flower. I am surrounded with buch of annoying people..just in case :P
Is it wrong to accept gifts from a guy other than your boyfriend when you know that he likes you?
Unless it's your birthday I wouldn't accept those gifts. "Y" is trying to buy your affections, and by keeping those gifts you give him false hope that it may work. You've told him point blank that you have no interest in dating him. Now make it clear by returning his gifts. Thank him, but tell him that they'd be better suited for someone he was in a relationship with.
What should I bring an attorney as a thank you gift?
As a lawyer, if I perform a free favor for someone who could otherwise afford my services or I refer business to a colleague, a small gift is usually provided, something on the order of $50-100 (e.g., breakfast for the office, picking up the tab on the next lunch, a bottle of wine, etc.). But those are about the only times that a gift would be even remotely expected. Clients should never feel obligated to give gifts; lawyers provide services for money (often lots of money), and just as it would be odd to bring a gift to the guy who sold you tires or a new TV, there's really no need to give gifts to a lawyer you have paid. Paying your bill in full is all that is called for. If you are happy with the services received, a simple thank you-either in person or in a letter-and speaking well of the lawyer to friends and colleagues is greatly appreciated and more than sufficient.Here, you paid your brother's lawyer $15,000-hardly a small amount of money for an individual-and you did so in installments. While all lawyers dream of instant payment in full, installment plans are far from rare, especially in low-level matters. Therefore, I honestly don't think any kind of gift is called for: a thank you and a recommendation to friends/online-which could lead to more business-would be far more valuable. But if you do give a gift, keep it simple, and don't spend more than $100.
Why would a guy buy a girl a gift? Does it have a deeper meaning?
There are many different motivations for this action.He likes/loves her and wants to impress her. He may be the type of person that feels loved when he receives gifts so he is acting in a loving manner when he is giving gifts to others. He might see that she is also the type of person that appreciates gifts.If the gift was not difficult to acquire, such as in a situation where both people were already in a store together and the item was very close by, it may just be that he was just doing something nice and hospitable without much meaning attached to it.He likes to show off that he can afford expensive things and envisions himself as a powerful, generous person. In giving these types of gifts to others, he wishes to have others perceive him in this way as well.He feels obligated because it’s an occasion where it is customary to give gifts such as a birthday, housewarming, or anniversary.He wants her to feel obligated to him.He feels pressured because he thinks she would be upset unless she is given a gift.He is trying to throw off suspicion because he is doing inappropriate things that she would not approve of, such as being unfaithful or other dishonest acts.
Is it wrong to not accept any gifts from your boyfriend?
I have a friend who has been in a relationship for almost a year. Her boyfriend loves her to death and so does she. Whenever he would buy her something like for her birthday, christmas or of any occaission. She would thank him but give it back. It could be a diamond ring and she would still give it back. He would give her money to splurge on herself (like $100, $200) and she would but it in an envelope under her mattress and use her own money to buy the stuff. She is saying it is for protection just in case anything happens. I personally think what she is doing is very smart. but is it wrong and does it show signs of disrespect?
My girlfriend didn't accept a gift i gave to her?
my g/f and i have been together for 10 months. yesterday as we were saying goodbye to each other from work, i pulled out of my pocket a out-of-the-blue present for her (a piece a jewelry i thought she'd like) but she just told me "no thanks". we kept talking and i kept my cool then but now i feel horrible now. what do i do?
Is it appropriate for me to accept a gift from a guy who likes me even though the gift was originally for his ex?
The fact that you’re asking the question suggests that you feel uncomfortable doing so. That’s enough reason to not do so. That he is offering something to you that was intended for his ex suggests that he doesn’t score high on the insight and sensitivity scales. It also may suggest that he regards women as interchangable. You might want to return the favor and trade him for someone else.
Should I accept the gift from someone I barely know or not?
This doesn't sound good. He sounds even worse than the 'money will buy love' type guys. He sounds ... oblivious to reality and dangerous possibly. I guess it's not news to you that it was a HUGE mistake to give out any personal information. Especially your address. If he really is 'wealthy' then it wouldn't be too big of a deal for him to fly out and see you. If I were you I'd just cut off any connection with this guy. If you decide you want to see where it goes, make it very very clear to him that you're not romantically interested in him until you actually are interested in him that way. Don't act casual when he talks about 'being with you' or marrying you. That's the kind of talk that will get him flying out to see you without you knowing about it ahead of time. Make sure there are no strings attatched to whatever gifts he's trying to shower you with. Don't ever feel like you owe him anything afterwards so long as you make that clear to him verbally before you accept it. Seriously though, I'd just shut him out if I were you.
I told this girl I like her, and gave her a gift. She said, "Thank you." What does this mean?
There are far too many guys on here approaching girls in a manner for “what does it mean.” Approaching for validation, acceptance and supplicating to the girls when you need to approach with a stronger mindset.Forget what it means and look at your approach and thinking.When you like a girl, do not go and buy gifts. You need to invest less and you do that by being honest with the girl in not buying gifts because right now, you’re following some custom, tradition, based on fallacies.Myths, promoted by Hollywood, Bollywood movie and romance novels.When you do this kind of behaviour it creates awkwardness. Don’t ever buy gifts for any girl. I never buy anything because when you do, you trigger the unconscious mind of a human being to think..“Ooh he is buying my affection.“Oooh, he wants something back now.”In doing things like that it makes it too serious, it creates discomfort, awkwardiness and also puts someone in a position where they will wonder if you are genuine or not.I mean you gave a gift and THEN said you like her.You need to not do that for another reason…You’re showing a certain type of affection far too early. You need to hold your emotions back like a man, and then approach her to not win her over. You’re approaching to be accepted.You’re approaching to find out whether she is willing to invest in you. You also make sure she shows interest in you. This is called qualifying. A woman must above all else, show she is interested in you before you invest anymore.Gifts and all that must wait later on, when you have had a history with her, have dated, have grown with initimacy and then, lets say months later…you give a gift and it now means something. It’s taken seriously.It has impact. The girl knows you well, you’ve been dating each other, been intimate with each other rather than buying gifts to buy her affection because that is what it will look like. It creates awkwardness.So what you said you like her.It’s not a good strategy. What do you want her to say than, “thank you?”That’s all she can say.So next time, forget the gift, approach to converse, flirt, stop making it serious because gifts and saying what you said make it too serious. You need to be fun, light hearted, and then ask her out..without…any gifts.