HELP, bullied by the whole school?
Chasing stars, I truly feel for u. I know u want a really helpful answer or solution but seeing your situation their isn't much to say. Just ignore them and do what your username says chase stars. U have a bright future ahead and don't let peabrained ignorant stupid people bring u down just because they can't accept ur weight. To tell u the truth , probably half of those students have weight problems or any other problems. While u become something great, u'll be the one with the last laugh while their busy working a low paying job. So be proud of who u are and chase those stars. Good things happen to hose who wait. Also if you can do this, go to a local YMCA ( something like that) or volunteer for something outside school. Once you find people of a common interest with u, you'll won't worry about school anymor don't hate your body, your a beautiful young lady who deserves a nice life. Some people just can't accept that. Somethings in life only make us stronger
Can a judge order a bully to wear diapers to school?
My 10 year old son was picking on a boy and caused the boy to wet his pants in front of his classmates. I spoke to my son about bullying and I know he won't do it again. We apologized but the mother of the boy who wet his pants is taking us to court. She's demanding money and not only that, but she wants my son to wear diapers to school for a month. I guess they think that punishment fits the crime or something. Is it possible that the judge will go along with that? I know judges do strange things, but it doesn't seem right. It seems vengeful.
How do you stop bullying when your school or anyone else won't do something about it?
Being the victim of a bully almost always has the feature of being passive.Don't be passive about getting some action to stop the bully.Speak with the head administrative people at the school. If there are other victims, get them to approach the administration with you.Come armed with written accounts - the facts - such as when, where, what and how the bullying occurs. The more facts, incidents, you and others document, the better.Should the administrators at the level of your school do little or nothing, enlist the support your parents and the parents of other victims.Discuss the matter again with the school. Administrative people who blow kids off and reluctant to blow off their parents. They are afraid that you might bring the matter to the attention the superintendent or the school board.Talk to your parents about knocking on the door of the home of the bully, and discussing the matter with the parents.Don't give a damn about any gossip about this. First of all, there is unlikely to be any: your discussions with the administration are private, and the bully, when he or she is held to account by the administration of the school, or the superintendent, with their parents involved, won't be inclined to tell anyone how they have been chastised.Depending on what the bullying consists of, there is always the route of lawyers. Schools are deeply afraid of law suits.The bottom line is the the school is obligated, first and foremost, to provide a safe environment.
I got an invitation to a high school reunion where I was bullied. I am successful in my career. I want the satisfaction that I’m doing better than my bullies, but I don’t want to demean myself on that level. Should I go?
My experience with high school reunions (at least in the large city where I grew up) is that most of the people who come are people who are comfortable with themselves - their achievements, their happiness, their status. The losers don’t show up and unfortunately a lot of people who were just solid nice people don’t show up, perhaps because they never felt that high school did much for them.That would suggest to me that if you hope to blow the jerks away with your present self-confidence and success, it won’t happen. They probably won’t be there.Bottom line; if you have friends or teachers that you would like to see and if it is not a major financial or scheduling burden, then go. Otherwise indulge yourself at the theatre or a spa and revel in the self-satisfaction that success brings.An anecdote comes to mind. The husband of a former colleague was bullied all through high school by a large jerk. When he finished high school he earned a bachelor’s degree and then a masters at a good local university. He then applied for and was awarded a full scholarship to a major English university to do his doctorate. On the day that he flew to England, he sat down at his assigned window seat on the airplane and looked out to see the bully loading his luggage on the plane. Sweet justice for sure.
Which is a good beginning for a school speech on bullying?
both are very good but i would start out with #2. You dont want to sound too harsh in the beginning. It may turn the readers the other way. but extremely good. you should become a writer
Do school shootings discourage bullying?
Of course it does! Even if the percentage of people actually willing to shoot up a school due to bullying is >0.0001%, the fear of death still hangs over head of people who bully.Compare it to the ordeal with refugees in America. Many people don’t want them there because they are afraid of ISIS sneaking in with them and bombing their stuff. But in actuality; the amount of refugees that are part of ISIS is almost zilch. But why are people still afraid? Fear mongering. Same thing with schools. If you hear about a school shooting ever other week, it’s gonna make you feel on edge.
Some people at my school created an Instagram account to bully my friend. It was taken down, but he still won’t report it. How can I convince him to tell a teacher?
Pros: The teacher gives the children a stern talking to and there’s documentation that this occurred.Cons: She cannot prove what students did it, so she’s actually completely impotent. She can’t punish a potentially innocent child, and the behavior presumably took place outside of school property and hours. What exactly do you want her to do?Bullies thrive when they hold the power and have a lack of accountability - which is exactly what they have here. You win some and you lose some. You lose this one.I would recommend documenting it (screen shots etc.) and any other actions (including witnesses) and presenting the teacher or proncipal with a pattern of bullying behavior. You could even inform the teacher but ask her not to act on it yet. This single incident isn’t provable so it’s not that actionable, but when presented with a dozen “not provable” behaviors administrators will inevitably take action.You can also report the bullying behavior to Instagram. Instagram presumably has strong anti-bullying policies, and it’s feasible that a pattern of this behavior could result in the bullies losing their primary accounts, not just the deleted ones.
I was bullied in high school and graduated with bad grades, as well as disgruntled about it to this day. What should I do? Move on?
Welcome to the club, altho my abuse started in kindergarten and continued through highschool. Sure you could get over it, but what good would that do ya? Could you be happy now that it was only in highschool and not day in and day out through out your lifetime? Do people roll their eyes at you when you walk into a room or speak? Do people walk over you daily by not paying attention to the words comming out of your mouth and discredit you that you didn't say what you had clearly said because they were not paying attention? I mean there is so much more that goes into a lifetime of being disgruntled. But ya know you could just get over it. I absolutely hate that saying. Because if people really understood they wouldn't say that. Words and actions can be just as painful as breaking a limb or a deep cut. But I never claimed it was easy being cheesy. I personally try to laugh at them for being idiots. I hear laughing is the best medicine. Still won't take my permanent froun away, but it does make life a bit more enjoyable at times.