I am in love with my cousin (female). What should I do?
I too have been attracted to my cousin. He also always flirted with me. He moved out and lived in the same city as I was living in. I frequently visited him and we had good and drinks many times together. Since we both seemed to like each other, we met often.One day when I was at his home, I wanted to get into his jacuzzi. So to avoid getting my clothes all wet, I asked if he minded if I got into it naked. He said, not at all and that he too always go into it naked. So after I got into it, he too undressed and go in naked. His dick was nice and big. He kept looking at my breasts and asked me if they were real. I said yes and he wanted to touch and feel it. I said it was ok for him to touch me. He then started caressing me and suddently started sucking on my nipples. I got real turn on and started moaning. He then made me stand and licked my pussy. I liked the way he did so much that I did not stop him. He then wanted me to return the favor, and stood in front of me and wanted me to suck his dick. He dick was already hard by now. I sucked him really well and stroked his dick. He then made me spread my legs on the jacuzzi and slowly put his dick inside of me. I was on birth control, so I really did not care for him to wear a condom. I enjoyed his thick dick deep inside me. We went at it for a while and then when he was ready to cum, I opened my mouth and let him cum in my mouth. He said that was the best experience he had. Since then, we have sex everytime we met.We did talk about no jus keeping it to sex and not take it to relationship or marriage because the society does not accept cousins and he was okay with it. We always have a great time together and have met with each other many times. I personally do not feel anything wrong with cousins loving each other and having sex, but I will suggest to use birth control and not have any babies.
Favoritism among grandparents? Anybody else have this problem?
I know that this is hard for you. My grandmother has always shown major favoritism. I was the oldest, and I was her favorite for a long time. My brother, however, wasn't so lucky. My oldest cousin (a girl) get's the short end of the stick as well, while her younger sister is treated much better. And the youngest grandchild is now the #1 favorite. She won this spot when I (not so nicely) told my grandmother off for treating my brother so badly. He barely speaks to her today. And my grandmother also picks favorites based on the parents of the child. I was the favorite because she thought my parents were too young to have kids and tried to raise me herself. Brother wasn't the favorite because my parents wouldn't let her raise him... So, I think you should say something. And not just once. And maybe say something to your cousin's parents. Make sure they know that you don't believe it's the child's fault. Ask them if they see a difference in the way your sister is treated. And ask them to speak up as well. My whole family calls out my grandmother. Children should be loved, no matter what. And your grandfather should be ashamed.
I think my aunt is cheating on my uncle?
I am staying with them right now, and my cousins and I have noticed some messed up business going on. It all started when she started getting guitar lessons, don't get me wrong but my aunt is a classy woman, we noticed she was taking in bottles of beer (sneaking them in) and looking seemingly tipsy after the lessons. Through the duration of the lesson my cousin and I snuck up on them and we realized that she was drunk flirting with him, and he was flirting back. His dad has nooo idea there is even a guy. After the lesson my cousin had told me she repeatedly kept texting him and 'calling' him for setting a plan date for her lessons. She has about 5 lessons with him a week which is weird. She wears more revealing clothing when he is here, and her voice becomes softer when she talks to him. She seems 'too' friendly with him and deletes her texts so we can't read them. My cousin was angry about it, and was telling me he wanted to rip her head of because he couldn't believe it. After that, one day at night we were still trying to investigate so we had snuck up on the father to see what he had done, he was watching *&3n on the internet, it was disturbing. We then later realized the two had a fading connection, the love that was there wasn't so apparent anymore. My cousin is so upset over it. Are they cheating?
Why do my parents not trust me for no reason?
I am a 15 year old girl. I am an honor roll student and I have always lived my life just to please them. They expect me to be inside all the time with them. But, how am i just supposed to stay inside my house 24/7? I can't hang out with any of my friends! One day they came to my house and I just wanted to say hi so i asked my mom if i could go right outside my door but she said no! They only let me watch tv and use my phone during the weekends and they make me give them my phone at 9:00pm. and i if dont then theyll ground me and forbid me from using it the next weekend. its sooooo unfair! who goes to sleep at 9?? I'm starting to feel a little depressed because they won't let me go outside at all and expect me to sit alone in my house doing nothing. I love going to school because its the only place where my parents cant go and watch me, so i try to stay there as much as possible; joining clubs. It's starting to feel like i dont have much of a life though, and if i dont have a life, then whats the point of living? nothing to look forward to. How do i make my parents understand that i am a teenager and that im smarter than to go off somewhere and drink and do drugs. i wouldnt do that! I just wish they trusted me a little. I have a boyfriend now and i havent even told my parents because i know they wouldnt let me do anything with him and they would probably take me out of my clubs at school because they would keep thinking im with him! Please help I really dont know what else to do!!!
My grandma favors my cousins over me?
it really makes me sad. i love my grandma, but she always seems to treat my cousins and sister better than me. i feel like i'm her least favorite grandchild. she always spends more times with my cousins. she treats them better and does special things with them. my grandma, my grandpa, my aunt and uncle and cousins all go out to eat together like once a week. she buys them a lot. she goes and visits them randomly. she never does that to me. and if i'm at her house with my cousins and i wanna eat something, she tells me to save some if my cousins want any, but she doesn't tell them to do that same with me. i feel like i'm always getting in trouble for stuff i don't do. they never get in trouble, just me. i hate it. i already told my mom this but she said just to ignore it. i can't! sometimes i cry because of this. help!