Guys check out and flirt with my mom?
Bob, let me give you a little tip: At some point, somebody thought your mom was pretty attractive. Nice physique, funny, smart - she hit somebody's buttons on some level. Then, in all likelihood, that same somebody had sex with your mom. That's how you came about. Good news: whatever it is, your mom's still got it. We should all be so lucky. What do you do: nothing. Do you want to prevent people from being able to see your mom? Good luck on that Cloak of Invisibility, Harry. Your friends say she's hot: there's a good chance they're right. If the comments run into the uncouth range, what you do about that is up to you.
I think my mom is flirting with another man - What should I do?
Listen in. If it sounds like it's getting carried away, go down there and walk in and make it awkward. That way, you'll scare off the guy, and you can threaten your mother and tell her that if something goes beyond what you heard/saw that day, you will tell your father. May scare her straight. Though, I doubt she'd have an affair right when her child is in the same house.
I assaulted a guy who was flirting with my mom?
Your reaction was completely over the top, and while your intentions were good, you have set yourself up for legal action here. I agree his actions were pretty forceful and evidently went past her comfort zone, but what SHOULD have been done was she should have said, "I'm sorry, but I'm not interested. Please leave us alone." As soon as he touched her, you should have contacted the owner of the establishment and had him thrown out. What you have done instead is completely blown up at a guy who was probably a bit of a slimeball but didn't actually harm your mother. She could have just thrown his number away at that would have been the end of it. I agree the touching is over the top, but again, SHE needed to be the one to set boundaries and put a stop to it immediately. If she was honestly unable to speak up for herself, you should have said, "My mother is too polite to tell you not to touch her, but I don't have that problem. Don't put your hands on her again. If you do so, I'm going to have to call the police." What you'll find is that people who are told this and are like this fellow tend to backpedal pretty quickly at any perceived threat. He would not be out of line having you charged with assault right now. At the very least, you need some serious anger management classes, because that was completely out of line.
My Mom is flirting with a guy on Facebook. What should I do?
While I completely agree with Andrew Weill 's excellent answer, I'd like to relate to a different angle. It goes something like this:CHILDREN SHOULD NEVER, EVER BE INVOLVED IN ANYTHING REGARDING THE RELATIONSHIP OF THEIR PARENTS!!!I apologize for writing the words "never" and "ever" only once.In whatever is going between your mother and father, you simply don't belong. In any shape or form. Not ever, not under any circumstances. NEVER. As others have wrote, you don't even know whether your father is OK by it, or whether he even knows about it or not. Just so you'll understand how ridiculous you trying to learn about this subject might end up being, let's assume that you decide to dig deeper, see what's going on, be your father's champion and protector. Here's a part of the conversation you three might have had, which I recorded, using my alternate reality time machine:You : "So, I was just checking to see that everything is alright, that you're not being hacked, like I was and I stumbled upon this chat, which I obviously kept reading, even though it has nothing to do with me. Now, I just want an explanation from you, mom. Not just for me, but for that magnificent man sitting next to you, the wonderful father that raised me, that you might have wronged."Mom : "Well dear, this is a bit awkward..."Dad : "It is. Perhaps I should explain this?"Mom : "Oh please do, daddy. Thank you."Dad : "Well son, as you might have heard, after a long time together, things are getting a little boring, if you know what I mean."You : "??"Dad : "Yeah, you see, your mother was always into role playing. I never thought I'd enjoy it quite as much, but that just goes to show you, you're never to old to learn. But let me ask you this, you've been around the internet longer than us and I bet you've seen a thing or two, got any ideas for our role playing games on FB? So far I've been pretending to be a somewhat famous writer, your mother loved it, but I'm running low on new things to write. Perhaps you can be some sort of our online sexual consultant. That wouldn't make you feel awkward, now would it? I mean, considering the fact that you were so comfortable reading those chats in the first place."Now, I'm not trying to say that your father had anything to do with anything and I'm not trying to make any factual hypothesis here. Just to show you how ridiculous a child will up end being, once he shoves his nose into the wrong hole.
Was my husband flirting with my mom?
My mother, June told me she wanted to start dating again and hopefully get married again. She had lost a lot weight and had bought a whole new wardrobe. She ask my husband if she could model her new clothes for him. He agreed. After she had showed him her new clothes she ask my husband what he thought of her chances of finding a man that would marry her. He told her with her great looks, a year from now she would have been on her honeymoon. She should plan now for her wedding dress as he knew she will get a marriage proposal soon. She said is that true or are you just trying to make me feel good? He told her men can not resist a beautiful woman with a great figure and she would soon be married. She gave him a hug and said you are the best son in law ever. Should my husband even be thinking about mom’s figure? For the record she does have a GREAT FIGURE. Was mom flirting with my husband or was he flirting with her. What do you think?
My girlfriend's mom thinks i'm really hot and keeps flirting with me in front of her husband.?
My mom's similar. LOL she and her mom are probably very close, and just joke lightly about these things. My mom and I are close, and she's always joking about my "big hunk of man meat". She doesn't imply anything around him, and he knows about it and just finds it funny. Well - a tiny bit awkward - but funny. It may just be a little joke between them. Just relax. Her mom's not going to try to sleep with you, hahaha. Her husband's probably used to it. Though, I guess I have less to worry about since we only visit once a year and they live in CO. Just relax. Even if she does try anything, just don't do it and inform your gf.
Why does my mom think I like every guy I talk to?
I don't talk about guys at home and if I do it's rare. If i do she thinks I like them and playfully teases me about it. Last year I texted a guy in a club I was in a few times. My mom thought I liked him because he hugged me. I wanted to go to the movies with friends. I said me, this guy she knows, and some other people were going. We didn't because we couldn't round up enough people and she thinks I liked him. She also thought I liked a friend of mine that I'd known for 6 years Now she thinks I like another guy friend because we texted a lot over the summer and occasionally do now. When teasing me she calls him the "shirtless boy" or "shirtless wonder" or "that dark fellow" because him and the rest of the soccer team did chest paint in school letters and he wanted to hug me. I said I didn't like anyone and she said she wonders about me and asked if I like girls. She's asked a few times and now I'm starting to wonder if she thinks I'm bi. She's also said I 'better not be kissing up on no little boys or girls'. My brother and sister also think I like these guy friends too and I'm tired of them guessing at something that has no answer. i don't like PDA(hugs are fine) and I feel weird when people ask who I like No I've never gone out with anybody (though my mom thinks I flirt with people and want to go out.) or flirted with anybody because I feel weird when they flirt with me. I still think some guys are cute. It doesn't go past that. I don't think about them after they leave my vision. If a cute guy asked me out I wouldn't say yes because of fear
Is it ok if my uncle flirts with my mom?
No, it’s not ok. Your mom should be loyal to your dad. Having said that, let us consider other possibilities at play here,It seems that your mom is hand in glove with your uncle. If she has decided to part ways with your dad and then settle down with your uncle, it is your dad who has to decide on any action.Your dad is also not willing to be in a marriage with your mom. This presents a favorable condition for divorce and both of them can part ways amicably.Your mom and dad love each other but your uncle flirts with your mom and is trying to persuade her to leave your dad. In this case, both of your parents should try to keep your uncle in check.I can relate to your situation. Sometimes I have noticed my uncle flirting with my mom. Once, during a party, he lifted my mom in his arms. he did that in a playful way but soon the situation got a little awkward. That was embarrassing for all of us standing there. However, his intentions were not bad and he never stepped out of his limits. This makes my case a little better.If your mom is attractive, you should cherish her company. Men will be pulled by her attraction but societal norms relating to loyalty in a marriage shouldn’t be undermined.Even after being pestered by so many men, my mom’s loyalty didn’t waver and she stands alongside my dad!
Mom flirting with a MARRIED man?
It is very wise of you to know how wrong this is for your mom to do but she is an adult and she has to live with her actions - there is really nothing you can do - you can try to talk to her and let her know how you feel, but I tend to think that your mom is going to do what she feels is best for her. The best thing you can do for yourself is to not let your mother's ways influence you - you can see the wrong things and you know the difference between right and wrong so you can try your best to do the right thing as much as possible. I expect that your mom might not be a very happy person - she seeks the company of a married man - maybe because she knows that he will go away when he is done with her - he has his own life - she doesn't want a man in her life full time. Your father is missing out Big time - he should be proud to have a daughter like you - and I hope that he realizes this soon. If this married man is around where you live, maybe you can escape it by going to a friend's house or to a relative so you don't have to be around to view this. Good Luck!
I'm 13 and I think my dad is cheating on my mother. I saw flirtatious texts on his phone to another woman. If I confront him will he be furious?
I think you have been given a lot of very bad advice in these responses. Well intentioned, but monumentally bad. Read the advice to this question when the age is ommited, and the subject is uncle instead of father; “ I saw a text on my uncles phone” (seriously, look up this thread and read the responses)Not only are there way more answers and views, but only a very small portion recommend confronting or telling anyone. In these situations, your best bet is to leave it well alone. Telling someone else in the family is probably the worst thing you can do. Your fathers personal texts and sex life isnt your business, let alone your cousins/brothers/teachers business.Are you prepared to find out that your mom and dad have an open relationship? Roleplay as other people via text to keep the relationship spicy? Are allowed X infedilities each year, or once to make up for that time your mom cheated last year? Are allowed to flirt and send pics so long as nothing gets physical? Your mom is no longer interested in men, so your dad can stray sexually so long as he forms no strong emotional ties? Your dads friend asked him to flirt with his wife to up the sexual ante, or see how far his wife would go?He shouldn't have to explain that to you, let alone whoever you tell, and who they tell etc. Some responses indicate you are really mature, but should tell someone older anyways to make the call for you? This is contradictory to say the least. The most mature thing is to not get involved.Unless the text you read said your dad planned to kill/hurt your mom, or empty the bank account before leaving, then leave it alone. The world is not black and white, and your job is not to step in and save your parents from themselves or eachother. Be mature, dont hold it against your dad forever like some burning deep seeded hate, you just don't know the context, and its not your place to know the context. You live your life, let your parents live theirs.