Do any women find men wearing women’s clothing attractive?
Actually this past week I had four separate comments about my attire while in public places. My wife commented how nice I looked when we were sitting in a waiting room of a doctor's office. I wore tan shorts with a lighter tan or beige top, and of course pantyhose. Other compliments were from women who liked the color of my pantyhose. I was wearing silky smooth Hanes Silk Reflections pantyhose both days in beige.My daughter has complimented me numerous times about my choice hose colors. Yesterday one of my granddaughters commented on my pantyhose. She thought they looked so natural on me. Of course the compliments always make me feel good when women say nice things about my pantyhose. Two of my doctors, both ladies, have said they thought it was great that I could wear hose with shorts in public and they looked good on me.Rhondak
Do you guys find it attractive when girls don't wear a bra?
The other day, I had an incident where it made me TRULY wonder this. (don't wear a bra with underneath a shirt) I think if logically asking, a guy would say yes. But as a girl, I've seen girls not wear bras and it doesn't look very attractive. lol. Feedback?
Are men really attracted to bras?
I don't really wear bras all the time. I'm wondering how my husband views me. Would he respect me more or see me as having more self-confidence if I wore bras all the time? Do men think more of women who wear those sexy matching bras and panties? I love them they look so sexy and things but to wear them is sometimes really uncomfortable. I guess I just want to know if men respect women more to see her in her bra, does a woman who wears a bra say somthing about herself and feminity? Do men view women difrent from those who wear bras and those who don't? Thanks.
Would women rather not know if their man is wearing panties or bras or would they feel like that is lying and want to know?
It is not lying unless your man explicits says “I do not wear womens panties and bras,” but in fact does. My wife has no problem with me in this regard and only occasionally asks me if I still wear womens clothes.Because I don’t wear womens outerwear publicly and at home only in private when I have a strong need for female company and no-one to fill that need.But, how is it that some garments are male and some female anyway, and what difference does it make anyway?The answer is simple, we live in a homophobic world and the homophobia is with both men and women. Most garments are totally suitable to be worn by either gender but are not because of the worst effects of homophobia.And lastly: it is no ones business, not even the business of a spouse, what undergarments or even what outer garments we wear, there is still a societal impediment but this is slowly breaking down. In a modern context women started wearing men’s clothing about a hundred years ago and in that time this was a radical act that could get a person in difficulty.Consider this, it has come about in my lifetime that homosexuality of men was illegal and a person who admitted to having such feeling could be jailed for just having particular feeling and never mind the act of actually dressing like a female, and act that would get you jailed and even beaten. This has changed now, and men do have slightly more freedom to dress as their gender bias suggest. Gender bias and sexual bias are two different things and should not be confused. By this I mean that both men and women could have a gender bias anywhere along an imaginary gender line from gender to the next and even have no gender bias. But have sexual bias that is contemporary with modern ideas about men and women generally.This is what part of the X gender is all about.If you are concerned about your man friends intentions, or his gender bias try being involved with his choices of feminine undergarments, helping him choose undergarments that please your eyes on him, after all is said and done men have been doing that with women for years.Please get out of the homophobic rut you’re in, underwear doesn’t matter to anyone but the wearer, and if you truly care for this person be on side in all things that please them and if the opposite is the case you need to seek some hard core male companionship.
Do men feel cheated when a woman wears an extra-padded bra, to the point where her breasts appear one or more cup sizes larger than reality? Why or why not?
Um, ok...so I'm just gonna up and say it: yes, we do, dammit. Why?First and foremost, let's make this clear: it's not just about the size of your boobs. Every man has a different range of physiques he finds sexy, and for every cup size, there are thousands, if not millions, of men who would find your breasts beautiful and exquisite. While physical in nature, the issue of disappointment also encompasses your horrible lack of self-confidence regarding your physical assets--and that, in a long-term relationship, is not something any sane man wants to deal with.It's usually pretty obvious. Make-up is one thing--when artfully done, it's a subtle enhancement to highlight a woman's foundational attractiveness. Using a push-up bra is like trying to make a sidewalk into a 4-lane superhighway--the physics of how a C cup moves/bounces is so inherently different from an A that most blokes with half a brain and a working pair of eyes can tell you're faking the cleavage.You screw up a good chunk of the basis for physical attraction between you and your partner. A guy who's into curves is not going to be particularly pleased to suddenly find he's going to have a lot less to play with than he initially thought. Whether he's willing to compromise on his ideals of feminine beauty for the duration of the relationship is a completely different matter: if it's a one-night stand, then he's probably going to roll with the punches. If it's dating/an actual relationship, that's up in the air.Having small boobs isn't even remotely close to a dealbreaker for many men. Lying, on the other hand, is. Think about it: small boobs do not exclude you from having a great ass, an amazing personality, and mad salsa skills. Assuming the guy was utterly inebriated or wasn't experienced enough to tell that you're using a push-up bra, getting naked for the first time and letting the guy find out you've been tricking him all along isn't exactly a nice thing to do.Again, as I said in (3), whether a guy can get over the disappointment of suddenly finding out you're an A when he expected a C is a whole different subject. Who knows, maybe he's never had a salsa partner as responsive as you, or maybe your incredible flexibility totally makes up for it, or at that point he just loves you so much that he doesn't care. Whatever. I personally just find it absurd that many women buy into these ridiculous advertising campaigns.
Question,do guys find girls, women with smaller breasts more attractive, or do they prefer larger ones?
I love smaller breasted girls. As one other answerer said, it's not so much the size, but the way smaller breasts set up on a girl's chest. They look much more natural and are extremely beautiful to me. Larger breasts sort of hang down like pendulums on the body. They are not perky and the only time they look perky is when they are supported by a strong bra. But, when the bra comes off, they just kind of hang there off the body. Smaller breasts are perky. I particularly like it when the nipple points up. This is sexy to me. Secondly, smaller breasts are bite sized -- particularly AA, A and B cups. It's hard to get a D cup in your mouth. You can suck on the D, play with the nipples, but you can't get the entire breast in your mouth. With a small breast, you can suck the entire breast while using your tongue to play with the nipple. Thirdly, girls with smaller breasts can go braless. There are few things sexier, IMO, then the idea that the girl you are with is braless. It is a turn on. Small breasted women always look good up top, naked or clothed, whether or not they have a bra on. Large breasted women generally require a good bra to tame those melons and make them look good under clothes. Fourthly, becaise girls with smaller breasts can go braless, they can avoid the risks associated with breast cancer and bras. A 1990s Harvard study came to the following conclusions (see sources): Women who wore their bras 24 hours per day had a 3 out of 4 chance of developing breast cancer (in their study, n=2056 for the cancer group and n=2674 for the standard group). Women who wore bras more than 12 hour per day but not to bed had a 1 out of 7 risk. Women who wore their bras less than 12 hours per day had a 1 out of 152 risk. Women who wore bras rarely or never had a 1 out of 168 chance of getting breast cancer. The overall difference between 24 hour wearing and not at all was a 125-fold difference.
Is it ok for men to wear panties and bra and do women like it?
Question answered: Is it okay for men to wear panties and bra and do women like it?Yes, it’s okay. It’s really okay. You must be on the younger side to be asking a question like this. Most adult men already know it’s okay. Either that or they no longer care whether it’s okay or not okay. They just wear them and the hell with what anybody else thinks.That’s what I suggest you do too. Just wear them and stop asking if it’s okay. We’re not your parents here. We’re writers with an expertise of one sort or another. My expertise happens to cover your question, so I’m happy to answer it.Anyone - male, female or otherwise - can wear a bra and panties. Panties are soft and comfortable and they’re simple garments typically made from either cotton or nylon. They feel nice when you wear them, so that makes it okay to wear them. You will not be arrested by the fashion police for wearing panties - I guarantee it. As for your wearing a bra, I would keep it covered up if I were you.Now as far as the second part of your question, that’s another matter altogether.Do women like it when men wear panties?I’m sorry to say that generally speaking, they do not. I’ve met a handful of women in my life who enjoyed having the best sex of their lives with men who wore panties, but those were rare exceptions. Most women wouldn’t like it at all if a man wore panties while they were dating.Sorry to rain on your parade here with mixed news. But look on the brighter side. It’s totally okay for you to wear panties, even if most women won’t jump up and down with joy when they see you wearing a pair of thongs or hipsters.Wear panties and a bra for your own pleasure, first and foremost. That’s what really matters.
Ladies, if you aren't wearing a bra and your nipples are somewhat hard is it wrong for a guys to look?
no. guys can look as long as they dont touch.of course its happened to me before.sometimes i do it on purpose just to get the attention.It looks hot and gets the men rolling.
Does wearing women’s bras make men feel like women?
In my husband's case, yes.I caught him wearing one of mine years ago. I felt sorry for him really. He has breasts that even back then were large enough that he actually needed a bra for support. I helped him buy ones that fit and even got him an appointment at Nordstrom for a professional fitting. He began wearing a bra every day, even to work.That day I caught him, he was also wearing panties of mine. He told me his penis was too small and he liked that way the panties looked and made him feel. The truth was that his penis was small, the smallest I've ever seen on a man. But when he got an erection, it grew to a size that was almost normal which for me was besides the point because he always managed to satisfy me with it.He's had some medical issues that changed things for him. First he got prostate cancer and had to have it removed. Then two years ago he got colon cancer and that too required surgery. His penis is now even small and he can't get an erection. Plus he's put on some weight and there have been chemo and other medication side effects. His breasts have grown significantly and now easily fill a C cup. He's gone from serviceable everyday bras to lacy ones with more lift and shaping. He's also now wearing a sports bra to bed every night.