Is it okay for a girlfriend to sleep over at a guy friend's place? Is this normal behaviour for some girls, and should I even worry about it?
I'm a 28 year old woman. I stayed at my guy friends' houses many times, I still do. Back in the day when we were in high school we would have sleep overs at a guy friend's house as it was often empty. We would play board games, have long conversations, watch a movie, cook and eat, then sleep. Our group of best friends were 4-5 guys and 2 girls including myself. If you're asking about sex, nothing ever happened between any of us. Nothing even got close to happen. Two times we actually slept on the same bed (once two girls one guy on a huge bed, there was nowhere else.) The only memory worth to mention about that how our guy friend turned out to be a very jumpy sleeper, imagine someone jump every time he turned. He fell asleep right away, started to snore, and he literally jumped every single time he turned, and he turned a lot. We still make fun of it to this date.So to answer your question, yes it's okay for a girlfriend to sleep over at a guy friend's place. Friends have no genders. If you're concerned about your girlfriend's safety, is there a reason to be concerned? Like, is the guy someone she rarely knows? If so then it's completely understandable why you're worried and you can be open to her about this.If you're worried because you think she might cheat then I will take it as you don't trust your girlfriend, not as much as you should. If someone can cheat, they will do it, they don't need to have a sleep over to cheat.
How do hotels react when you book a room for one person but end up bringing someone else back to your room? Are you technically supposed to notify them to increase your rate for that night? Or is this just accepted practice?
Well, I have been in Hotel Industry for the past twenty years or so. Even IN Dubai being an islamic country, many Hotels do allow you to take guests , but there may be house rules which vary from Hotel to Hotel.No Hotel would allow you to walk through the Lobby accompanied by a hooker as this sends a bad impression to the other guets and might tarnish their rating and reputation.However if the accompanied guest is decently dressed normally they walk through without a problem.In some countries like in Dubai, if the accompanied guests are staying the night they need to furnish an ID proof so that the respective Government departments are aware of the Guests in Hotel.There are some Hotels who would charge a guest fee , but on request would furnish an invoice in a seperate window to avoid the guest having a problem with the original Booker/Company.If the accompanied guest looks like minor, entry may be refused.Technically speaking the Hotel reserves the right to refuse admission even if the reservation carries their name .Make sure your Guests do not leave anything behind like a Lingerie and there are instances when Hotels returned such items to the mailing address and the guest got into trouble with their spouse!Any damages to the property might tempt the Hotel to report to the authorities, so if you are planning on a drunken orgy better think again!I have personally seen a couple of guests who were so drunk, they were making out in the sofa in the Elevator sitting area and also complained that the keycard was not opening the Elevator doors! So Take care, you may not really like the Hard floor in the Police lockup!!
Alone with guy friend in Hotel?What are his intentions?
One of my guy friends whom i known for a couple of months wants to hang out... he said that if we can go to a hotel and just hang out,... I mean he is kool and everything but i dont know.... Then i asked him if he wants to go to a movie instead and he said it was not a good idea because at movies "people cuddle" and he is not trying to make a move on me to jeopardize our friendship So we decided to go bowling instead... Is he messing with my head? He says that he would never jeopardize our friendship and he respects me to much... he said he what to chill at the hotel and just talk and what not.. He said he does not have a place to call his own since he lives with his parents... I don't get it? Should I call him out on this? Should i ignore his phone calls and just not talk to him anymore? I am 19 and he is 27 by the way
If a female friend wants to stay in a hotel room with me, is there a chance that she wants to have sex with me?
I’m gonna suggest something real crazy.Why don’t you just ask her?Granted, it has to be the right timing; don’t ask her randomly when you’re at dinner, or watching TV, or having a conversation about something completely unrelated. That would be weird and, frankly, creepy. But when the timing is right, asking her if she would like to have sex with you is the best way to know the answer to your question.There’s no way to know for sure if she wants to have sex with you unless you ask. She could be extra friendly, and touch your arm, and even lay down with you in bed and put her head on your shoulder, but that isn’t a green light for sex. In fact, she could be rooming with you because she thinks you aren’t going to try to make a move on her. I know I would only room with guy friends that I think will respect my personal space and won’t try to force themselves on me. She is putting a lot of trust in you, so please don’t break it.Seriously. Just ask her. Why would you try to guess the answer when all you have to do is ask her?
Is it ok for 2 close friends of opposite sex to change in front of each other and sleep in same bed?
Ok so i am a male and have a very close friend who is a female. We are really close she is 19 and i am 22 so we are both adults. Over time as we would hang out at each other houses we started changing in front of each other. Not really for any reason other than it was easier than bothering to go out of the room to the bathroom or something. We are both totally comfortable with each other so both her and i dont see a problem with it. We both change down completely as well. Also a bit more recently we have started sleeping in the same bed together just as friends. Started few times when we would lie in bed together watching a movie and and up falling asleep. But as of the last few months we just sleep in the same bed together all the time now as we are both totally comfortable with it. Though we decided to always at least have undies on both her and i have single beds and so for two people to sleep together and not fall out of the bed you have to cuddle up pretty close, once again both her and i are find with this. But she does have a boyfriend and for the sake of nothing more ever happening by accident we decided to always keep our undies on. I should point out as well that her boyfriend is fine with all this. And he knows we are close like this but also knows that we can control ourselves and so he is fine with it. But here is where the problem is. My parents dont think its appropriate for two friends to sleep in the same bed together and that for it to be ok we would need to be in a relationship. And its getting to the stage now that whenever she is round my parents dont want anything to do with me and wont talk to me for days after. Her parents dont mind at all. So most of the time now i stay at hers. So what my question is, based on all the info above. 1 Do you think it is ok for us to be changing in front of each other like that? 2 Do you think it is ok for us to be sharing a bed together just as friends? 3 Do you think my parents are being a bit over the top and need to understand that we are close and comfortable with each other? Thanks for reading and sorry for long as question.
Is it inappropriate for two boys (friends), aged 13 and 10, to share a bed in our hotel room?
experimentation and body exploration happens. I slept in the same bed with another guy when I was about that age. I don't recall exact ages, but we both were 11-12ish(?). There was a larged bed. I am as gay as they make (which I did not know then but realized when I approximately around 18 and I am well aware of my sexuality now). His sexuality is unknown to me and was did not enter my mind as a concept back then. We had a separate room and we were both to sleep in the same bed. I think we both undressed to our underwear I think we horsed around very briefly to where we tickled each other mostly on the sides of the stomach and chest. I got out of bed to reposition the bed cover, and also went to peek out the room, and then got back into bed. He fell asleep shortly after. I tickled him a couple more times but he had no reaction, despite having huge reaction while awake. Apparently he went into a deep sleep, and me, having tickled him 2 more times on his belly sides, and getting no reaction, I went to sleep as well.More experimentation than that happened in kindergarten for me.so to answer, .. whether it is inappropriate for two same-sex friends to share a bed in our hotel room, ... from my point of view, I'd say it is alright (not inappropriate).It is the (non-sexual) intimacy that they will experience and that is a good thing. I doubt sexual experimentation (aka one where penises are involved) will happen. That kind of experimentation typically takes months and sometimes years to develop. And this selected bed-sharing incident will not make a dent in that process (if it is to happen in the first place).
Is it cool for a girl to spend the night at her male friends place when she has a boyfriend?
I’d say that depends on how the boyfriend feels.A couple of years ago, I was in the early stages of a long-distance relationship. My best friend was a boy who lived in London. I'd regularly sleep at his house, and he’d sleep at mine, and nothing happened - but here's the catch: I never told my boyfriend about it. I knew that it might come across as weird, and upset him - I was SURE the equivalent of him sleeping at a female friend’s house would really upset me. So I kept it secret.After a few months of sleepovers with my best friend, eventually, we got together. I broke up with my boyfriend the next day. Was with the other guy for over a year - honestly, I'd been in love with him the whole time. He went on to cheat on me with another close female friend who stayed the night at his.But, honestly, there’s not much of a moral to that story, because every relationship and every attitude is different. Personally, I'm not secure enough to allow my (new) boyfriend to sleep over with another girl, and I know he feels the same about me, and I’m okay with that.The important thing is: don't abuse other people’s trust. Prioritise the feelings of the person you’re in a relationship with if you want to be a good person - empathise. But don’t try and force your significant other to change the way that they conduct their friendships.People who are going to make stupid, hurtful mistakes (like me, and my friend) will ultimately find a way to make them whatever you do.
Is it Gay for two guys to sleep over together. And also, is it gay if they sleep in the same bed.?
you should watch brokeback mountain... just kidding don't it the worst movie ever. No, it's only gay if they do stuff. Back in the day people use to pile several people into one bed. Usually relatives but if they were to have sleep overs same thing, hop in the bed together because you'll get sick if you sleep on the floor or couch.