I need some sad adoption Songs?
This is not terribly sad, but it might touch on your relationship with your birth mother. Everything to Me by Mark Schultz I must have felt your tears When they took me from your arms I'm sure I must have heard you say goodbye Lonely and afraid had you made a big mistake Could an ocean even hold the tears you cried But you had dreams for me You wanted the best for me And you made the only choice you could that night [Chorus] You gave life to me A brand new world to see Like playing baseball in the yard with dad at night Mom reading Goodnight Moon And praying in my room So if you worry if your choice was right You gave me up but you gave everything to me And if I saw you on the street Would you know that it was me And would your eyes be blue or green like mine Would we share a warm embrace Would you know me in your heart Or would you smile and let me walk on by Knowing you had dreams for me You wanted the best for me And I hope that you'd be proud of who I am [Chorus] You gave life to me A chance to find my dreams And a chance to fall in love You should have seen her shining face On our wedding day Oh is this the dream you had in mind When you gave me up You gave everything to me And when I see you there Watching from heaven's gates Into your arms I'm gonna run And when you look in my eyes You can see my whole life See who I was And who I've become [Chorus]
I'm adopted and I feel alone?
Like the title says, I'm 17, Adopted and sometimes I feel really alone and isolated from the adopted family mainly my mother, We get into arguments and every time she brings up the fact that I'm going to end up like my father. He was in prison for 5 years, and my biological mother died. Sometimes I just want to run away so I can get away from it all. I do not know him nor most of the family that I came from. I was adopted when I was 2. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one in the world going through this problem therefore I can't open up to anyone cause that would make me look pathetic to that person. None of my friends even know I'm adopted not even my bestfriend or my girlfriend of 2 years, He's going to be my "best man" when I get married. am I In the wrong for feeling this way?
Adoption Sadness and Loneliness ?
I think it is harder for your birth parents from Korean to found you then it is for you to find them. I think at the moment it is all up to you to find them. America provides such hope. They probably were so happy to have you adopted by an American couple because you will have the ""American dream" at your possession. It is affecting your life so you need to talk to your parents about it. They did not hide the fact that you were adopted from you so I am pretty sure they expect you to want to know who your birth parents are someday. Give your adopted parents a chance, talk to them. Please please talk to them or a counselor or somebody since it is affecting you emotionally and physically. Let us know what you decided to do ok. Best of Luck.
Why do adopted children feel so alone?
I won’t discount the trauma of adoption.I understand the problems of attachment.I realize that adoption is a make do attempt at building a family. It’s theater in the round where everyone pretends that this lemonade is not sour. Adoption is not the best thing, not everyone gets the best. When a baby is crying and there is no other, tell me what is the best thing?And don’t try to tell me that babies are stolen. People hand them off every day. They complicate the mother’s life too much. Babies are all work, believe me, I am dead tired.But, don’t try to say that every adopted child feels an emptiness. We can’t speak for anyone but ourselves. The happy ones go on through life, they go through the marks of personal development without scars. They don’t complain. They grow up. They find a partner and reproduce, if they are able, if they are not, they adopt.
Why am i so lonely?
I'm 20, an only child and my parents are old. (both 60). I'm also adopted. I have many friends but few deep friendships. I've also never had a boyfriend. All the guys I ever liked didn't like me back. It's not that I don't enjoy my solitude. I do. But sometimes I feel so alone I just sit in my room and cry because it hurts so much. I've been depressed for a few years but other than that, I'm high functioning and I get by pretty well. Other than that, I'm desperately lonely. I've tried to be nicer, sweeter, kinder..but I just don't feel like myself anymore.
How can I get rid of the feeling of loneliness? I’m an adopted child and I really have a lack of love in my life.
Loneliness occurs when you don't have someone in life you think the most important person in this world. People more often than not gives importance to someone or something, it's non presence brings loneliness in their lives.The real question remains is loneliness bad? For most of us will say yes. And there begins the problem. Remember no one person in the world is lonely or can't be lonely as each one always have someone. You just need to find it out. Also when you have loneliness in your life how can you be lonely?Love is something you can't measure. Amount of love nessary for an individual can not be calculated. Love is a feeling. Do not compare with other. It can come from any where or anyone. Your parents adopted you because they love you and you are very important to them in their lives. You are really lucky to get adopted. You have four parents. I am starting to feel envy of you.
Hi im 14 and im feeling very sad and lonely and i think im depressed but i dont know what to do.?
Hi im 14 years old and i have been feeling really sad and lonely lately. When i was 1 i was adopted and sometimes i wonder about my biological parents and that makes me sad. Also, in school i get made fun of alot by everyone ( even my friends) about my body ( mainly my weight) and my appearance. Also, i wouldnt say that im popular because im not but i do have alot of friends but i have just been feeling lonely lately . I have a videogaming problem that causes me to stay inside my house almost all day everyday and i feel like im loosing touch with my family and i miss them but im too addicted to my electronics ( xbox 360 and computer) that i cant reach out to them and i cant really express my feelings to anyone i know. Theres this girl that ive been having mixed feelings for that keeps ignoring me when i try to talk to her and thats lowering my self esteem. Ive been having suicidal thoughts lately and i know that i could not go through with it but imk hurting. Also, i never get any sleep and i smoke weed to ease the pain but i feel like a loser because of it and now my academics are horrible and i used to be an honors student. Also, one of my bestfriends is moving to California so i wont see him anymore. Also, my uncle is dying and i love him alot. I feel lost and that i cant find myself and i dont know what to do. Someone please help me :(