Lose my best friend, because of solitude?
After being alone for a long time, I've basically decided to give up and settle. There is a woman who wants to be with me badly, but she lacks the one thing I look for in a lady, a good heart, she is kind of selfish and doesn't even think about her 9 year old daugther,(to me thats not good). Problem is, my best friend of 26 years doesn't care for her, and if I do decide to be with her, it will trouble him, not that he wouldn't try with every bit of his heart to get along with her, he would, just because of me, but I would know his true feelings about her, and I wouldn't want to bring her over to his place or hang out together, then the only time I'll see him is at work. Sooooo.... Do I lose my best friend/brother of 26 years and settle for someone I may never care for , or do I continue this solitude, which has been driving me insane for the past 16 years. This solitude must end, but waiting no longer seems to be an option.
Should I lose my virginity with my best friend?
I'm a virgin and I knew this girl for almost two years. I told her I wanted to lose it with her because she my best friend. She knows I love her and I know she loves me. and one day I was thinking “ I wanted to lose it with somebody who cared about me and she was right here all alone”….but she said something that I do and don’t understand. She said if we do that it gone to change our relationship for the worst. Don’t get me wrong I not trying to force her to do anything. She didn’t say YES or NO but lets talk about it tomorrow .I’m just trying to get a better understanding of what she was talking about when she said ‘it gone to change our relationship for the worst’ before I call her tomorrow .i don’t want to lose my best friend what was she talking about? i'm 18/male PS Please Dont Hit me with one of them "you a virgin wait" things....PLEASE let me know what she was talking about
Should i lose my virginity to my best friend?
Okay so i have been debating this for a while now... its not something i will do this month but it will be something i am planning to do soon, probably when school starts... or something... whatever... So i am catching feelings for my best friend, i think i really like him and lately i have been very... sexually active... im a virgin and i would like to lose it to someone i love and care for... the only guy Ive ever trusted with my life is my best friend. I believe he is catching feelings for me too since he texted me once saying "What would you say if i told you i am catching feelings for you?" and he said "JK" at the end... c'mon hes my bff, he is not "Just kidding." Not just the text but there has been times when i have him over to my house to fix my computer and there has been times in which i catch him staring at me and just holding my hand... i felt awkward (not in a bad way)... but since hes my bff i felt like holding hands was normal.... we usually did it at school too, and walking home... he once "fake" kissed me and then kissed me on the lips for like half a second... he tells me that people usually ask him "are you going out with her? (me)" and he would bring the subject up a lot too... i wonder if he does it on purpose just to see what i really think about if we get together or what not... he is a good guy, talks to a lot of girls when hes single but he is very loyal when he has a girl and i would know. i don't know i really feel like i like him a lot and i figured that if i am ever to lose my virginity to someone it would be my best friend... i wanna lose my virginity because i cant take it, im 16 now and very sexually active like H E L L ... and i know that doing it with my best friend wouldn't make me feel like sh*t and i wouldn't regret it... but im worried that our friendship could go down the drain because we might feel awkward since we wouldn't be in a relationship and it would be like "Uhh... okay we had sex... now what?... i cant keep acting like nothing happened between us.... we see each other everyday" and i wouldn't want to lose my bff just because of sex and i don't want to have sex with a perverted loser like the ones in my school... PLEASE HELP :/... im sorry and plz don't judge me saying im a slut cuz im not... Thanks
Should I lose my virginity my best friend?
I'm 18 years old (female) and going to college next year. This weekend, my best guy friend told me he really wanted me. He said that if I hadn't had sex by the time we graduated, we should do it together. He recently broke up with his girlfriend of about a year (whom he lost his virginity to), and if it weren't for me wanting to spare hurting her feelings, I would no doubt hook up with him. I would like to wait to do it with someone I am committed to, but the likelihood of me finding someone like that before I leave for college is slim to none and I am afraid that if I go to college a virgin, I will make a drunken mistake. Will it ruin our friendship? Will I regret losing it to him?
Why does it seem like I'm losing my best friend?
I totally understand how you must be feeling right now because I am going through something very similar.We have been friends for over three years now.there was never a time when she made plans without tell me about them.then a few months back we have become friends with new people and I got close to them very quickly when compared to her.when I used to hangout with them she always said she didn't want to come.days passed by and still her she used to hesitate a lot when I used to ask her to come out with us.eventually she got close with some people of our gang.she stopped calling me.she always talked about what she was going to do with them.she made plans with them and even though I was included in them I felt that I was included just because I shouldn't feel bad.things started getting worse with time.she never cared for me when i was sad.her priorities changed.one day it was too much to take and after months of me letting everything go I asked her why she has been behaving this way.the way she has answered made feel really bad.she is fine with our other friends though.I totally understand how you are feeling.i would suggest you tell her how you are feeling instead of arguing with her or trying to win the argument.you never know may be she felt the way you are feeling right now before and then stopped spending time with you.tell her that she is important to you and apologise if you did something which has hurt her feelings.sometimes even when it is not your fault you have to be the first one to make a move before it is too late.come to an understanding and leave what ever has happened.make plans with her and make it a point that you both do something together.Even after all this if she isn't the same I guess its time you have to start caring less for her and find new friends.but always be nice \U0001f60a
Should I lose my virginity to my best guy friend?
Slow down! LOL take a deep breath! You should probably try kissing the guy first :) hold hands start a small physical bond before you just jump into sex. What if you promise sex and you start kissing and hes a bad kisser? There is no shame in taking things really slow...he will stick around if hes a good guy and wait. FYI I would ask your mom for birth control....if you don't want to say your thinking of having sex.....just tell her your periods are off and painful...that way she can take you to the doc and see your a virgin (builds trust) and you have to be on birth control at least a month before your protected good luck and don't make this decision so quickly