Weird dream about my girlfriend, need advice.?
I think you're probably just worried and wanting to take care of your girlfriend. Maybe you have doubts about her that you're not expressing or that you're afraid of expressing too much of yourself with your girlfriend? About the issues trusting her well have there been any instances where you were let down by her? If not it's probably just that worried feeling that happens a lot.
Sisters..i really need your help to make a decision?
Walaikum'salaam Warahamatullah Wabarakatahu Sister There is no definitive evidence in sharee’ah to prove the minimum or maximum length of menses. Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen was asked: Is there a definitive number of days for the minimum or maximum length of menses? He replied: There is no definitive number of days for the minimum or maximum length of menses, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “They ask you concerning menstruation. Say: that is an Adha (a harmful thing for a husband to have a sexual intercourse with his wife while she is having her menses), therefore, keep away from women during menses and go not unto them till they are purified (from menses and have taken a bath)” [al-Baqarah 2:222] So Allaah did not make the period of abstention a certain number of days, rather He stated that the period of abstention ends when the woman becomes pure. This indicates that the reason for the ruling is menstruation, and whether it is present or not. When menstruation is present, the ruling applies, and when the period ends the attendant rulings no longer apply. Moreover there is no evidence for putting a time limit on menses, even though there was a need (at the time of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)) to explain the definition if any such definition had existed. If there was such a definition, it would have been explained in the Book of Allaah or the Sunnah of His Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). Based on this, every time a woman sees the kind of blood which is known to women as being menstrual blood, then it is menstrual blood without that being restricted to a certain time, unless the bleeding is continuous and never stops, or it stops only for a short time such as one or two days in the month, in which case it is istihaadah (non-menstrual vaginal bleeding). Majmoo’ Fataawa al-Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen, 11/271 Based on this, it is not permissible for you to pray except after the period has ended and you have done ghusl (full ablution). The ending of menstruation may be known from one of two signs: either the emission of a white discharge which comes at the end of the period, or by total cessation of bleeding How can a woman determine that her period has ended so that she can pray? http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/5595
Ok weird question, is it bad to smoke notebook paper?
smoking that paper ( if ink on it) is actually worse then if you were smoking cigs im not sure why you enjoy it because it does not change your perception at all i recomend weed (dont let people scare you about it) its the healthiest if your considering paper its not addictive ( and i hope the chemicals in that paper arent addictive to you) and its enjoyable there is a reason why 50% of americans have tryed weed and 76% continued to enjoy it after the first time
Need advice about weird thoughts that i cant keep thinking about?
Hi- I found your question because I was actually trying to find an answer to the same thing. Since I was young- even younger than you are now- I often had strange thoughts that I couldn't understand. Sometimes they were gay thoughts too. (I am not gay either, but I do want to say that it is not wrong, in my opinion, if someone is gay.) So, I have seen a counselor off and on since I hit my 20's and I have been diagnosed with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. I don't know if that might be the case with you- but there are a lot of different symptoms that come with it- and uncontrollable thoughts is one of them. Is it possible for you to start therapy? You don't have to tell anyone you are seeing a therapist if you feel embarrassed. If you can't start therapy- maybe look up information on OCD online- or try to go to a free site where professionals answer questions. Another thing that might help is start a journal. You can write anything and everything that comes to your mind and no one has to read it but you. It might help relieve some of the pressure you feel inside. And no, you do not have to tell your girlfriend everything. They are thoughts you are having, and that's it. You're not going out cheating or anything that is actually harmful to her. If she doesn't know you are thinking certain things, it is not going to hurt her. That's just my opinion, and I hope it helps in some way!
What is the best response if someone told you "still alive" when you asked her "how are you"?
“Aw, shucks.”“Want me to help you fix that (little problem)?”“Oh really? I thought the poisoned apples I gave you worked. I'll have to ask the witch for a refund.”“Really? I thought you finally died and your soul was writing things via telekinesis.”“No shit, Sherlock.”“Really? Too bad.”“I never would have guessed, Captain Obvious.”You get the idea, right?
What is the weirdest thing you have done that no one knows about?
Adult webcam workWhen I was at university, I hit a pretty desperate point financially. I was sexually harassed at work and had to quit (a little ironic given my next “career move”) and was having trouble finding a new job, meaning I needed a way to make money fast. Faced with eviction due to rent arrears, I needed a quick way of making money.For about two months I made enough to pay my rent and feed myself by talking to (and taking my clothes off for) complete strangers on the Internet.I tried a little damage prevention - not using my real name, age or location, changing the location settings so no one in my home country could see me etc. I had a scary moment when a user private messaged me my Facebook details. He'd managed to trace my photos to my Facebook where I'd saved them from. Luckily he was only looking out for me and told me to be careful where I downloaded my photos from. Man, that scared the crap out of me.The reason I stopped is for a couple of reasons, mainly because I found a “normal” job here in the real world. Also, because the whole thing made me feel numb emotionally, and like men wanted to use me for nothing more than sex (something I still struggle with as a result). I never got addicted to the money (or the long hours) and found the whole thing a bit seedy. Pretending to get off to (mostly) old mens weiners is not glamorous, nor is it a confidence boost.It's crazy looking back on it now, I’m not the most confident of people. But something about being in a desperate situation brought it out of me. I suppose it's crazy what people will do when faced with homelessness.I have the upmost respect for cam girls. Even the ones who make crazy amounts of money. There is such a stigma around the whole industry, people don't realise a lot of them are just girls who are trying to get by. Who have no other choice. Just like I didn't.And yes, I did get some really weird requests.
Sorry for being a pest but why is this world so weird?
Look at different advices people have given. "NEVER give up on what you want." -"You can't always have what you want." "Respect your elders" -"Always go for change" "Listen to your heart" -"Follow your brain" "Respect women" -"Show women who's in control" "Be a good nice boy" -"Nice guys finish last." "If you want something, you got to wait for it. Patience is key" -"If you want something, you got to go get it." and the list goes on...