What do high school girls like in boys?
Well, I can offer you my perspective! It honestly depends from person to person because of the different personalities girls have.Guys have to be good listeners. This means that when a girl has some issue, please hear her out. Often times, girls really need to vent and have someone listen. Afterwards, a good hug and cuddle can make everything seem better.Guys have to communicate with their girlfriends at least once every day. This can definitely vary from person to person but a simple conversation with a guy I like every day just makes my day a little better.Guys must be well groomed. Now girls aren't telling you to go shave the beard but listen to our opinions. We spend more time worrying about how we look and dress so take some fashion advice from girls. Also, please don't do the oversized shirts and baggy jeans.Guys must behave decently with girls. Please don't ask for nudes. It's rude and not appropriate. And this also can vary from person to person but don't view a girl as an object and ‘sexualize’ her.Guys must treat girls as their equals. A girl is no less than you. We don't expect much form you but a little respect for what we do. We girls love to shower our love to anyone we care about a lot. Please respect us as your equals.Guys should try to be funny. Well this isn't really a requirement but a girl loves a guy who can make her laugh. I know I do ;)Guys must try be romantic. Well, I love romantic gestures and I'm sure my fellow girl clan does too. Even if it's simple as a rose every day, it still matters a lot to a girl. I personally love old fashioned love letters :)Guys must deal with mood swings. This is extremely important. Girls often have mood swings because we have a lot going on with our hormones every month and when a guy fights with us during that time, we are vicious people! Be supportive of the pain she goes through and ignore the mood swings. Also don't ask her if she's on her time of the month unless she says something. It's extremely rude.Lastly, Guys must be kind human beings. I personally hate guys who have jerk personalities and love guys who are kind and respectful. It could be them helping at the humane society but when a guy does something sweet or kind, my heart melts!Well, I hope you get the girl you like and be sure to impress her with your personality and kindness! Also, please please dress well. Girls love a well groomed guy :) Good Luck!
I like this boy at school...?
Talk to him more. What do I look for in a girl? All physcial appearances aside, I like a girl that is confident, but not annoying or cocky. I don't like it when they are mean to other people either, it's an instant turn off. Just say hi every now and then and soon strike up a conversation and move from there.
I let this boy touch me at school?
Just give me advice. I'm feeling very guilty for doing this... Basically, there's this boy, let's call him Bob. Bob is a pervert. He stole stuff from my pencilcase, which has quite some valuable things in there, and I'm stupid for keeping it in there. He basically said that I can get everything if I let him touch me. After like 4 days of bugging me, I finally said FINE, we went to the back of the school and he like, violated me. He promised he wouldn't do it again, but it happened today, and he's gone from just touching my *** to like everywhere now. I feel sooooooo guilty, but it does feel good at the same time. He makes me feel sooo dirty. what do I do? :(
Boys at school don't like me? HELP?
been there, done that. i am disabled and didnt have a lot of friends, much less ANY luck getting boyfriends. i was the girl who came home crying EVERY valentine's day because i was the only one who didn't get anything. it was horrible. so i know how it feels. it sucks big time and makes u feel so alone, and like something's wrong with you. but here's the thing, most boys ur age r into one thing and one thing only. SEX. so, i have learned that it is best to wait (as hard as that is, i know i remembe rall too well) until the guys (if they ever do) learn to respect girls more. if u try to change urself, they will fall in love with who they THINK u r, and not who u truely r, and eventually who u truely r will come out and the relationship will end badly. it's always best to be urself and just wait till the right guy comes along. i know that's hard, but some day a guy will come along who will see you for you, and love you for that. it may not be until high school, or it may be after high school. but when that time comes, and u find the perfect guy, it will be well worth waiting for. and remember, if u get ur heart broken, think back to all the signs that u saw that this guy was no good. dont beat urself up when u do because that's what LEARNING is all about. to make urself better for the future. so that u can learn the signs and will know when u see a guy that's no good. people will try to keep u away from the danger of getting ur heart broken, especially ur parents. but just know they mean NO harm and in fact they r VERY well intended. they only want to spare u the pain. but unfortunately sometimes experience is the best teacher. so keep what they say in mind, even if u dont actually follow thru with their advice. it will come in handy some day. thinking of u and i wish u the best of luck. i remember all too well how the teenage years can be. as i'm only 25. just hang in there, and u will be happy u did. :)
What do middle school girls like in boys?
Well, I'm a girl who happens to be in middle school, so I feel qualified to answer this question.First of all, we aren't very picky. I'll give you that. If you're cute, nice, athletic and so on, you have a tendency to have a few admirers before they even get a chance to know your personality. But the small amount of girls like me, who do focus on the inward emotions of a guy, are usually the ones who have a better relationship in the first place.Personally, I'll tell you this: My first crush was someone who didn't act like an idiot.I don't want this to sound rude, so let me clarify.An “idiot” isn't someone who is a heavy jock. Or who plays video games, or who says “bro” all the time. Those are stereotypes.An “idiot” to me is someone who blatantly disrespects the teacher (teachers are people too, bud) or who judges people based on race, economics, or other factors that have very little to do with how you should think of a person.Honestly, I don't care about looks. At all. I care about if you're a good person, with good morals, who generally respects other people. (Yes, even teachers!)I hope this answered your question. I might be a bit young to tell you this, but to sum it up: just be yourself. Unless you're a jerk. Then I would fix that.Good luck!-Callie, seventh grade love expert