Next step in our relationship advice? Fingering...?
My girlfriend and I are both 17, and have been together for the past two years. In that time we have taken the sexual side of our relationship very slowly, with no real need to rush into anything. The farthest we've gone is the removal of her shirt/bra and me kissing/sucking etc on her breasts. We've also rubbed each other in the lower region but only over the clothes. We talked recently and have decided we're ready for the next step (fingering/hand job). I was just wondering if anyone has any advice for when this happens...example, what I could do to make it better for her, if I should do anything else while fingering her, etc. Where/what I should do when I have to...you know. In a nutshell any tips or advice is greatly appreciated to make it a great experience for both of us :) Oh, and it'll be the first time either of us has had someone else do this stuff with us. Thanks!
What's the next step I should take?
Hey there!Accept the situation, rather than cursing it. I know it is easier said than done, but I'm sure it is worth a try.Let's speak about what you are good at. I know it is not always practical to pursue a career in your field of interest, but that shouldn't stop you from pursuing it as your hobby, right? It is definitely a stress buster, making you stretch your horizons. Given that you are a software engineer, I'm assuming that you have weekends off (most likely the case...let me know if it isn't so that we can find an alternative). This means, you have at least one full day to invest in your hobby (considering the other day is saved for something else). So, make use of this one day, do what you totally enjoy doing and I'm sure it'll make you forget your week at work. It'll boost your energy for next week and you'll have a less hateful week at work from then on. Speak to your family about how important this alone-time is for you, to enjoy what you do. Convince them.Now to the part that you hate your job...Know that you ain't alone there too. But trust me, hating your job when you can't afford to quit it, isn't going to help you. Instead, see it as a challenge! It is like you are a non-swimmer in water and the only way to survive is to try to swim. Try your best, for your own good. If not love it, try not to hate it. It is paying you, so that you can support your family. Respect it. I'm not sure about how much more can be told here, but I want you to try.Sorry if I'm rude, but not having girlfriend shouldn't be an issue! Like seriously? With so much to do, you shouldn't spend time thinking of why you have no girlfriend!Focus on your life. Rest will fall in place.Thanks for A2A.PS: Sorry for a really long answer.
My step daughter is making bad choices! Any advice!?
Both my wife and myself live with my 20 year old step daughter! She quit college away from home to move back with the promise she would go back to school this summer! Now she says she doesn't know what she wants to do! She work's part time for a minimum wage paying job and the rest of the time she is partying with a bad crowd who drinks and smokes pot! All minors! Sometimes she does not even come home! Whenever anyone tries to talk to her, she starts shouting and starts having a tantrum, saying we treat her like a child! I am getting her a much better paying job and now she tell's me she can't pass a drug test! I am so angry at her! I snapped at her this weekend and now she is going to stay with her father this week! She acts like a little brat! She is getting out of control! She has no respect for her mother and I am just about ready to lay my cards down with her! Give her an altermadem! Don't get me wrong, she is a good kid and I love her very much! It just hurts me !
Lab won't climb stairs. Need advice.?
I am totally agreeing with the answers before mine. Closed stairs, and/or Carpeted stairs are important to many dogs. when you get to your new apartment, first thing... FIRST thing, walk your dog around the area, then slowly, coax her to come up the stairs with you, by sitting on the second stair, keeping her on her leash, calling to her with your "call" word (come, here, or what ever) and quickly pull the leash gently, and release. she may come up that first stair just to be closer to you. Then continue up each stair until she is up to the top. Then to get her to go down. Keep her on her leash, and walk down with her slowly. I've never known a lab that wasn't "food" motivated, so keep trying that even if its a piece of your steak!! ha ha.Always keep your calm, and try not to get frustrated with her. That will make her even more anxious about it. Good luck.
So is this true ???need girls and guys advice?
ok, so your really shy, but if u and this girl stare at each other everyday and u pretty much know she likes you, you would be a fool not to approach her! This girl is obviously shy as well, which is quite an advantage, because if she was all loud etc, she would have talked to you by now wouldn't she? also, if your both shy, you wont feel all overwhelmed by her massive personality when you talk to her in the hope of starting something up. Because your shy, ur obviously dreading talking to her and taking things further, but just suck it up and do it, and think of how great it will be when u start going out, and it will do wonders for your confidence. She obviously likes you, so just go up to her and talk, ask her questions, make her feel comfortable as well, and everything else will come easily, and she will definitely say yes when u ask her out! good luck
What should be my next step towards post graduation, as I have completed my BBM? Should I take any online career counseling?
My answer is yes. You definitely should take an informed decision when you go for post graduation. To take an informed decision you need to do enough research to differentiate one option from another. There is no one option that is best for everyone.A good Career Guide (or Counsellor) is one who plays a very important role in your career decision making process. Not only, he would bring his knowledge and insights on different options available, he will also try to understand your skills and interests. He is someone who can be a trusted bouncing board and an independent observer, who will not hesitate to share his perspectives. Do not expect him to take your decision. The ownership and authority of decision making still stay with you, but hopefully it will help you to make a more informed decision. Sadly, some people spend more time deciding which ice cream to buy than what careers to choose!Career guidance or counselling services are widely under-valued today. I am not a big fan of online career counselling as the context can be completely missed out. It is almost similar to buying medicine online where you are ignoring the value of a doctor’s education and experience.Talk to someone you trust and respect. Talk to someone who has knowledge and experience. Before you pay a hefty sum for your post graduate studies, it’s worth paying a fraction of it for deciding what to study and where to study.Thank you for asking the question.RegardsSusanta@nicefit.in
First time sex help for a 26 year old virgin?
Hi I have been dating this girl for over 8 months now and am ready to take it to the next step. However I am 26 and still a virgin (for personal and moral reasons. I haven't found the right person at the right time), but she has been with a few guys. I haven't told her that i am a virgin, should I? Do you think she would be freaked out if i told her? Also is there any helpful advice? I know the obvious stuff protection etc... But any helpful advice would be nice. Thanks!
51 days since my last period, please advice?
i just need a little help here ladies, im just wondering what my next step is. well its been 51 days since my last period and i dont know if im pregnant or am i just really late. ill give you a few dates to help because i have irregular cycles. ill start from september. september 24- october 25 one cycle, then october 25 - dec 16 another cycle. then dec 16 - jan 18. one more cycle and now jan 18 - present. no period yet. i dont feel pregnant, no symptoms are comming up, no new diet, no stress, and no signs of my period comming. i dont feel anything new in my body so what does this mean? btw im only 17 if this helps.