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Swimming with a group of friends with big boobs

I am so embarrased! My best guy friend saw my boobs!?

Im 13. Yes 13 years old. Well, this happend yesterday.
I was at my best guy friends house.lets call him 'josh'.So josh asked me if we wanted to go swimming. I said sure. (i know its winter, but i live in florida, so its still warm in winter). So i went into the bathroom and changed into my bikini. So we went in the pool. I started out on one of those doughnut shaped floats, because the water was kinda chilly. As always josh started splashing me and knocked me over, so i landed in the pool. Later on he asked me if i wanted to have a diving/jumping contest thing. So then we were playing this game, and i got out of the pool, and walked over to the edge of the pool. And then i JUMPED. bad idea. I did i canon ball into the pool, and when i came up i noticed that my top had came off. the part where it ties around your ribs was still tied but the top by the neck was undone, and it was hanging down. WORST PART:the top was all tangled! Josh was just STARING at me! And then he says "Mannn, grace you got hugge boobs!"
I was SO EMBARRASED! I turned BRIGHT RED(i could feel it) and tried to cover up as much as i could, and ran out the pool into the house and locked myself in the bathroom so josh couldnt get in.
He came out and knocked on the bathroom door. He said something like "grace, sorry. i didnt mean to stare". it was something like that. Anyways, i came out of the bathroom, got dressed and left.


TODAY:I skipped school, becuase i was to embarrased to see him, because he saw my boobs.
Later today, about 2 hours ago, he goes "grace why didnt you go to school today? i wanted to talk to you"

I have no idea what to do!
ADVICE?

Small boobs = not going to swimming with friends..........?

I have the same problem. Im 17 and I'm always self concious about my chest. I try not to dwell on it too much but firstly there is no perfect image of a woman. The truth is we benefit from having small boobs... girls with big boobs only get attention for one reason. And at the end of the day one positive is you know that guys like you for your inner beauty instead of some DD cup busty woman in a trashy magazine. So dont worry about it!! There are many different shapes and sizes of women.. it dosent mean your unhealthy or too skinny (I hate it when people say that). ~Infact the other day my boyfriend said keira knightly is possibly the most beautiful woman on earth... and she has very small boobs but a HUGE male following! Anyways im digressing... you can buy bikinis which allow a little padding (theres an opening at the top on the inside to put pads into) and halter necks always make your bust look bigger.
Hope that helps.. and sorry for rambling (:

Swimming with a group of friends with big boobs...?

Go to a women's shop that sells bathing suits and tell them your problem. They may have just the suit in their shop that will cover you and support you where you need it. Keep looking until you find what you need. Otherwise, wear a cover up and stay out of the water. I know that isn't fun, but it's worse to have guys make passes at you hoping for a hug. You really do need a full coverage top for your suit that supports the weight and size of your breasts. You may have to buy a one piece suit for this occasion just to have something to wear that you feel comfortable wearing. One piece suits can be really cute when they're cut properly. Maybe one with cut outs at the waist would be nice and still offer you the coverage and support that you need.

Is it ok to show your guy friends your boobs?

Um...those guys are disrespectful jerks who could have raped you. Now that you showed them your boobs, they are not going to stop asking to see more boobs and they're not going to stop there...they will soon want to see you naked and they will gang up on you and rape you. You did not do the right thing. Do not for a second, think that these guys like you and do not get your self-esteem from a bunch of idiots wanting to see you naked....they would want to see anyone naked....you're nothing special to them which is why they treat you like a piece of meat. Someone who respects you and likes you will never ever do that type of crap such as pulling on your bathing suit or yelling like a ghetto piece of trash to take your top off. I feel sorry for whoever is flattered by that. DO NOT DO THIS AGAIN AND DO NOT HANG OUT WITH THEM ANYMORE...its dangerous!!!

Swimming= small boobs?!?

I have the same problem. Im 17 and I'm always self concious about my chest. I try not to dwell on it too much but firstly there is no perfect image of a woman. The truth is we benefit from having small boobs... girls with big boobs only get attention for one reason. And at the end of the day one positive is you know that guys like you for your inner beauty instead of some DD cup busty woman in a trashy magazine. So dont worry about it!! There are many different shapes and sizes of women.. it dosent mean your unhealthy or too skinny (I hate it when people say that). ~Infact the other day my boyfriend said keira knightly is possibly the most beautiful woman on earth... and she has very small boobs but a HUGE male following! Anyways im digressing... you can buy bikinis which allow a little padding (theres an opening at the top on the inside to put pads into) and halter necks always make your bust look bigger. Hope that helps.. and sorry for rambling (:

Why are swimmers boobs small?

I'm a male that swims....swimming chicks have broader shoulders...which isn't so attractive. But boobs? no... I there are alot of girls that have large breasts on the team. Your probibly confused because the broadening of the shoulders and the fast loss of body weight which can naturally leave from the breasts through intense exercising. But I've noticed, that as a male, My pecs are much larger than they were when I started swimming. Maybe it has something to do with the underlying muslce tone in females under the mamary glands.....hmm Idk. Though if your a serious swimmer, boobs may just cause drag. =/ heh heh.

Does swimming make your butt or boobs smaller?

Nah, that would be only very marginally - if you lose weight overall by exercise, you will lose a tiny bit on the breasts too. But it will not change your build or proportions at all.

Not sure if you would have liked it to be true, or feared it might be true (casue often the girls with big boobs want smaller, and those with small want bigger :o))

But best thing is just to enjoy your swimming - it won't do anything radical to you, either way ;o)

Boy squeezed my boob...?

WHOA!!! That is not OK!! That is a very private part of your body, and he is not allowed to do that. He probably kept doing it because you didnt do anything about it (not your fault). Even if he did it once, and it was truly an accident, its NOT OK!!

If you can, tell him very sternly, that he needs to stop. If he wont, tell your mom, or an adult.

And if he STILL wont stop.........here is what you do: (I used to help teach at a Tae Kwon Do school). If he tries to touch you again, grab his hand as fast as you can. Hold onto it with one hand, and make a fist with your other. But leave the knuckle of your middle finger slightly higher than the rest. So if you look at your clenched fist, it sort of makes an upside down "V". Then strike the top of his hand with your knuckles (not his palm, the other side where the bone is). That should show him you are serious, and stop him.

BE STRONG!!! That kid has no right to do that to you!!

How do i make my boobs look bigger in a swimming costume?

You don't. You need to be happy with what you've got. And then they will stare at you because your confident in yourself. Trust me big boobs aren't all that great haha they be heavy and get in the way. Self confidence is all you need. Not a bigger cup size.

How to swim with large breasts?

Your breasts are already giving you an advantage, because they're reducing the amount of effort you need to expend to stay at the surface (which you can instead put into forward propulsion).

To help with streamlining, and if you don't already, make sure that you wear a costume with a very high front and high sides -- if your cleavage is visible, the upper part of your costume will act as a 'scoop', increasing your drag and slowing you down. You could also maybe try wearing a costume that is a size too small (i.e. tight), or wearing a very tight sports bra under your costume, to help flatten everything down.

If you train hard (I mean at least 1-2 hours per day, 5-7 days per week), you may find that your cupsize actually reduces, as your body burns its fat reserves for energy (breasts are mostly fat tissue). But until that happens, you'll just have to put up with being slightly slower than your teammates.