My "Best friend" slept with my ex, any advice?
okay so before I get started, if you're gonna say "ohh they were both single at the time so they can do what they want." please don't bother commenting. Anyways, so I broke up with my ex about a year and a half ago, and last night out of no where I stumbled across some crazy information. turns out my "best friend" and I mean my besets friend, the only person I trusted with my life, he was somebody I put high on a pedestal. in all of the 15 years ive known him, he's always been the person I always wanted to be like. that being said, I found out he actually hooked up with her and they both had sex about 3 months after we broke up, so naturally I might have been okay with it if he would have asked me, or at the very least told me he was gonna do it. cuz I can't and won't stop him if wants to do it. but seriously? didn't even tell me, and he probably would have never told me if I didn't find out. anyways I need advice, im in so much pain right now because I feel betrayed and I don't want to lose my best friend, especially not like this. but I know our friendship will never be the same now. please help guys.
Ex Boyfriend vs New Guy...What advise can you guys give me?
I'd say going for the new guy who wants to make you a priority is the best choice. I also think that the Ex is only interested in you now because he realized what a great gal you were. Sadly if he had been more aware of that a long time ago, then he wouldn't have broken up with you. Moving on with a new person you don't have any bad history with is usually a lot better than going back to something that wasn't all that grand. The new guy is clearly interested in seeing you happy even if that happiness is not with him. That is a really amazing characteristic and I think you know it is. You can "What If" until you are blue in the face, but you know what is the better option. It's clear to me that the new guy is the better and more mature person of the two. I know you have lingering feeling for the Ex, but those feeling will disappear fast once you stop worrying about his sadness and worry more about your new-found happiness. It's not your problem to see the Ex happy but it is your problem to see yourself happy. I say roll with a brand new guy that you already admit to being a way better fit than to beat yourself up over a guy who willingly let you go. He had his chance on several occasions and blew it off. Now it's time to check out something new and something that already is feeling way better.
NEED LOTS OF ADVICE!, FWB, BEST FRIENDS EX, AND SEX?
1) ok so i like this one guy friend of mine that one of my best friends dated. they have been over for over a year now andi started relizing i thought of him as more then a brother(WE ARE NOT RELATWE) which was what our relationship was before hand. i told him how i felt and now we have started to hang out together. yesterday we started having sex but we were interupted. we arent dating either. im not really sure where our relationship stand if we are fwbs or if its leading to a relationship. what should i do? 2) I know i should talk to my friend who dated him but im scared to. i dont want to lose her but shes always been touchy on the subject of me and him even when our relationship was that of a brother and sister (WE ARE NOT RELATED) and she can get kinda a violent when pissed off. should i tell her? and if so how? 3) we had started with anal sex and it was good but now im in pain today, it hurts to sit, is there ne thing i can do to lessen the pain and how long till it goes away? Thank In Advance
Should I be friends with my ex bf. We broke up because my dad would not approve him. He insists on staying friends for the sake of respect for each other. What to do?
If you plan to marry some other person then keep away from reconnecting with your exBF. Reconnecting with him will bring on old memories and muddle your thinking as well as your future life. It is OK for the guy for he has on his side the partiality attitude of the world towards males in contrast to females. So, move on and be happy.
My friend's ex boyfriend is annoying the hell outta me, advice.?
So, my friend Kaycee went out with guy named Rudy for like, a month. And thats alllll Kaycee talks about. Rudy. She's always bragging, saying that he's the best boyfriend ever. And that he's so sweeet and sh*t. So Rudy's always texting me, because he knows me and Kaycee are close friends. And thats all he talks about too. Kaycee. It's annoying, and on Kaycee's brother's 13th birthday she broke up with him. And Rudy was "heart broken" and he's always texting me complaining about how he hates his life. I keep trying to cheer him up. And he's still negative, he's stubborn, and only cares about himself. They went out 3 times and Kaycee dumped him 3 times. And he always falls for her. When she dumps him he'll crawl back to me crying and complaining. I'm getting sick and tired of his crap and he's annoying. I always ignore his text messages because I KNOW we'll end up talking about Kaycee. And now, he's "in love" with her and she has another bf. She's lying to him and saying she broke up with her bf 2 weeks ago when she didn't. I need some advice guys, how can i tell him to leavveee me alone and to stop texting me if all he's going to talk about is Kaycee? I really don't want to sound like a b*tch. Thanks.<3 **oh, and please note that we're 15, & 16 year olds.. and Rudy's an ugly, fat, nerdy, pimpled faced guy. (not very attractive.)
Should I get a guy friend to call my ex and tell him to leave me alone?
First block your life x's pathways of contact. If that fails get legal help.
This guy and I became good friends. He used to tell me about his ex and how he is still not over her. We started talking more and more every day and talking less about his ex. Right now, we know we like each other. What do I do?
Guess what, he tricked you into this. It doesn't matter if you like him too though.He played the “sympathy card” well. Is perhaps a genius- Oh, god why am I judging him?See, this is the ultimate trick that can do magic-Stop talking to him. For A period of 4–5 days. If he likes you too, he will persue you like a man in a desert searching for water. This is called the NO CONTACT RULE.You have taken the place of his ex, and he obviously cannot live without a woman in his life so I don't see any way he won't reach out to you.Now return, but be cold. Not the usual you. This will definately take you out of the “friend” zone — there is a minute chance of that too. You can't predict humans always.Now, if possible meet him.Look, if he was not over her ex, he would talk to a guy friend to share his loneliness and would have never talked to you considering you are a girl and you have the potential to replace her. The catch was, he wanted to replace her with you. And i am 99% sure of this. Anyway, since you like him, it's already done. You just have to put that offical stamp on it by following the steps given above.Good Luck.
In a secret relationship with ex's close friend, need advice.?
So I recently got involved in a relationship with one of my ex-gf's really good friends. I was with my ex for the better part of a decade and we broke up a couple of months ago but stayed on good terms and are still best friends, or trying to be, it was just the relationship side of it wasn't working out anymore. But me and her friend have had feelings for each other for a while, but never admitted them or acted on them till after my relationship was over, although it wasnt over for very long before this started. So this has been going on for over a month but we are still hiding it from my ex to spare her feelings cause we feel bad since we are both still good friends with her and feel like she would hate us both and assume I was cheating on her with her friend while we were still going out since we got together so fast after my break up. But lately I'm feeling more guilty for hiding things from my ex since we are still like best friends and this relationship seems to just be getting more serious and we are both kind of in love with each other, its all just getting crazy and confusing so I guess my main question is, is it better to keep it a secret for as long as possible to give my ex more time to get over me and get used to the fact Im dating someone else, even if its one of her friends, or is it better to just come clean now and tell her the truth no matter how betrayed or hurt she feels at first, at least we wont be lying anymore? Ive never been involved in anything like this before, just pretty lost I guess.
What is the reason why my ex doesn't want his guy friend to chat me?
Do you want one of your friends to chat to your ex? Then there’s your answer.i wouldn’t read too much into it. If your ex wanted you back he would say or at very least his mate would know how he feels about you and would back off.Common sense really you don’t go near a mate ex out of respect also who would want an ex back in their life via their friend I know for a fact I would hate this they are a ex for a reason.