Is it bad not to have a girlfriend?
Not necessarily. If you don’t have a girlfriend because you made a voluntary decision regarding this - maybe because you want to focus on your studies or if your religious beliefs keep you away from premarital relationships - then it doesn’t matter.But, if you don’t have a girlfriend because you cannot make one (i.e. women avoid you like the plague or put you in the friend-zone), then it’s a different issue. A man who cannot attract ANY woman has a serious underlying personality defect.But don’t lose heart. You’re young. You have a lot to learn. You HAVE to work towards improving your overall personality. I’m going to tell you how to do so.Go to the gym (REGULARLY)Physical attraction matters. If you were to compare a muscular, fit dude with a skinny/fat dude, the muscular guy always wins in the ladies department. Don’t do cardio all the time. Lift heavy weights. Weightlifting helps you gain muscle while losing fat. Win-win. Eat right. Get to around 10–15 % body-fat.Wear smart, fitting clothes I don’t need to explain this one. If you look like a roadside romeo/homeless/lazy guy because of your clothes, no woman will want to be with you.Stop hanging out with all-boys groupsYou cannot get a girlfriend if you spend your entire time with dudes. Duh. Make some female friends. You don’t have to necessarily hit on them. Ask them to introduce you to their single friends.Talk to random womenYou don’t have to open up to them. Just make small talk with the cute girl standing behind you in the line. Make a joke. Ask her out if she seems interested in you. Even if nothing happens, you will build up your confidence which is going to help you when you meet your special one.Develop your passion/hobbyEver wonder why that gorgeous girl in your class fell for that average-looking guy who could play the guitar? Or the painter? Women love passionate men. In fact, everybody loves passionate people. If you have a passion, even if it is academic or something boring, work on it. Develop that passion into something that makes you stand out from your immediate crowd. Be ambitious. Nobody likes to spend their time with people who have a passive/loser mentality.This is basically it. Getting a girlfriend should never be your “goal” in life. Build yourself physically and mentally. Strive to become the best version of yourself. Follow the aforementioned points. You’ll have multiple women vying for your attention in no time.Cheers.
Is it bad my girlfriend is horny all of the time?
So my girlfriend is horny all the time, which I m not complaining, but is it normal? And sometimes it goes to extreme lengths. Like on a bus ride home from Ohio ( a three hour drive) she wore a skirt to our concert we were playing at, and on the way home she took my hand and stuck it under her skirt. I ended up fingering her for about three hours. And thats only the beginning, sometimes she even begs me to touch her. To do things to her. Like fondle her in a movie theater. Its also kind of ironic how she is horny around me, but can cover it up in a second when our friends come around. We are both 18. What do you guys think? Oh and just for info. She is insanely beautiful, goes to church every Sunday, and by everyone elses accounts a good girl who would never be suspeceted of such things. We have been dating for four years, and all of this started when we first touched each other six months ago. I was her first, and hopefully her last :D
My Girlfriend is one tough Cookie to Crack?
I don't claim to be Wilt Chamberlin or anything but I have never had such a hard time getting a girl to climax. I have tried a lot of different things but I think she has some sexual anxiety issues, she just can't relax and let herself go. She starts off like she is having the time of her life and at some point she seems to lose the desire to continue. Almost like she is giving up on trying to orgasim and ends up giving me the face of why don't you go ahead and finish up. Please, I am open to suggestions/advice... otherwise I am just gonna quit all the effort and go for the speed record.
I feel like my girlfriend is the tough one in the relationship while I'm more of the passionate, sensitive one. Is this a bad thing?
Does she respect and accept you as you are? Do you accept her, for who she is? If so, it can work...as long as you never need to fix each other.You will have to work harder on communications than a couple with similar personalities because there is not the same intrinsic understanding.Give your relationship time to see, over the long term, if you can deal with your differences in a positive, loving way.Good Luck.
How do I make a tough girl fall for me?
Warning - Before you take the plunge let me also warn you that tough girls are difficult to handle. When I say difficult, I really mean it.I fell in love with a girl who was one of the toughest in her college/school days. Her friends never thought that she would ever get married. I met her in our office. The first thing I did was - I approached her, I made her feel comfortable. I took it real slow, we became friends first. There is a difference between stalking and approaching. Please, you need to approach and not stalk. It was real tough to get her out on a date, I did not give up. I never made her feel that I am not interested in her no matter what. I somehow knew that things will work out(You will get to know too, trust me). Today, I am married to that girl. P.S.: The girls who are tough before marriage, get even more dangerous after marriage. You need balls of steels to handle them. Trust me!!!
I left my girlfriend because she has depression. Am I a bad person? The cause of her depression was me, as I am too busy with work to spend time with her. I decided that if I cannot compromise, I should not be in a relationship.
Actually I’d say that you did a bad thing and a terrible mistake. But that’s acc. to my perspective, and my shade of spectacles . but as you said that you love your work more and can’t compromise, and should not be in a relationship, that’s totally obscene and pathetic. because if you had these values and these things in your mind and still went on to have a relationship with your girlfriend, and when your girlfriend was in depression and needed your help at the most you backed off, thinking what? ??you see depression is not a imaginary or a delusional thing, it requires a proper doctor and medication. and when you went on to have a relationship with that girl and became a very integral part of her life, and when she needed you the most, when she was very vulnerable, and you backed off for your work, then Mister you are not a bad person because there is no good or a bad person everyone can change or do good things which will make him a good person in societies eyes because humanity is over-rated, so I’d say what you did wouldn’t make you a bad person but a COWARD,PATHETIC LOSER AND WELL A MORON.SO CORRECT YOUR ACTIONS, IF YOU HAVEN’T.
What to say when meeting your girl-friends strict dad.?
Give him a firm handshake. Very firm. And introduce yourself: "hello officer (last name), I'm (your name)." and then ask him about his field of work or something like that. Strike up conversation and he'll like you in no time. The firm handshake is usually enough and is the most important part. Also if you sag your pants pull them up a bit. Don't use slang and be careful of what you say in general. Take out any piercings you may have too. Hope it helps.