Am I a bad friend?
My best friend is refusing to speak to me because I've started dating the guy she has a crush on. We went on a couple of dates before she found out. She shouted at me, saying I'm a bad friend. I said I didn't know that she even had a crash on him, but apparently it still makes me a bad friend. She's now refusing to acknowledge my existence and has blocked me on Twitter, unfriended me on Facebook, deleted and blocked my phone number and is refusing to speak to me in person. Am I a bad friend? Do I deserve to be ignored?
If you had a friend who was in a similar situation to Romeo's what advice would you give that person?
Love is strong but there is a point when common sense should prevail. It comes down to "if Tommy jumped from the bridge would you follow" Romeo was foolish and his love of Rosaline was only a love that is experienced by a young person. There are other people in this world that could love him as strong as her and not be as mentally challenged as her.
I'm in a bad situation. My best friend knows it and could help, but just left me and went to have fun with his friends and family, while I'm alone and needing him here. When I tell him that, he says, "I care about you!" What should I do?
Well sometimes when you feel you need someone.. Simplest and easiest way is to ask them using your words if they can stay around you. You need them and their emotional or whatever kind of support you need.Believe me that is the only best way.. Cause not all of the people functions in same way. Sometimes I expect my partner to see a few things and understand my situation but at the same time he had no clue, only because somethings are needed to be said. So try talking.. Sometimes you can ask them if they can stay, sometimes you can request them when you really need them. So try to talk about it.Don't complain, ask them can you please help me with that.. I really need your help and this is the best time to do it.. I cant afford to put it off and you are the only one I can relay on.
Help me know what to do in this situation. I feel so bad and hurt about it.?
This guy at work always stares into my eyes locks eyes with me for awhile and looks st me squinting his eyes like he really likes me. I don’t flirt back because I am married. But I can feel he is falling more and more in love with me as time goes by. He gets jealous when there are other guys talking to me or a guy sitting next to me. He tries to flirt with another woman in front of me to make me jealous. When I try to ignore him when he is staring at me from the side, he seems so sad and sulks when I don’t flirt or respond back. I can tell he is hurt by me. He seems upset at me now. I want to talk to him about it but don’t know how to bring up the subject and talk to him about this. Can’t he understand I am married? What should I do?
Is it bad to make out with your friend's ex ?
So i have this really close friend ndd she had gone out with this guy that she really liked about 6 months ago . At first i didnt really like him cuz he always hurt her but then we became friends ndd my friend was ok with it . Just yesterday , i went to the park with him ndd my two friends , ndd we made out . I told her today at lunch and she didnt take it the way i thought she would have . She just stayed quiet ndd eventually walked away mad . She had told me before that he likes me ndd that i should go out with him ndd all this stuff but i do this ndd i tell her , ndd she gets mad . Was that a bad thing ? They dont talk at all ndd shes always saying that she hates him . So please help !?
Am I a bad person for stepping out of "friends with benefits" situation with my ex by texting him instead of meeting in person?
You’re not a bad person, you created a boundary for yourself and that’s great! You should be really proud of yourself for taking care of you.If the FWB situation was not feeling healthy for you (making you feel bad about yourself) then this was the right thing to do.If you’re interested in getting things back to relationship level with this person, please listen to this next part carefully.Do not contact him for 30 days.Do not text, call, email, drop by, or “show up” where you think he might be. Do not call mutual friends and ask how he is. Do not ‘like’ his status on facebook or comment.During this 30 days if he texts or calls, ignore him.It will feel like you’re being rude, but do it anyway. The only exception is if he somehow corners you in person.. then you are polite but keep the conversation to a minimum and say, ‘hey I’m really sorry but I have to go… I’m meeting friends.. good seeing you.” And walk away.Also during this 30 days, work on yourself. Go to the gym, occupy your time with your friends and family, and focus on self improvement and hobbies, and do the things you enjoy, with the people who love you.Buy a new outfit.. one that looks drop dead amazing on you. Might as well get shoes while you’re at it, and if you can splurge.. go big on your hair. Extensions are amazing and really affordable on Amazon, and you can have your stylist cut them into your hair so it looks like your hair grew 10 inches in a month! Other ideas are get your teeth whitened and do a spray tan.Sometime AFTER the 30 days, send him a text that will remind him about a time when you guys were happy together… “I just saw this amazing ____ (sunset, concert, whatever..) and it reminded me of _____ (time when you guys were really happy together)“ -Or- send an actual photo of a place you went together with a smiley (like you’re there again, maaayyybbe with someone else? type of text).If he texts back, also keep this exchange polite and short.. saying ‘hey good to reconnect, but I gotta run.” If he texts anything back after you say that, ignore it for a couple of days.If you get this far, email me and I’ll tell you what to do from there.And PS don’t cave on the 30 days. 30 days is 30 days… there are no shortcuts. No contact.
Am I a bad person in this situation (relationship)?
No you're not a bad person. What you are most likely feeling is some guilt though,because of the fact this new interest is his "so called bestfriend" You realize how you have caused a rift in their relationship. I am glad that the ex and you split. If it was your idea to break up, he is probably being defensive. If it was his idea to break up...he probably is trying to get revenge for being rejected after telling you he loves you. It is clear to me this ex has emotional issues..anger and control are evident. A lack of emotional maturity is not surprising...you are all young. However, he is now having to face his ex girlfriend and his so called best friend getting together..that is a form of betrayal that will leave a scar for him. I think it might be a good idea to clear your conscious and get some closure from this ex by letting him know that you can accept that he no longer found you interesting only boring as well as only worth calling names of how you look. He made it clear it was over and you both are now moving on. You have found some happiness and you never meant for that to be anyone he was friends with,so that is the only thing you feel bad about. Tell him you want him to be happy and be with someone who makes him happy. Tell him trying to cause trouble and negative for you is only going to keep him in a bad place. Tell him you wanted to have this conversation with him so he will understand why you are going to ignore any further negative from him. Any lies or false information he uses to try to break up your now relationship will be seen as exactly that. This is the last time you will talk about this with him but you truly hope he will just move on and be happy. It's his choice. Hope this helps a little. It's good that you value yourself enough to get out of an abusive relationship..it's unfortunate that the next involvement was with someone close to him. :( Good Luck to you.
What are some examples of bad friends?
I have had my fair share of bad friendships in all stages of my life until now. As you grow older and lead life on your own terms, you realize a lot of things about friends. The definition of a bad friend always depends on your age and situation.Childhood: The naughty boy/girl who broke your toys, who told on you to the teacher,who dint share his fancy toy with you.Teenage: Girl who told the whole class about your crush, a girl who spoke to your enemy, a boy who called you fat, a girl who missed your birthday party,a boy who dated your best friend etcAdulthood:A friend who waits for his/her chance to speak instead of listening: ME:Hey I got a new job. I am so excited and wanted to share it with you. I will be relocating and I am going to miss you. Her: ohhhhhhhhh.cool. Hey look I made this cake.Narcissistic FriendGossip machine: A friend who makes all your private information PUBLIC. Me: Hey , did you tell my very possessive boyfriend that I went out with someone else when we were separated? You know I wanted to tell that to him by myself when the time was right. Him: Yeaaa. But You did the same thing and told all our friends that I got a zero on the test. So we’re even now. Me: WTF!Favor seekerFriends you ’d never want to see again: A friend who is nice to you for a long long time, but one fine day takes advantage of you physically at a party while you’re drunk and still walks with his head high without any guilt.Life is a brutal teacher. I have learnt these lessons from all my experiences so far.Its better to have ONE good friend than thousand fake friends.Your job and family ALWAYS comes first:When you have to choose between hanging out with your friends at a pub and your dad’s simple birthday celebration, ALWAYS choose the later.Your friend may not give as much importance to you as you give him/her